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Cold Feet or Something More? How to Tell the Difference.

A case of the pre-wedding jitters is normal. It’s a big day with a whole lot of pressure, so it’s only natural to experience a healthy dose of nerves leading up. But when those jitters turn to something deeper is when leading psychotherapist, Dr. Deborah Sandella says you need to stop and reconsider.

“Many couples I counseled who ended up deciding to cooperatively divorce after many years of marriage said they knew in hearts on their wedding day that the marriage wasn’t right,” Dr. Sandella said. “But they were getting old or it seemed like the right thing to do, or they had gotten into it too deeply to change their minds amongst other feelings.”

Trust Your Feelings

If you feel like fleeing rather than a little nervous pay attention. In the end, it takes courage, to be honest about these things. If you aren’t honest with yourself and communicate your feelings to your fiancé, you will default into a life rather than choosing.

This is a Lifestyle Choice

Consider what it will be like to live together every day. Practice working out conflicts and different preferences before deciding to marry, so you either realize s/he’s not the one or he is. In the end, the happiest couples learn to compassionately work through differences into greater intimacy.

The Litmus Test

Every couple will have differences and conflicts to work through. It’s human nature. How and if you are able to do this is the litmus test. Having at least one person in the couple with high emotional intelligence significantly improves the chances of a successful marriage. You and your partner can take the Emotional Operating System (EOS) Quiz and discover your scores. If both of you score low, I suggest you do some couples workshops, classes and/or counseling before marrying.

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Dr. Deborah Sandella PhD, RN is a leading psychotherapist and international best-selling author of Goodbye Hurt & Pain, 7 Simple Steps to Health, Love and Success.

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Marriage Advice From Couples Who’ve Been Together Forever!

Define Your Style for the Big Day… and Beyond

Not all wedding events are created equal and when it comes to a bridal show that will totally help define your style for the Big Day and beyond, Gump’s Expect Everything Event is IT. Think tasty cocktails + treats, an entire world of stunning inspo from some of the Bay Area’s most amazing wedding talents and everything you’ll ever need to create that registry of your dreams. All happening on Sunday, March 26th from 11 am – 1 pm, this one is most definitely a must-see.

Whether you consider yourself a little bit classic, totally contemporary, all kinds of boho or something else entirely, attending Gump’s Expect Everything Event is so, so important. I mean, where else can you chat with the Bay Area’s finest vendors, soak in beautifully styled tables AND use that style direction to create a registry that will live long after your wedding day is over? It’s an event unlike any other and it’s chock-full of experts that will help define your celebration AND your life as a newlywed.

Ready to attend Gump’s Expect Everything Event and really dive into creating that day you’ve always dreamed of, plus get some much-needed help with your registry? Mark your calendars for Sunday, March 26th from 11 am – 1 pm and click here to purchase your tickets. (Tickets are $25 pre-sale and $30 at the door.)  From the amazing vendors to the endless inspiration, you’ll be totally set.

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Image 1: Photography: Joel Serrato + Floral Design: Kathleen Deery Design + Event Planning & Design: Laurie Arons Special Events | Image 2: Photography: Sylvie Gil | Image 3: Photography: Kate Webber Photography + Reception Catering: Taste Catering & Event Planning | Image 4: Photography: Joel Serrato + Event Planning & Design: Laurie Arons Special Events + Floral Design: Mindy Rice | Image 5: Photography: Jose Villa Photography + Event Planning & Design: Laurie Arons Special Events + Floral Design: Kathleen Deery Design + Cake: Perfect Endings | Image 6: Photography: Michael + Anna Costa Photography + Wedding Dress: Marina Morrison

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A Cliffside Ceremony That Will Take Your Breath Away

The wedding vision? An elopement set high upon a cliff with the ocean waves crashing below. And if that alone isn’t enough to hook you, the photos from Michele Beckwith certainly will. With Bella Notte Events by their side, Amanda and Chad planned a destination elopement on the California coast and brought in vendors like Skyla Arts Makeup & Hair to make sure their special day went off without a hitch. Spoiler alert: it totally did.

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From Michele Beckwith PhotographyDuring out first phone call, the bride Amanda described her vision of getting married on a cliff above the ocean. I couldn’t have been more excited and want to capture their intimate wedding!

The couple was coming in from Texas just for their elopement and I knew I wanted to help them make sure it was something really special by being their eyes. Despite being 35 weeks pregnant at the time I was determine to find an epic location and spent an afternoon searching for the perfect spot. Luckily my assistant and I stumbled upon this rocky location that had sweeping ocean views. We took loads of videos and send them to the bride. They arrived into town a few days later and visited the location. They loved it and instantly knew it was the exact place they had envisioned saying their vows!

Even though Amanda wasn’t having a large wedding with all her friends and family, she took meticulous care in choosing her details. Together with her planner, they made sure everything was arranged beforehand so the day went smoothly. Amanda also took great care in choosing her details that she brought with her. From her BHLDN dress, to their handwritten vows, the family heirlooms she wore, to the Tag Heuer watch she gifted Chad after slipping into her gown.

We knew the location on the cliff would be windy, so Amanda chose to do a classic updo to make sure she could keep here eyes clearly focused on Chad’s. The floral designer incorporated pampas grass into the ceremony circle to mimic the movement of the waves down below. Amanda even called up Ginny Au from Frou Frou Chic about sending her the most perfect shade of blush silk ribbon that would blow in the wind on her bouquet.

Since this was a destination wedding for the couple, their family was not able to attend. As a surprise, Amanda’s family had Thomas Hughes video fly a drone over the scene. The couple’s faces when they found out that their family had made the secret arrangement was priceless! Now they have a lovely short film that really captures the awesomeness of the cliffside location.

After the couple said their vows and watched the sunset during the portrait time, they hoped into a hired car and had an intimate dinner for two in San Francisco.


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Photography: Michele Beckwith Photography | Videography: Thomas Hughes Films | Event Planning: Bella Notte Events | Floral Design: Angella Floral Arts | Dress: BHLDN | Hair and Makeup: Skyla Arts Makeup & Hair | Officiant : Minister Maggie | Silk Ribbon: Frou Frou Chic

Get Into the Celebratory Spirit with these St. Patty’s Day Must Haves

It doesn’t really matter if you have an ounce of Irish blood in ya’ or not, when it comes to St. Patrick’s Day, we’re all one in the same. Decked out in green and downing Guinness, we’re all for good cheer come March 17th. And for those of us who like to go all out, we’ve rounded up the best items for your abode to truly get into the celebratory spirit. Get ahead of the game and add these to your wedding registry so you’ll be properly prepped for all the luck that’s about to come your way!

Go Green this St. Patrick's Day
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The Smart Bride + Groom’s Guide to Wedding Registries

SMP’s Wedding Registry ABCs | Unique Wedding Registry Ideas | 10 Must-Have Registry Items


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The Wedding Etiquette Mistake You Didn’t Know You Were Making

Manners matter, especially on the most important day of your life! But how do you deal with those sticky situations that will inevitably come up along the way? With the help of etiquette expert Myka Meier, founder and director of Beaumont Etiquette. From dealing with too many cooks in the kitchen to how to handle someone’s uninvited plus one, Myka has all the answers!

Your Biggest Etiquette Questions Answered
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Your Biggest Etiquette Questions Answered
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Can we include our wedding registry information with the wedding invitation?

I never advise to include wedding registry information on the save-the-date or invitation. The only place you should include your wedding registry information is on your website. You can also let your parents, grandparents and bridal party know every store and website you’ve registered at so that if someone asks them they can spread the word!

You can however include your registry information on or with your bridal shower invitation. After all, the whole point of the party is to shower the couple with gifts. You can print it on the invite or some stores can supply insert cards that can be slipped into the invitation envelope.

Can we invite some people to the ceremony and not the reception and vice versa?

If you want to have an intimate ceremony you can limit the people invited to watch as you recite your vows, and then have more friends and relatives join you at a reception afterwards. You cannot invite people to the ceremony and then not invite them to the reception. It would be seen as impolite, and there are better ways to save money, if that’s the goal.

What do we do if someone shows up with a +1 who was’?t invited?

You be gracious and ask the ma’tre d’ or your wedding planner to find him or her a seat. Yes, you may feel upset or even angry, but don?t make a scene or demand the person leave.

Can we have a small destination wedding and a larger reception when we get home?

Absolutely! Traveling to a destination can be hard on guests who don?t have the budget to get away, have small children or are ill and their doctor advised against traveling. If not everyone on your wedding guest list can make it to your destination, or you?d prefer a smaller guest list, you can have a larger celebration when you return from the wedding or your honeymoon.

That celebration can take any shape! You can have a dinner party, cocktail party, dinner and dancing reception. You can wear your wedding dress or buy a second one!

Just be sure to let your guests know on the reception invitation that you’re married and you want to celebrate with them.

How many people should I take dress shopping with me?

Most bridal salons would recommend less than 5 people, and preferably no more than 3. It?s more important that you choose people to join you whose style opinions you trust. You may make several shopping appointments so you can invite different people to each one. If someone is buying the dress for you they should be invited to join in the fun if they are nearby. And if possible, you should include mom in at least one appointment.

You know what they say about too many cooks in the kitchen? They say the same thing about wedding dress shopping!

How do we tell guests that we don’t want them using their cell phones during the ceremony?

Print your wish that your guests are in the moment with you and not viewing your ceremony through their screen in your wedding program. You can also have signage made and posted as guests enter.

If you’re concerned some people won?t get the message, ask your officiant to make a light-hearted reference to guests shutting off their phones and refraining from taking photos or video during the ceremony. After all, you did hire professionals to capture this moment for you so your guests can relax and take it all in, and see the pro’s picks on Instagram.

How do we let people know what they should wear to the wedding?

Dress code is usually implied by the date and time of your wedding, however it’s always a good idea to clarify on the invitations if you?re concerned that someone may not know that after 6 p.m. on Saturday night means formal attire. You can have the dress code printed on a reception card insert that goes in the invitation envelope, or have it printed on the bottom of your wedding invitation.

Your wedding website is also a great place to explain wardrobe recommendations for the wedding, and any other pre- and post-wedding celebrations you’re planning.

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Tropical-Inspired Wedding in Sunny Greece

With just one look at that bridal bouquet designed by Betty Flowers Santorini, I knew this Greek wedding was destined for the pages of Style Me Pretty. Of course, it’s no surprise when the bride just so happens to be the amazing wedding planner behind Tie The Knot In Santorini. She brought her tropical, boho-inspired day to life and didn’t overlook a single detail. Anna Roussos photographed, Mont Videography filmed, and I think it’s safe to say our Friday just got so much better.

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From the wedding planner turned bride, Maria… I have designed many weddings, but designing and now describing my own wedding is something new and so exciting for me. Being a wedding planner turned bride was such fun and creative process and our wedding was truly the happiest day of our lives.

On a small Greek island called Anafi, not far from Santorini, we chose to have our destination wedding and exchange vows in front of our nearest & dearest, on the beach with the sand between our toes. A fun, relaxing, bohemian atmosphere was our vision for our wedding day. While designing the wedding, I tried to incorporate elements that both Nikos and myself love. Details that would make us feel comfy and express our personalities.

Nikos loves to surf. As a tribute to his passion for surfing, we designed with Weddings & Whimsy a surfboard shaped wedding arch! I love tropical and botanical elements and I am a sucker for palm prints and cacti plants. This is why our wedding ceremony was held under a big palm tree, our We Wear Young favor bags were made by tropical prints and the tablescape was full of cacti details!

Potted plants of ivy and fern hung from macramé creations and gorgeous peacock chairs were some of my favorite bohemian elements of the wedding styling. Our color palette was a combination of soft yellow, blush, powder blue and loads of greenery! You can imagine my excitement when a few months later “Greenery” was announced as the Pantone color of 2017.

I loved our wedding style, not only because it was created by my team, but also because it was brought to life on the day thanks to Santorini Glam Weddings & Santorini Bliss Weddings (my lovely wedding planner friends) and all my wonderful girlfriends who were decorating the venue before they put on their beautiful mismatched bridesmaids dresses. After hours of hard work setting up for the wedding, they were there to accompany me while I was getting ready. We were all one big family on that day (humans & dogs ☺), this is a feeling that I will never forget. As one big family, we all cried of happiness, laughed, danced like crazy and had the time of our lives!


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Photography : Anna Roussos | Cinematography: Mont Videography | Wedding Planning + Design : Tie The Knot In Santorini-Weddings & Events | Floral Design: Betty Flowers Santorini | Wedding Dress: Nidodileda | Cake: Alexandra's Cake | Wedding Stationery : Bright White | Reception Venue: Margarita Anafi | Makeup: Renia Bledaki | DJ: Constantine Kalfakakos | Arch, Signs + Macrame Creations: Weddings & Whimsy | Bar Catering : Barflies | Favor Bags: We Wear Young | Sound + Light : Multimedia Events | Tableware + Linens : White Lilac

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First She Said Yes to the Dress. Then She Said “I Do” to the Wedding of Her Dreams

When original plans to marry in Aruba shifted, this Bride-to-be jumped headfirst into planning her revised wedding in NYC (and as the face behind Michelle Elaine Weddings, she didn’t even miss a beat). The finished results are pure perfection; from the subtle nods to her fur babies to a dress that leaves us breathless (found at the fabulous Kleinfelds). Mikkel Paige and NST Pictures captured it allget a look at it all via our Vault before it airs on “Say Yes to the Dress” tomorrow!

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From the Bride, Michelle Elaine WeddingsOur story began over 15 years ago in high school. We weren’t high school sweethearts, as many people think, we had more of an on-again/off again type of relationship. But no matter where we went, we were always brought back to one another in some way. In 2013 we had finally went on our last first date, and the rest, as they say, was history. As a wedding planner in New York City I was looking for something a bit different so that this wedding would feel less like work. We began our plans for a wedding in Aruba in mid 2015 in hopes to be wed by the end of 2016. Our plans came to a crashing halt when our Yorkie, Sprinkles, became very sick. My dogs are like my babies, so while everyone thought we were absolutely insane to re-work our entire wedding around a dog, I don’t regret any of it for one single second. With the condition she was in, it would’ve been impossible to do any traveling to plan. So I immediately began to reach out to my contacts here to get a new date on the calendar and host the wedding in NYC instead. We chose a Thursday because it was already deep into March and I knew we’d never be able to get married in 2016 on a Saturday in the summer months. My wedding dress had already been purchased, and yes, when I bought it the intention was for an Aruba wedding. If we were switching to NYC it had to be a warmer time of the year. Being swamped with weddings myself we chose the best date possible and that was it; August 25th was the date and we went full steam ahead planning! Very sadly Sprinkles didn’t make it through much longer but we made sure to incorporate her into as many parts of our wedding day as possible. My seamstress even sewed a piece of Sprinkles’ pink jumper into my wedding dress where it laid over my heart. Some time into our planning I was walking past a pet shop and decided just to walk in; we are huge on rescuing but something drew me in that day. As soon as I walked in I saw the sweetest chocolate colored chihuahua and knew I had to take him home. Chocolate Chip is what we named him – in honor of Sprinkles – see the trend of dessert toppings :) Not only was he a wonderful addition to our family but we got the honor of having him as our ring bearer, although he had to be carried since he was so scared!

With design and details I had always wanted blush, grey and ivory. I feel these colors are elegant and classic. I chose pieces from BHLDN and some from Etsy that not only reflected us personally but pieces that I could look back and still be in love with years from now. From the character and charm of the Marlton Hotel to the simplicity of our decor at the India House, I wanted things to be effortless and timeless. We chose the India House because it had that feel of an old townhouse in Manhattan. I wanted guests to feel as if they were coming to our home for this beautiful celebration. We opted for a cocktail style reception to simplify things. I was already making myself crazy over details and needed to cut back somewhere! When I got to peek at our reception room before guests entered I was overwhelmed with emotion. I walked into my wedding that I’d worked so hard on and I couldn’t believe how quickly it all came together. Soon after it was time to get married! I thought I’d might’ve used up all of my tears during our first look but the rush of happy tears re-flooded as soon as I started to walk down the aisle. Seeing John’s face light up and walking towards him knowing that I’d be leaving the room as his wife was one of the most magical moments that I will cherish in my memories forever. I felt so lucky to be there surrounded by family and friends to finally marry my prince.

Our wedding day is one that I could re-live over and over again. It’s so true that it goes by in the blink of an eye so I made sure to soak up every single second. At the end of the night, we headed back to our hotel, both so calm and happy but feeling like it was all just a dream. We’d both dreamt of this day for so long and couldn’t believe we were finally Mr. & Mrs. – forever :)

A very fun and exciting piece of our wedding journey is that when I did go wedding dress shopping at Kleinfeld, I got to shop with Randy! That was an absolute dream come true. I filmed the entire experience for Say Yes To The Dress during Season 14. Down the line they asked to film our wedding day, and of course I said yes :) It was certainly an added piece of pressure but the experience was once in a lifetime that John and I will never forget!

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Photography: Mikkel Paige | Videography: NST Pictures | Event Planning + Design: Michelle Elaine Weddings | Floral Design: JR Floral Design | Wedding Dress : David Fielden | Wedding Cake : Madison Lee’s Cakes | Shoes: Emmy London | Engagement Ring: Maurice Fine Jewelry | Catering: Morningside Castle | Hair + Make Up: Victoria Elizabeth Make Up | Calligraphy: Eliza Gwendalyn | DJ: Finer Touch Entertainment | Favors: Eleni’s New York | Groom's Attire: Robbie's Suits NYC | Ceremony Music: Rum Runners Jazz | Hotel: Marlton Hotel | Venue: India House | Bridal Boutique: Kleinfeld Bridal | Cake Plate: La Terrine | Doughnuts: Keyhole Donuts | Getting Ready Attire: Plum Pretty Sugar | Linen + Lounge Pillows: BBJ La Tavola | Lounge Furniture: Two of a Kind | Napkins: Michelle Edgemont | Ring Box: The Mrs Box | Silver Trays: Little Vintage Rentals | Spray Tan: Marcella Christine Airbrush Tanning | Stationery Design + Welcome Mirror: The Paper Studio | Wedding Bands + Earrings: Time To Shine | Wedding Dress Hanger: BHLDN

Why I’m Doing Two Makeup Trials Before My Wedding

This might sound trivial but one of my biggest concerns about our wedding day is having to wear a face full of makeup that makes me feel like a totally different person. I think a lot of women have had terrible experiences having their makeup done! Maybe you have too? Today, I’ll be chatting about why I’m doing two trials and some tips I’ve learned along the way with Blushington! xo, Mackenzie of Design Darling

So, back to those terrible experiences… I remember having my makeup done before my high school prom and immediately running to the bathroom to scrub off layers of orange-y foundation before anyone could see me. Even as an adult I’ve had makeup artists tell me to trust them that purple eyeshadow will look great on me because it will complement my red hair (again only for me to scrub it off in the bathroom!).

So while I’m planning to do a proper hair and makeup trial at the salon on Nantucket the day of our wedding, I also wanted to do a more casual makeup trial locally so I could get more comfortable with the whole concept. A friend recommended Blushington, a makeup lounge with locations in California, New York, and Texas. They actually do on-location makeup services if you’re getting married in one of those states!

It might not be a traditional part of the planning process but I’m so glad I took a morning to do an additional makeup trial and address this little fear of mine. I followed advice from several Style Me Pretty posts to bring in pictures of makeup looks I like, which was definitely my biggest takeaway from the day. It was also so helpful to have Mason, my lovely makeup artist for the day, share the words she’d use to describe them — fresh-faced, natural, classic, understated — so I can repeat them to the makeup artist who will actually do my makeup the day of our wedding when I do my real trial on Nantucket this summer.

Another tip from Mason that resonated with me is that it’s easy to start light (whether with foundation, eye shadow, bronzer, you name it) and add another layer if you feel like it hasn’t covered every blemish or you don’t think you’re wearing enough to show up on camera. So I’ll definitely be asking my wedding salon to go easy on the first application and go from there if we agree it’s not quite enough.

My final tip is to have pictures taken after your makeup trial. I might not schedule your engagement photos immediately afterward because it might be too much pressure, but something a little more formal than an iPhone selfie is great because it will show you how your makeup will read on camera for your big day. Even if you can’t meet up with your wedding photographer like I did (thanks Cameron Kelly Studio!), asking a friend who has a nice camera is an easy and worthwhile alternative!

All in all, I’m happy with the choice to do two makeup trials, especially since Blushington offers full face makeup starting at $55. Now in addition to bringing inspiration photos from Pinterest and other bloggers to my real makeup trial, I can bring in a couple photos of myself wearing makeup I actually like! Anything else I should know before my hair and makeup trial this summer? I’m all ears!

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P.S. See Mackenzie’s Coastal Engagement Session Here!

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Photography: Cameron Clark Photography | Makeup: Blushington

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Luxe Wedding Inspiration for the Modern Couple

If “luxury” and “modern” are a few of the ways you describe your wedding vision, this shoot is made just for you. Set in Long Beach, The MODERN venue played backdrop to this sleek and chic inspiration and Sposto Photography captured all the details you want on your pin board ASAP. More this way!

From Sposto PhotographyThe inspiration for this shoot was simple. Elegant luxury for the modern couple. We loved the idea of incorporating a private jet in this shoot to inspire couples to rethink their getaway. Why not fly off into the sunset on a private plane? After all, this unique venue is positioned conveniently on the runway of the Long Beach Airport in California.

The coral floral design by the ever talented Lavenders Flowers complemented the sky blue table runner. Mid-century modern furniture vignettes were styled gorgeously by Green Apple Event Co. and positioned perfectly above it all was the iconic blown glass chandelier echoing the starry sky of the night.

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Photography: Sposto Photography | Floral Design: Lavenders Flowers | Wedding Dress: Maggie Sottero | Hair and Makeup: Design Visage | Venue: The Modern | Candles: Creative Candles | Film Lab: Richard Photo Lab | Models: Lindsey and Tyler Dickerson | Planning and Design: Green Apple Event Co | Rentals: Found Rental Co. | Ribbons and Textiles: Tono Co

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Black Tie Meets Rustic for this Chic Spring Wedding

You know it’s going to be good when you immediately recognize the special couple; how could you forget an engagement as fab as this one? But the wedding? Even better. Once again captured by Love & Light Photographs and per usual, her pics are pure beauty. From the gorgeous Bride in her gown from Gabriella’s Bridal Salon to a reception that’s as chic and personal as can be, it’s an absolute delight. Between Sleep and Awake filmed it all live – see it below and more in our Vault right this way!

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From the Bride… What was most important to Mike and I was that everyone we loved and cared about was there to celebrate with us so we wanted to keep it local. We aren’t very traditional and knew that we weren’t going to get married in a typical wedding venue. We attended a black tie fundraiser at Stillwell Stables three years prior to our wedding and we both knew immediately we wanted to be married there. Once we got permission from a dear family friend, we started planning. First on that list was hiring a wedding planner. Paige of Gilded Lily Events was a lifesaver. We needed to bring every single thing in to bring our wedding to life and without her I don’t think that would have been possible.

For the overall design choice, we envisioned a soft romantic outdoor theme. We were planning to enjoy the natural beauty of the farm as our backdrop for the ceremony. However, Mother Nature wasn’t on our side and the day before our wedding we decided to tent the entire ceremony space. Ironically, our favorite part of the day was as we said our vows, you could hear the tiniest rain drops hit the sail cloth tent amongst our vows and the string quartet. It was absolutely the most romantic and memorable experience of the day.

Our wedding colors were blush, copper, navy blue and white Carrara marble. For cocktail hour, we wanted to create a lounge yet party like vibe. The sailcloth tent had a large black round bar in the center of it where our signature drinks were served; his & hers mules. Our escort cards doubled as favors and everyone loved their copper Moscow mule cups. The ceiling of the tent was something out of a dream. There was bistro lights intertwined with fabric swags and geometric lighting above the bar. Each part of our wedding day had its own theme/vibe and I wouldn’t have changed one thing!

Our vision for the wedding was black tie meets rustic. The barn itself was a stunning active riding arena that we transformed with floor to ceiling draping and hanging florals. Mike’s one suggestion was to have our photo booth in one of the horse stalls inside the barn. We used old white doors, greenery and a laser cut calligraphy sign with our new name and hashtag, “The Oppelts”. We didn’t want any props in the photo booth except extra-large photos of our two fur babies, Pearl and Reese.
Advice for future brides: 1. Enjoy every single moment of the day whether good or bad. There will be imperfections and hiccups that will not go accordingly; just laugh about it and live in the moment. As we cut our cake, the knife broke and sliced Mike’s hand open, all we could do is laugh and make the best of it! 2. Try to take at least five minutes and go somewhere private with your new husband. Whether it be the bridal suite or just stepping away outside. Take this moment to enjoy each other alone without all the excitement. You will thank me later! Your wedding day is about the new life you are creating with your soulmate and everything else doesn’t matter.

From the Planner, Gilded Lily EventsNicole and Mike were fortunate enough to be able to host their wedding at Stillwell Stables, however it is not your typical wedding venue. In fact, they very rarely host weddings at this venue so it was quite an undertaking. The horses in the stable had to be relocated, the barn needed to be fully floored, luxurious draping suspended, and the crystal chandeliers hung and lit. All of this was orchestrated to transform this riding arena into the black tie elegant affair that it was. Their wedding vision was inspired very much by their own personal style. Being that this was a riding barn, Nicole and Mike wanted to elevate the space using premium flowers, elegant linens, marble and copper accents and a soft, neutral palette. The barn was completed transformed and the guests couldn’t believe their eyes. Although the sight was stunning, guests were entertained the entire night by the incredibly engaging and energetic Hank Lane band. I don’t think I have ever seen a dance floor so packed.

Nicole and Mike had a very intimate tented ceremony with the soft sounds of raindrops falling while they said their vows. Followed by a gorgeous cocktail hour with a 16 ft bar that encircled the tent and Moscow Mule cups for every guest. It was truly a celebration not to be missed.

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Photography: Jessa Schifilliti, Photographer | Cinematography: Between Sleep and Awake | Event Planning + Design: Gilded Lily Events | Floral Design: Blade Floral and Event Designs | Wedding Dress: Reem Acra | Cake: The Vintage Cake | Shoes: Givenchy | Jewelry: Leonardo Jewellers | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Joanna August | Catering: Brennans | Makeup: Make Me Up Eva | Hair: Beautiful Hair by Heather Turner | Band: Hank Lane Music | Groom's Attire: The Black Tux | Venue: Hale Koa phineas Estate | Bar + Linen Rentals: Paul David Partywares | Bridal Boutique: Gabriella New York Bridal Salon | Bride's Makeup: Sara Talias | Draping: Drape Kings | Laser Cut Signage: Ever Laser | Paper + Calligraphy: Moira Ink | Photo Booth: Premier Event Rentals | Rentals: Party Rental LTD | Rolls Royce Rental: Concorde Worldwide | Tents, Flooring + Lighting: Sperry Tents | The Color Condition Cocktail Hour Swag: Patina | Vintage + Specialty Rentals: Dovetail Vintage Rentals | Welcome Boxes: That's Darlin'

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This is How a Wedding Stylist Says I Do at Home

If you’re considering an at-home wedding, please, please spend some quality time in The Vault with this gorgeous backyard fete. We’re not surprised at it’s utter gorgeousness with a stylist Bride at the planning helm—Joan, you have mad skills. From the lush florals by ModFete to her delicate BHLDN dress, Rach Loves Troy was there to snap it all up as inspiration for the taking.

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From Rach Loves TroyMy favorite thing about Joan has always been her laid back personality and ability to be nonchalant and casual about everything. Including how amazing she is. I am so lucky to call this girl a good friend and I have known since the day I met her that she that she is full of so many talents. She has serious style and is so business savvy. I could go on for days. So when the time came for her and Craig to marry I KNEW it would be the perfect reflection of her. Casual & Stylish with a whole lot of love. They spent the months leading up to their wedding renovating their sweet new home in Greenville, SC and sprucing up their backyard for what was sure to be an amazing event. Joan is an online marketing guru at Junction Creative Studio as well as online wedding boutique owner for Simply Southern Weddings so of course every detail of her day was perfect. Simple, stylish and elegant just like her. From her BHLDN gown to her gorgeous florals from ModFete it was perfection.

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Photography: Rach Loves Troy | Floral Design: ModFete Floral + Event Design | Wedding Dress: BHLDN | Film Processing: Pro Photo Connection | Rentals: Professional Party Rentals

Blending Organic and Elegant in the Most Beautiful of Ways

Are you a person that surrounds yourself with plants and florals? Then this gem is right up your organic loving alley. With a brick infused industrial backdrop and pretty, pretty greenery from Sweet Root Village, it truly mixes old and gorgeous all crafted by Kruse & Vieira Events. Pore through all that pretty plus so much more in the vault shot by Krista A. Jones Photography.

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Working on Kerri & Steve’s Mt. Washington Mill-Dye House wedding was a dream! It’s not often a client’s taste and style matches yours exactly but that was the case with this couple! The Mill-Dye House is a new venue in Baltimore and was a blank canvas for creating the romantic, cozy and garden inspired wedding of Kerri’s dreams. “We knew we wanted a raw space that we could bring to life and put our stamp on. We fell in love with the Mt. Washington Mill Dye House and knew it was the one as soon as we saw it. “

With a neutral palate featuring wooden, linen and metallic accents the space came alive thanks to the amazing florals and several installations from Sweet Root Village. The ceiling was adorned with greenery chandeliers to cozy up the raw space. The wooden head table featured a horizontal greenery installation and gauzy linen runner. There ceremony and cocktail hour were held in the courtyard outside of the wedding on a balmy September evening — complete with a custom wooden bar, loose organic greenery and a beautiful draped ceremony installation. Guests danced all night under twinkle lights — grabbing drinks from a beautiful (huge!) vintage bar.

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Photography: Krista A. Jones Photography | Videography: Wood Room Cinema | Floral Design: Sweet Root Village | Wedding Gown: Sarah Seven | Cake: Sugar Bakers Cakes | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Hayley Paige | Catering: Copper Kitchen | Makeup: Updos For I Dos | Hair: Rachel Lee (Bride's Sister-In-Law) | Calligraphy: Laura Hooper Calligraphy | Groom's Attire: Suitsupply | Officiant: Kiko Garcia | Brides Jewelry: BHLDN | Ceremony Musicans: Kiss Kiss Players | Draping: Event Dynamics | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Mill: Mt. Washington Mill Dye House | Planning and Design: Kruse & Vieira Events | Reception Band: Prime Time | Rentals: White Glove Rentals

This Garden Shower Could Pass as a Wedding… It’s that Pretty

At first glance, this garden party is gorgeous enough to pass for a wedding. Like the most gorgeous wedding on the planet. Fashioned after a favorite childhood classic, the Petit Prince, Bob Gail Special Events dreamed up an all white bebe extravaganza. This included greenery and garden roses galore crafted by The Velvet Garden, a line-up of delicious cakes and sweets by Vanilla Bake Shop and of course the most stunning of imagery by Elizabeth Messina. Click here for so much more!

To shower this beautiful mama and baby boy-to-be, we created an environment inspired by her favorite children’s story, The Petit-Prince. Via a custom embossed and letterpressed miniature book featuring Petit Prince-inspired illustrations crafted by Lehr and Black, guests were invited to gather at the iconic Swan Lake at Hotel Bel Air for an al fresco luncheon. G

Guests entered the party between to greenery-covered chandeliers and an archway, with the foliage spelling out the word “Bebe,” and were greeted with signature cocktails, and carefully curated tray-passed hors d’oeuvres as a French-inspired Jazz trio played background music. The escort card display featured a custom boxwood and flower wall with a lattice pattern of roses, and individual frames with each guests table assignment.

Guests were seated at long king’s tables dressed with embroidered white linen, and topped with lush greenery and cream flowers and vintage gold candelabras. Each place setting featured layers of patterned china, pewter flatware and Czech crystal glassware, hemstitched napkins and a small tied bouquet of lavender with each guest’s name hand-calligraphed to indicate their place setting.

A “library” set up with a vintage desk and lace umbrella adorned with hanging symbols from the famed Petit Prince offered guests an opportunity to leave notes of love and advice for the mama and baby-to-be and a custom lace canopy topped with umbrellas—a subtle nod to the “baby shower” with velvet furniture provided the perfect place for the guest of honor to open gifts.

Lunch featured fresh, seasonal fare while dessert was offered at a “Patisserie,” crafted from the existing gazebo, which was embellished with custom lace fabric tie-backs, flowing floral ties, and a vintage bar with the menu of the sweet treats hand calligraphed on its front. Desserts of Parisian macaron towers, and baby-themed cookies and treats alongside a handmade cake topped with a baby carriage finished off the look.

Photography: Elizabeth Messina | Event Design: Bob Gail Special Events | Event Planning: Bob Gail Special Events | Floral Design: The Velvet Garden | Dress: Samantha Elizabeth Designs | Catering: Hotel Bel Air | Make Up: Makeup Therapy | Hair: The Salon By Maxime | Calligraphy: Laura Hooper Calligraphy | Hotel: Hotel Bel-Air | Cake & Desserts: Vanilla Bake Shop | Chair Rentals: Revelry Event Designers | Draping: BAM Draping | Invitations & Printing: Lehr and Black | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Macaron Towers: Bottega Louie | Music: Bob Gail Special Events | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Rentals: Found Rental Co. | Tabletop Rentals: Casa de Perrin

When a Victoria’s Secret Model Ties the Knot

If you were to imagine a dream, Southern style wedding it would be this very celebration. One that stars Victoria’s Secret model, Lindsay Ellingson, no less. From sweeping dock views to Spanish Moss draped trees and a Bride and Groom dressed to the nines (plus the cutest little fur baby too), this Low Country wedding is as charming as it gets. Peek inside the gallery for even more planned by Ashley Rhodes Events, along with florals by Em Creative Floral and all captured by Perry Vaile.

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Photography: Perry Vaile Photography | Videography: Life In Rewind | Event Planning: Ashley Rhodes Events | Floral Design: Em Creative Floral | Dress: Sophie Theallet | Cake: Signe's Heaven Bound Bakery and Cafe | Invitations: Emily McCarthy | Shoes: Jimmy Choo | Bridesmaid Dresses: Joanna August | Makeup: Meredith Baraf | Hair: Bradley Irion | Groom's Attire: Tom Ford | Venue: Montage Palmetto Bluff | Rentals: Snyder Event Rentals

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This Mama-To-Be Bride was Glowing on Her Wedding Day

A wedding day in itself is already filled with so much joy. But when the Bride has a little extra reason to glow thanks to a sweet babe on the way? That joy is taken to the next level my friends and this beauty is proof. How lovely is that dress?! K and K Photography and Voila Cinematic captured Bob & Kristie’s entire day with such care and you can melt over it all in The Vault.

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From the Bride… After many years of thinking that ‘Happily Ever After’ was only a thing only in fairytales, we met and finally all of those cheesy, ooey-gooey, love-filled songs on the radio made sense. It was head over heels from day one…not your ordinary love, one of great magnitude and a depth that would make the ocean blush (I bet all of you brides reading this, can nod your head in agreement about your special someone, too!). We knew we were going to spend eternity together and start a family.

Okay, so you’ve found the perfect man—now you need to find the perfect venue, dress, flowers, cake, food… is your head starting to spin yet? I was in your shoes. Bob and I are very laid back and wanted our wedding to reflect that trait. We stumbled upon Cross Creek Ranch, as it is just minutes from our home and had stellar reviews—we had to see it for ourselves. From the first visit with the extremely helpful staff and coordinators there (that will soon turn into members of your own family) we knew we had our dream venue. Majestic oak trees, winding pathways, blooming gardens, and rustic character touches make this property stand out from your typical ‘cookie-cutter’ venue.

As if this venue was not naturally stunning as it, Alta Fleura shipped in over 10,000 flowers to add a sense (and smell) of romanticism. This extremely skillful team assembled a live flower wall that weighed over 800 lbs and smelled even more fragrant than it weighed! They covered the bridge that quaintly stretched over the bubbling brook below. Everywhere your eyes took you, there were flowers splashed so elegantly, accentuating the beautiful decor.

We chose soft blush and gold tones to play up the romantic, free-flowing, relaxed atmosphere that we had in our minds. Most importantly, we wanted our guests to have fun, feel comfortable, and soak up all the love in the air. Think about all of those boring, drawn-out, look at your watch every 10 minute kind of weddings that you had the ‘pleasure’ of attending (sorry, but you know what I’m talking about!) Our friends and family have been there for us through it all and we wanted our wedding to be but a small gift to them for all that they have done. Think about it, these are your most favorite people in the world!

After a teary-eyed first peek, where we exchanged cards to one another, it was time to say ‘I Do’. Pastor Brian led the ceremony inside the chapel that had 150 year old wood floors & our famous flower wall… I wish I could have one in my house 24/7! The ceremony was sentimental, had a few crowd-pleasing laughs, tears, and of course a BIG KISS! Pastor Brian was very down to earth and relatable, enough that our guests felt the connection to us and to their special someone as well. It was short and sweet. The perfect amount… we said I Do and everyone walked across the lawn to cocktail hour, just outside the rustic barn area where they were greeted with our signature drinks: “Something Blue” and “Say ‘I DO’ Sangria”. Everyone loved them!

No one wants to be stuck in uncomfortable shoes, sweating hot and listening to elevator music, so I made sure to have some fun DIY crafts on hand: Lavender Oshiburi towels (refrigerated) to keep guests cool, hand-held fans to ensure you were feeling the breeze, flip flops by the dance floor so no on had an excuse NOT to get up and bust-a-move, and a few other personal touches. We truly made our wedding day our own… and it was so special, not just for us but for everyone involved.

The sun began to set, dinner was in our bellies, cake served, and everyone was still talking about how VESH Catering & Alessi Bakery truly delivered—this was not your typical wedding food and our cake was moist and flavorful! Okay, now I’m daydreaming about prime rib and chocolate cheesecake layered cake. The bonfire was lit and s’mores were a huge hit with our guests, who doesn’t feel like a worry-free kid again eating gooey s’more?!

K&K Photography and Violá Cinematic immersed themselves into our wedding, they were extremely professional without being stale and the ‘typical’ stand here, say cheese, do this, do that kind of photographer/cinematographer. They allowed us to be ourselves… laugh, crack jokes, shed a sentimental tear, and enjoy the moment. The photos and videos truly reflect the love and fun that was at our wedding.

My favorite part of our wedding day, is that our Son, Tyler was able to experience it with us… from inside my tummy. Yes, I was 6 1/2 months pregnant at the time of my wedding. It was a beautiful experience. Having said that… most brides would cringe about trying to locate a dress for their ever-growing baby bump. My dress, with the help & style guidance from the super-fun employees of The White Magnolia, could not have been any more perfect. It was ‘me’, not ‘pregnant me’. I loved how it was tailored in just the rights spots and free-flowing and whimsical.

When going to plan your special day, my advice is to think of things from your guest’s perspective. Don’t go overboard trying to plan every minute, but think about what’s important to you and yours & share those elements with your guests. It will authenticate your special day and allow everyone to partake in that grand love you two share. Wishing you all a beautiful wedding and a story-book love that lasts until the end of time.

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Photography: K and K Photography, LLC | Videographer: Voila Cinematic | Florals: Alta Fleura | Catering: Vesh Catering | Officiant: Pastor Brian Jones | Wedding Venue: Cross Creek Ranch | Bride's Dress: The White Magnolia | Desserts & Cake: Alessi Bakery

Want to Purchase Your Wedding Gown For Up To 90% Off? This is how.

You know there’s nothing we love more than spending our day wrapped up in some wedding pretty, so when Michelle Roth & Henry Roth told us about their upcoming sample sale, we just HAD to share. Think two of our fave designers, a whole lot of beautiful gowns and prices that are the definition of the term “blowout”. (We’re talking up to 90% off, you guys.) Mark those calendars for Saturday, March 18th, because this is one event you simply can’t miss out on.

When it comes to drop-dead gorgeous wedding gowns, it’s a well-known fact that you can’t go wrong with Michelle Roth & Henry Roth. I’m talking sophisticated fabrics, stunning (+ seriously flattering) silhouettes and wow-inducing details that will leave all of your guests talking. But you know what’s better than walking down the aisle in a Michelle Roth or Henry Roth creation? Walking down the aisle in one that you purchased for up to 90% off. Yep, that’s a stop-you-in-your-tracks design for $150-$450, plus some of the most amazing customer service you’ll ever receive from the team at Hallak, i.e., expert alterations packages, storage options, post-wedding dry cleaning AND preservation. There will even be special promotions throughout the day. You guys, this is awesome.

Ready to find that dream gown at a price that will make your wedding budget sooo happy? Visit Hallak on Saturday, March 18th from 11 am – 3 pm at their 1232 Second Avenue location (between 64th & 65th Streets). You can peruse all of the gorgeous styles (including plus sizes), plus veils, belts and hair jewelry. And don’t forget to mention Style Me Pretty and receive $25 off the price of your dress. Lovely.

The Best Ever Dry Shampoo for 2nd (3rd and Even 4th!) Day Hair

Who has time to wash their hair each and every day? If you do, I envy you but for the majority of the population hair washing is an every other day occurrence and dry shampoo is our secret weapon. Check out the products we love, the ones our friends swear by and the dry shampoo that will keep your hair on point even if it’s been 2+ days since you had a date with your shower.

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5 Things You Should Wait To Do Until You Find Your Wedding Venue

Finding your venue is one of the first steps in the wedding planning process (and can also be one of the most challenging!). There are plenty of things you should keep in mind when starting your search, but what about those things you should hold off on? I’m looking at you, over-planners. I was one of them myself! From dress shopping to securing the final guest list, make sure to hold off on these five things until you’ve found your perfect spot.

Hiring a Coordinator

Not to be confused with an event planner! A planner can be such a great resource in helping you find your perfect venue to begin with. But if you’re not hiring a planner or yours doesn’t offer day of services—hold off on hiring a coordinator until you know if your venue offers one for day of assistance. This was something my wedding venue offered and I’m thankful I didn’t hire one of the few I had chatted with beforehand. Lots of venues don’t offer this, so you very well may need to hire one. Check out our Vendor Guide to get started!

Hold Off on Dress Shopping

This can be a toughie, especially if you’ve been eyeing your dream dress for months (or years). But think about it like this—would you buy a dress as a guest to a wedding without knowing where it is? Probably not. You want to know the setting to make sure your style fits. That ballroom gown might be calling your name but if you end up having a casual coastal fete, it may not be THE one.

Selecting Stationery

This one is obvious for the date and location—of course you need to know your venue before doing this part! But you’ll also want to hold off on selecting your stationery design so you can tie it into your venue. We like to think of a save-the-date or invitation as your wedding’s first impression. Give your soiree a cohesive feel from start to finish by holding off on choosing your design until you’ve selected a venue.

The Final, Final Guest List

Going into your venue hunt, it’s very helpful to have a close to final guest list count. But this doesn’t mean you need to know an exact count! Choosing a venue we loved was on my husband and I’s top three priority list and we were willing to cut down our guest list to make that happen. Don’t shout out to the world and promise your distant relatives and once-a-year friends an invitation before you find your perfect venue. Once you’ve secured it, go ahead and create that final, FINAL guest list.

Outsourcing

You might have good intentions and want to start crossing to do’s off the list early on, but make sure to wait on researching other vendors until after you’ve secured a venue. Similarly to hiring a coordinator, your venue might have lots of in-house resources, preferred vendors that’ll give you a discount or vendors that specifically work at that venue on a regular basis. So before you put time and effort into researching lighting, linens, rentals and more, find out what your venue offers first.

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These Ireland-Inspired Products are a Must for Any Registry

Ireland is one of those places that falls on everyone’s bucket list for sure. So when The Registry at Bloomingdale’s announced they were teaming up with Waterford for an Ireland giveaway, we knew we had to pop the bubbly and celebrate. Think stunning products meets the trip of a lifetime with FOUR full nights in total luxury. Pack those bags and see our Ireland-inspired registry picks below.

Dublin is a place that is known for historic hot-spots and crazy adventures. So before you jet off to the capital city for some mountain biking and chilly dips in the ocean, be sure to fill your registry with some of our fave options that will always remind you of your time spent in The Fair City. Oh, and don’t forget to take advantage of The Registry at Bloomingdale’s awesome Completion Offer – 10% off six months post-wedding AND 20% off on one day of your choosing three months after the “I do’s”. You’ll even receive a $100 splurge card when you spend $500 or more.

The oldest city in all of Ireland, Waterford is the sort of locale you just fall in love with. Because not only does it house the Waterford Factory in all its glory, it’s also brimming with amazing activities that will fill your heart with happy loooong after your trip is over. Want to remember your times in Waterford every single day after? Browse our top registry picks, then head to The Registry at Bloomingdale’s for their awesome perks + benefits, including discounts on jewelry and attire, a Thank You Manager, a Registry Checklist and a mobile Big Brown App. We love it.

Galway is all about seaside partying, so when it comes to paying ode to the fresh “catch of the day” and seriously stunning beaches, we suggest adding beautiful dining products to your registry for endless entertaining. Need help cultivating the perfect list? Chat with your talented Registry Consultant at The Registry at Bloomingdale’s for all of the guidance you’ve ever wanted.

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From amazing kitchen must-haves to gorgeous home decor to outdoor living essentials, The Registry at Bloomingdale’s has everything you’ll ever need to bring a little “Ireland” to your abode. Celebrate your obsession with all things green and beautiful by opening your registry today, then be sure to enter to win the trip of a lifetime… details are below.

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What: Open a qualifying registry at The Registry at Bloomingdale’s through March 31st* to be entered to win a trip to Ireland!

Who: One grand prize winner will receive roundtrip airfare to Ireland courtesy of The Travel Siblings, a luxurious 4-night stay in 5-star accommodations, transportation and activities, an elegant selection of Waterford designs and more!

Terms and Conditions: Can be found right here. Good luck, loves! xo

*$6,500 worth of items must be added to your registry by March 31, 2017.

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Dublin Photography: D’Arcy Benincosa | Dublin Registry Picks: 1. Monique Lhuillier Waterford Stardust Dinnerware 2. Waterford Lismore Essence 6″ Candlesticks, Pair 3. Waterford Classic Napkin, Set of 4 4. Waterford Lino Couture Decorative Pillow 5. Waterford Elegance Cabernet Sauvignon Wine Glass, Pair

Waterford Photography: Peaches & Mint Fine Art Photography | Waterford Registry Picks: 1. Waterford Lismore Rose Bowl 2. Waterford Marcello Pleat Decorative Pillow 3. Monique Lhuillier Waterford Atelier 5 Piece Place Setting 4. Waterford Lismore Diamond Essence Stemware 5. Waterford Lismore Lace 5-Piece Place Setting

Galway Photography: Julie Paisley | Galway Registry Picks: 1. Waterford Lismore Connoisseur Heirtage Double Old Fashioned,  Set of 6 2. Waterford Lismore Diamond Collection Cake Knife & Server Set 3. Waterford Jonet Euro Sham 4. Monique Lhuillier Waterford “Étoile” Platinum 5. Waterford Lismore Footed Cake Plate

5 Ways to Keep Your Groom + Groomsmen Happy and Looking Their Best

We’re never ones to shy away from chatting about a beautiful gown… or two, or three. But when it comes to dressing the bridal party, making sure the men in your life are happy is just as important as taking care of your besties. Which is why we’re teaming up with our faves at Generation Tux for a little rundown on how to do just that, plus some sweet advice on keeping them looking their best. Scroll below for dapper + happy groom and groomsmen in six easy steps.

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ONE: KEEP IT CONVENIENT

Let’s be honest, most guys you know don’t really want to spend hours upon hours shopping for that one gorgeous tux or suit. So keeping it easy and convenient for all those handsome fellas is totally key. With Generation Tux, you can say “goodbye” to the endless time spent looking and “hello” to total convenience with easy-peasy online shopping and FREE shipping with a tux/suit rental. Generation Tux will even get your outfit out to you 10-14 days in advance and give you three days to return your attire with FedEx or USPS. Grooms can even reserve a free at-home fit trial to experience Generation Tux before the event. We love that.

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TWO: MAKE SURE THE PRICE IT RIGHT

Asking the ones you love to stand beside you on THE big day is a total honor, but it shouldn’t be an expensive one. With Generation Tux, suit and tux rentals start at just $129 (seriously) and a full look (that’s suit, shirt, tie, pocket square AND shoes) will rent for $174+. Those are some numbers that your fellas can appreciate… trust us.

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THREE: GET STYLING ASSISTANCE

What’s better than sending your men on the hunt for the perfect bow tie to match your very distinct shade of violet? Chatting one-on-one with a Generation Tux Stylist and letting them do all of the heavy lifting for you. Think a digital styling studio which allows you to play around with color and style, hundreds of hues for every palette (hello, perfect vests, ties and pocket squares) and even suits for the littles. They’ll help you figure it ALL out.

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FOUR: MANAGE IT ALL

Stepping up as a groomsmen or bridesmaid is always awesome, but it’s even better when the two sweeties getting married take care of all of the details. With Generation Tux, you can chat with your Stylist, select outfits for every member of your bridal party, send out email invites to view styles and then let the team at Generation Tux handle the rest with automatic reminders to collect measurements (your guys can measure at home!) and payment. It’s sooo easy to organize your entire group… even if they live across the country!

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FIVE: INSIST ON HIGH-QUALITY

You want only the best for your dudes and Generation Tux totally gets that. Which is why every piece of amazing attire they offer is developed as part of George Zimmer’s private label and is just as luxurious and classic as you want. Think suits and tuxes with a higher thread count and finer quality of wool, 100% cotton shirts with adjustable button tab necks, convertible cuffs and placket, 100% silk fashion ties in a beautiful assortment of colors (with FlexFit!) and modern and slim fit options. They even offer boys’ sizes in tuxes and suits, so your ring bearers will look just as fabulous.

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Ready to tackle that groom + groomsmen style with a whole lot of help from Generation Tux? Visit them now to start the easiest part of planning your Big Day and make ALL the men in your life happy. Grooms even receive a free suit with the rental of 6+ in their bridal party. We love that.

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Just for SMP readers: Get 20% off a tuxedo or suit rental with the code SMP17!*

*Discount can only be applied as part of a minimum purchase of $129. Promo code must be entered at checkout. Valid for one-time use only. Any unused amounts of the discount are forfeited. Discount cannot be applied to rush fees, taxes or alterations. Discount offer may not be combined with other offers or be redeemed for cash or credit. Offer valid for rental items only. Discount expires 12.31.2017 at 11:59PM EST.

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Photography: Grayson Wilder | Photography: Ken Kienow Wedding Photography | Photography: Generation Tux | Photography: Ken Kienow Wedding Photography | Photography: Marc & Anna Photo and Film | Wedding Venue: Condors Nest Ranch | Stylist: Becca Goldman

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