With the gorgeous views of the Pacific Ocean all around them, along with their closest friends and family, Tara and Nick said yes to each other. And then when all was complete, they wined, dined and danced the night away with many more loved ones at the fabulous Hearst Ranch. Ashley Ludaescher captured both – the intimate ceremony and the fun fete after – all in our Vault right this way!

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From Ashley Ludaescher… Tara and Nick fell in love during their time spent at Hearst Ranch, so it made perfect sense for them to tie the knot there. They were very lucky to be one of the few special couples to have the chance to celebrate their weddings on the property surrounding Hearst Castle in San Simeon, California. I absolutely love that Tara and Nick were incredibly thoughtful while deciding how to celebrate their wedding day. They chose to have an intimate ceremony with just their families and wedding party and then have an incredible party to celebrate with all of their friends later in the evening.

The ceremony was beautifully decorated by Adornments Flowers & Finery in front of doors which led directly out to the Pacific – the view was incredible! Nick’s best friend married them and Tara’s two children walked her down the aisle, which made for an incredibly personal and beautiful ceremony.

After the ceremony, we drove through the ranch to a mountaintop for their portraits at the mile long pergola where the Hearst family used to ride their horses, which also had the most spectacular views of the entire central coast and Hearst Castle. It was an incredible and unique wedding celebration, focused on what matters most – dear friends, family and true love.

Photography: Ashley Ludaescher Photography | Coordination: ADORNMENTS flowers + finery | Floral Design: ADORNMENTS flowers + finery | Catering: Field To Table Events | Hair + Makeup: Mint Salon ~ Savannah | Transportation: Ride On | Wedding Venue: Hearst Ranch | Rentals: All About Events

The wedding planning process is full of decision-making moments. But the one question I got asked almost every time someone brought up wedding talk was “Have you found your dress yet?!”. So much attention is put around the dress that it can feel overwhelming before you even start shopping. Make it easier on yourself with these five tips to survive that big day before the real Big Day.

Don’t Feel Pressured

Don’t feel obligated to bring along everyone! I don’t know about you, but I get my best shopping done while alone or maybe with a very close girlfriend or my Mom. But never with a group of friends. You might be the complete opposite of this and actually have more success with more opinions. In that case, make it a party and bring on the bubbly! But the point is, don’t feel pressured to have your entire bridal party there for the day. Bring who you trust or even go alone if that’s what you feel best doing.

Don’t Let Mom (or MIL) Take Over

If your parents do happen to be helping financially with your wedding, that should never mean they have a final say in any big decision. Especially dress shopping. Don’t let your Mom or Mother-in-law pressure you to go for a certain style because they’re making a contribution. And even if they aren’t, they may still be vicariously living through you and try to sway you toward a design they love on you. If you do bring them along make sure to politely let them know opinions are welcomed. If you contemplate their presence being overwhelming, tell them you want it to be a surprise on the Big Day!

Do Your Hair + Makeup

Have you ever been in a fitting room and cringed at an outfit because you have zero makeup on and your hair is a mess? Don’t make this mistake when dress shopping. It can be challenging to envision a gorgeous dress’ full potential when you look like you just came out of the gym. This is a great time to have a hair and makeup trial done, or even just fancy yourself up a little extra to get the full look. Even considering bring some jewelry to test drive as well.

Don’t Limit Yourself

So you’ve pinned a million dresses from the same designer or same style to your wedding board, but you’re not quite loving how the designs fit on you when trying them on… don’t box yourself in to one or two designers or styles. That two-piece number might look gorgeous on that other bride, but it just doesn’t feel right on you. Be open, try on styles you never thought you would and most importantly, know what works best with your body type.

Start Early + Go with Your Gut

I’ve talked to brides who found their dream dress with the first one they tried on and others who went to several boutiques, or ended up buying a second or third dress because they didn’t love the original choice. There’s no magic number of dresses you need to try on. It might be one or a hundred. The key is to give yourself plenty of time to find the right one and go with your gut! When you know, you know.

You might remember when we first went behind the scenes with the ladies of Southern Weddings and fell in love with bright, sunny office space and impeccable sense of style. Lucky for us, they’re popping back today to share a few time-honored Southern traditions to incorporate into your wedding – whether your big day falls below the Mason-Dixon line or not.

From the Southern Weddings gals… Hi friends! We’re thrilled to be here on Style Me Pretty today chatting about one of our favorite topics: traditions! Though we specifically love to focus on wedding traditions that originated in the South, we’ve been tickled pink to see these Southern wedding traditions increase in popularity around the world. (Kind of like all things Southern right now: any Fixer Upper fans out there? :)) Whether you’re a Southern bride or not, consider adding one of these sweet traditions to your wedding day for an extra dose of charm!

Burying the bourbon

Legend has it that if a couple buries a full bottle of bourbon upside down one month before their wedding day at the location where they’ll say “I do,” they’ll be blessed with sunny skies on the big day. After covering up the bottle, don’t forget to mark the spot, as it should be dug up and enjoyed with the wedding party on the wedding day (usually after the ceremony), making this a win-win tradition, no matter the skies!

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The second line

Leave it to New Orleans, where the motto is laissez les bons temps rouler, to be the birthplace of one of the most lively and fun Southern wedding traditions! The second line stems from an old tradition at African-American jazz funerals, where a brass band paraded to honor the life of the deceased while loved ones followed the band, dancing to add to the spirit and celebration of the procession.

Weddings with a NOLA connection have flipped this tradition on its head, using a second line parade to signify the beginning of new life for the bride and groom. A second line usually takes place between the ceremony and reception, with the newly married couple leading the way, and a brass band and wedding party following right behind. Though second lines begin with just invited guests, they often attract passers-by to join the fun! Make sure to pick up a black parasol for the groom, a white parasol for the bride, and handkerchiefs for each guest to wave.

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A house party

Only so many bridesmaids can fit at the front of a church! But what to do if you can’t bear to leave any of your best girls out? Enter the house party—the South’s answer to big extended families, sororities, and more. Members of a house party are often assigned wedding day tasks, such as passing out programs or helping the bride get ready, and are invited to the bachelorette party and bridal showers. The only thing a house party traditionally does not do is stand at the altar with the bride–that spot is reserved for bridesmaids. HP gals can be seated in the first or second row, just behind family.

As for outfitting your house party, you have some options! For a more formal, coordinated look, some brides choose the same dress for all of the HP gals, in a color that’s different but complementary to the color of the bridesmaid dresses. Another popular option is to ask the house party to wear little black dresses, since most girls will already have an option or two in their closets. Finally, you can simply tell the house party your wedding color scheme and ask them to dress in something that coordinates.

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The cake pull

If you’re looking for a fun and sweet activity for your bridesmaids’ luncheon or bridal shower, try the cake pull! It hails from the Victoria days, when charms of luck and good fortune (and sometimes not-so-good fortune) were set into the wedding cake by the bride to predict the future of her single friends. These days, pulls are often placed in a small cake at a pre-wedding get together, and bridesmaids and close female friends (not only singles!) are given the opportunity to pull a charm from the cake just before it’s cut. A few of our favorite charms and their meanings: a hot-air balloon (adventure and travel), the fleur de lis (love and prosperity), the four-leaf clover (good luck), and a diamond ring (next to be married!).

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The groom’s cake

While many wedding details err on the feminine side, a groom’s cake is a fun and (literally) sweet way to do something extra special just for the gent of honor! Collaborate with your baker to get creative and surprise your beau with a cake that reflects his hobbies, favorite sports team, occupation, or alma mater, to be served alongside the wedding cake at the reception. Or, try a “cake” that isn’t a cake at all — instead, set out a tower of Oreos, a stack of doughnuts, or trays of his favorite childhood treats. Or, if he’s a Southern boy through and through, go with the classic: a bleedin’ armadillo cake, just like the one in Steel Magnolias.

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Looking for more details on Southern wedding traditions, and wedding traditions in general? We’ve got lots more details and ideas in our e-book, All About Southern Wedding Traditions. And now, we’d love to hear: what traditions did you include, or are you planning to include, in your wedding?

xo, the Southern Weddings gals

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Photography (in order): Anna Shackleford | Arte De Vie | Eric Kelley Photography | Amy Arrington Photography | Greer Gattuso

Donuts and palms are the stuff that brunch dreams are made of. And along with day drinking and delicious cheat food, this brunch is also bringing insanely gorgeous tropical vibes. Designed by Pure Luxe Bride with big, bright blooms by Coastal Creations, laser cut names on palms that we have a slight obsession with by LH Calligraphy and all captured by Aaron And Jillian Photography, if you’re hosting a breakfast get together soon, this vault is a must see.

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From Drew Pond, the host of the brunch…For me, there are two things in life that are sure-fire ingredients to my happiness: I love entertaining and I love Sunday brunch. I mean come on, who doesn’t enjoy a little day drinking and cheat food from time to time, right? I first had the idea for a Dock House Digital-hosted friends brunch back in the early Summer. We collaborated with the incredibly talented ladies at Pure Luxe Bride to bring our vision to life and I couldn’t be more excited to share this with you guys!

Before even talking design, I knew from the start that we had to have this event take place at Cannon Green. The restaurant is incomparable to other downtown hot spots. The atmosphere is very modern and hip with a major Miami influence with its aesthetic. When building out the restaurant, the owners honored this 19th century beauty by creating an airy, garden-inspired dining experience. The brunch design began by selecting our dining space overlooking the courtyard. Being in the wedding industry, our brains are trained to always think of a rain contingency plan, so the covered balcony was the perfect spot. We wanted the floral design to play a major role in the overall impact of the design and Coastal Creations seriously went all out. The vibrant colors combined with the gold seating and palm leaves made for the perfect balance of style + elegance. Putting this together on my own during DHD’s busiest time of year would have been a nightmare, so it was more than a blessing to enlist Pure Luxe Bride to execute every little detail so perfectly. They are amazing.

Our guest list comprised of ten of our favorite people who also happen to be in the wedding industry. From photographers, florists, videographers, DJ’s and wedding planners, we had it covered with this crew! While some videographers love shooting B-roll, interviewing guests, speeches, so on and so forth, one of my favorite things to shoot on a wedding day are the details. It was this reason alone that I knew I had to pull out all the stops when it came to our invitation suite. We enlisted The Silver Starfish to create our invites and RSVP’s as well as our brunch menus and canapé cards. The design included elements that reflected the essence of the restaurant and we even hired an artist to sketch the venue’s storefront…so chic! Because this event was on detail-overload, which of course had me excited, I knew the perfect duo to photograph it all for us! We were so fortunate to have the insanely talented Aaron and Jillian Photography present to capture our event.

As our guests arrived they were greeted with the most delicious mimosas–we definitely gave our server a work out from all of the refills! We began by having a short cocktail gathering in the venue’s courtyard where we got a chance to catch up with one another and nibble on some scrumptious canapés that were worthy of writing home about. Some of these bountiful bites included Classic Tomato Bruschetta, Fried Green Tomatoes with Pimento Cheese, Lobster & Black Truffle Salad, Yellowfin Tuna Tartare with Avocado & Sesame and Chicken and Ginger Dumplings with Salsa Verde. YUM.

For our main entrées we had family-style courses of eggs benedict over asparagus and chicken and waffles. Our yummy sides were Cannon Green’s house-made sesame tater tots and crispy bacon. Is your mouth watering yet? The food was amazing and I think every one of us said how we are excited to come back to try out their dinner menu in the very near future. Cannon Green is a great option for your rehearsal dinner or wedding reception. I highly recommend!

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Photography: Aaron And Jillian Photography | Coordination: Pure Luxe Bride | Event Design: Pure Luxe Bride | Floral Design: Coastal Creations | Brunch & Donut Tower:: Cannon Green | Invitation Suite: The Silver Starfish | Rentals: Eventworks | Restaurant: Cannon Green | Wood Laser Cut Gold Place Cards:: LH Calligraphy

Spring is slowly beginning to make an appearance and this inspiration from Vitor Lindo, Scarlet Plan & Design, and a whole crew of great vendors has me counting down the days until it’s officially here. Inside the gallery you’ll find so many ideas for a springtime affair – from invitations to florals, fashion, cakes and more. But don’t just take my word for it, scroll below and see the pretty for yourself!

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From the planner + stylist, Scarlet Plan & Design…

What did you envision for the photo shoot?

This fabulous Summer in the Garden wedding shoot was held at a 200-year-old Charleston home called the Parsonage. The space was once home to the parsons of St. Johannes Lutheran Church as well as their families. We envisioned a bright, colorful, bohemian summer wedding held in the courtyard garden of a historic downtown Charleston home. We wanted to juxtapose a traditional setting with a very eclectic wedding design.

What was your color palette and your style vision?

Our color palette was made up of several shades of pink. I kept calling the shoot “Yes Way, Rose!” because there were so many shades of pink. We had a smoky rose, a deep raspberry, pale blush, peachy tones, rose gold, coral and more. I’d definitely say the style vision was fresh, whimsical and very romantic with tons of unexpected bohemian touches. From the vintage books, the mismatched couches and chairs to the fresh flower wall, it was an eclectic heart’s dream!

Any unique elements or DIY details?

I think my favorite elements were using my grandmother’s vintage ring on the model and the 3 wedding cakes from Vintage Soul Cakes. All 3 were so unique and perfect for the design! We also used mismatched vintage sofas and chairs to create the super fun ceremony seating design going down the center of the driveway.

Photography: Vitor Lindo Photo + Video | Event Styling: Scarlet Plan & Design | Floral Design: Wildflowers Inc. | Wedding Dress: Garnish & Frill via Fabulous Frocks | Wedding Cake: Vintage Soul Cakes | Stationery: Put It On Paper Stationery | Ceremony Venue: The Parsonage | Makeup: Wedding Hair By Charlotte | Fashion Accessories: Garnish & Frill via Fabulous Frocks | Rentals and Linens: Eventworks | Vintage Rentals: The French Eclectic

Let’s be real — the dress is the best part of the wedding (aside from marrying the love of your life, of course). So, there’s a lot of pressure to find “the one.” After all, no bride wants to look back on her wedding photos 50 years from her wedding and wonder, “What in the hell was I thinking?!” which is why wedding dress trends can be tricky (hello, puffy sleeves from the 80’s). Thankfully, this year’s hottest wedding dress trends are not only gorgeous, but they’re totally timeless. Take a peek below!

Flower Power

If you thought 3D floral appliqués were big last year, just wait until you see the garden of gorgeous flowers that blossomed across the 2017 Bridal collections. This dreamy Marchesa gown is just the beginning of all of the pretty to come!

Color Wonder

Bridal no longer means white, ivory, champagne or even blush. Next spring, you can expect to see brides rocking color—from lovely pastel hues like this Kenneth Pool gown to the bright, bold shades seen at Naeem Khan. If you really want to wow on your wedding day, there’s no better way than with one of these colorful beauties!

Big, Beautiful Bows

Bows are back and in a big way. From stunning statement bows like on this Viktor & Rolf to wispy, ethereal bows like at Carolina Herrera and structured, abstract bows at Oscar de la Renta, there’s a bow out there for every Bride, and they’re all beautiful!

Flirty Ruffles

Twirl down the aisle with ruffles that flirt for you with every step like with the all-over ruffles like on this Carolina Herrera beauty. Want something a little more subtle? Find one of the gorgeous gowns with ruffles at the waist or hem.

Incredible Capes

Why be a normal bride on your wedding day when you can be a super bride? A super stylish bride, that is. From dramatic capes that dance in the wind like on this Oscar de la Renta gown to flouncy capelets that offer an extra bit of coverage, wedding dresses with capes are the perfect way to get that two-in-one look with just one gorgeous dress!

Plunging Necklines

Make your groom’s jaw drop when you walk down the aisle wearing a sexy plunging neckline like on this Francesca Miranda gown. Balance the deep V with traditional bridal touches like romantic lace, full skirts or delicate beading. The finished look is sultry and sexy but still timeless and beautiful!

High-Low

Sexy can mean a lot of different things when it comes to your wedding dress — barely-there bodices, plunging necklines, curve-hugging silhouettes and now an unexpected hint of skin with a flirty hemline like this Rime Arodaky dress. Playful and fashion-forward, high low dresses are the perfect excuse to show off a new pair of fabulous wedding day shoes.

Chic Pants

Just because you’re a bride doesn’t mean you have to wear a wedding dress. This year, designers served up some seriously stunning alternatives like this fabulous Lela Rose ensemble. From stylish separates to playful jumpsuits to oh-so-chic suits and tuxedos, designers are redefining mix ‘n match separates with these gorgeous wedding dress alternatives.

Mixed Metallics

They say, “one is silver and the other is gold,” but this year all metallics are created equal. Think silver, pewter, gold, rose gold and so much more. As far as we’re concerned, the more sparkle and shimmer, the better, especially if it looks anything like this gorgeous Naeem Khan sheath.

Statement Sleeves

Strapless wedding dresses will always be in style, but for the bride who wants a little something different, there’s nothing quite like the romance and drama of a statement sleeve like on this Ines di Santo dress. The 70s-inspired silhouette is the perfect balance of boho-chic and vintage charm all with a dose of dramatic glamour!

Modern Minimalism

While beading, ruffles, appliqués and bows are all beautiful (and they so are), there’s something to be said for keeping things clean and simple like this gorgeous Amsale ballgown. Without the added details and distractions, it’s the bride that truly shines, not just the dress.

When you’ve got a stunning vision like these two and a rockstar vendor team including Bash Please, JL Designs, Found Vintage Rentals and Casa de Perrin, a next level wedding is bound to be in your future. See? SO next level. From the ceremony backdrop to the sweetest seating nooks, Elizabeth Messina unveiled the beauty with her always breathtaking images. Dive into this Bel Air bash in full right here.

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From the Bride… Ali and I were both pretty set on a few “MUSTS” while planning out wedding. We were NOT getting married in a ballroom. We were NOT ok with a curfew before 2am. The food and drinks had to be FABULOUS. And we had to be able to fit 160 of our nearest and dearest. Paige and Kelly were amazing at hearing us out and went over TONS of venue options with pros and cons and took us all the way from Malibu to Downtown LA. They alongside my father pushed us to lastly look at Hotel Bel Air (even though it consisted of a ballroom) before making any decisions. We walked through the hotel space and their vision and creativity and enthusiasm about the endless options the space provided us led us to lock it in. On that day, we actually felt like we could start envisioning our wedding day. 

Ali and I really wanted to create a space where people would be comfortable and relaxed. Your wedding day consists of all the feels. So walking down an aisle looking at our cool, calm, collected and comfortable family and friends in a setting that felt like home with lounges and benches and arm chairs and side tables did just that. We went back and forth with beautiful renderings including the flowers and furniture and flooring which really made it all come to life. I think my favorite part of this other than marrying my husband was the gospel choir that came out and started singing as we recessed down the aisle.

Ali and I are both foodies and grew up in Los Angeles where dining is so delicious and wanted to make sure that everything from cocktails to dessert and everything in between was a great experience for our guests. The cocktail area had such a great vibe (from what I saw in pictures – it kinda stinks you miss this whole part of the evening) and the food was just enough to keep everyone happy before we went into the ballroom. We loved creating our custom cocktails with Pharmacie, the bar setups were so beautiful and the drinks were delicious. It was a whole experience we really wanted to share with everyone. 

The ballroom at the HBA is such an incredible blank canvas and again, with Paige and Kelly providing endless ideas and renderings including the chairs and linens we liked and florals it all really came to life. We wanted to make sure that the flowers didn’t take over the night and that it was just to make the room pretty. They did just that. Not too many high pieces, but pieces you could see through and talk to the people sitting across from you. We had a mix of round and rectangle tables and it filled the room nicely and squeezed everyone in perfectly. The dance floor was just the right size, not too big and not too small and it was ALWAYS full thanks to the music from Elan.

Photography: Elizabeth Messina | Event Planning: Bash Please | Floral Design: JL Designs | Wedding Cake: Vanilla Bake Shop | Invitations: Bash Please | Lighting: The Lighter Side | DJ: Johnny Knight | Venue: Hotel Bel Air | Ceremony Rentals: Revelry Event Design | Ceremony Rentals: Found Rental Co. | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Music: Elan Artists | Rentals: Town And Country | Specialty Rentals: Found Rental Co. | Tabletop Rentals: Casa de Perrin

You could have the most beautiful wedding dress in the world, but if your wedding day hair and makeup isn’t perfect, your whole look will be off and no bride wants that, trust us. So, once you’ve said yes to the dress, it’s time to say yes to the hairstyle. Luckily, we’ve got 100 stunning styles that you’re sure to love. In fact, you may even decide you need a hair change so you can choose more than just one!

100 Drop-Dead-Gorgeous Hairstyles to Inspire Your Big Day 'Do

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In the world of weddings, your stationery is the first impression and you want to make it a good one. But when you’ve got a venue to book, flowers to order and that perfect dress to find—you don’t want to blow your budget on paper goods, am I right? Thankfully, you don’t have to sacrifice stationery style. With Shutterfly at your side, save-the-dates and invitations (and even personalized thank you notes!) can still look totally luxe and have your guests thinking you spent big bucks. Here’s how!

Shown below: Simple Solid Frame Invitation

Choose a Design that Speaks to You.

I don’t think anyone wishes for a cookie-cutter wedding, or cookie-cutter wedding stationery for that matter. So, first things first, pick a design you love! Shutterfly‘s array of design options can be customized the way YOU want, to bring your vision to life. Whether you’re having an intimate backyard affair or an elegant seaside affair, the options are endless.

Utilize Shutterfly’s Custom Color Palette tool on specific designs (indicated by the color wheel on site) to customize your stationery further and match the hues you’ve selected for your Big Day.

Shown below: Special Celebration Save The Date

Personalize with Photos

My husband and I loved utilizing our engagement photos for our save-the-dates. It’s such a fun way to personalize and share those memories with friends and family before the wedding! Shutterfly’s Wedding Save-The-Dates also have a coordinating, customizable back of card design, at no extra charge. Don’t you love it when the bonus touches are free?

Shown below: Lavish Love Save The Date

Get Fancy with Foil

The easiest way to take your wedding stationery to the next level? Layer on the foil, my friends! Sure, faux foil can look lovely, but real foil is très chic and brings an elegant touch to your stationery.

Shown below: True Love Forever Invitation

From wedding invitations with rose gold foil to modern, gilded lines, Shutterfly’s foil options prove to be nothing less than fabulous.

Get Creative with Trims

Think outside the box with a variety of different trim options available as well. Whether you stick with classic square, clean and rounded, bracket, scallop or ticket—selecting a creative cut amps up the wow factor.

Shown below: Elegant Embellishments Invitation

Embrace the Extras

Last but certainly not least, go for the extras that tie it all together! We’re talking RSVP cards, enclosure cards, address labels, thank you notes, colored envelopes, and envelope liners. Shutterfly makes it easy to match with coordinating designs for each suite. So, whether you want to add on those matching directions cards, or make life easier with convenient address labels—you’ve got the tools at hand to help you share the big news.

The best part? You can test drive Shutterfly’s wedding invitations printed with your own Big Day details. Get five free samples of your choice today with promo code 5WEDINVITES. Amazing right? Head on over to choose your top five favorites today.

Shown above: Splendid Watercolor Invitation

The only thing more beautiful than committing your life to the one you love is making that very same promise in a vow renewal. Set in the snowy mountains of Jackson, Wyoming, Callie and Brad recreated their wedding day, complete with a cozy outdoor dinner celebration. Simply Sarah photographed the day and you won’t want to miss a single second.

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Callie + Brad’s Love Story

Brad and I met in January of 2011, however, our actual first encounter is up for debate. Brad says we were introduced by our good friend at a concert at The Mangy Moose. I remember our first meeting being a couple weeks later after skiing one snowy Saturday. A friend and I had just finished skiing and were walking towards Nick Wilsons for a beer when I heard someone call my name. I turned around to see a very handsome bearded man walking towards me. He smiled familiarly, said hello and reminded me his name was Brad. I excitedly nodded and smiled back. He asked for my number and after he walked away my friend asked, “Who was that?” I laughed and said, “I have no idea.”

Brad called me a month later (nearly too long) and asked me on our first date, and because of the ever-changing facial hair of men in Jackson, I didn’t quite recognize him when he came to pick me up. That night we had one of the best times dancing at a friend’s birthday party in Jackson and knew this was something special. We immediately enjoyed doing all the things that come so easily to everyone in Jackson. We spent most of our time together skiing, biking, camping and floating the river. Over July 4th weekend 2015, the two of us hiked the Teton Crest trail.

The Teton Crest trail traverses throughout the Teton Mountains and is an absolutely stunning 40-mile trek. On our second day of backpacking which happened to be July 4th, we found ourselves at the Alaska Basin, a beautiful, peaceful, subalpine basin scattered with tons of little sparkling lakes, ponds, and boulders. It is a magical place. After a long, hot day of hiking, I went down to the water to take a dip and Brad said he would set up camp. As I was sunning myself on a big boulder next to the water, Brad quietly came up behind me and surprised me. I honestly thought he was trying to throw me in the lake. When I turned around he had dropped to one knee and asked me to marry him. I said yes!

We both grew up on the East Coast, but we knew instantly that we wanted to get married in Jackson so all our friends and family from back home could come see this beautiful place. Jackson is where we fell in love with each other and the place we now call home. All the adventures we experience together here make our relationship and love stronger. When you are out in the mountains challenging yourself and pushing your limits, it gives you a deep sense of trust and admiration for the place and people around you.

Photography: Elizabeth Lanier Photography | Floral Design: Magnolia Ranch Events | Wedding Dress: Claire Pettibone | Shoes: Bella Belle | Jewelry: Trumpet & Horn | Makeup: Makeup by Stephanie Broom | Hair: Hair by Lela Hebard | Invitations + Calligraphy: Spurle Gul Studios | Venue: Open Meadows Ranch | Event Planning + Styling: Simply Grand Weddings And Events | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Plates, Flatware, Glassware: Montana Party Rentals | Rentals: Hunter Gatherer

Breakups are never fun but one good thing that can come out of that heartache is reclaiming your bedroom. Say adios to that lame band poster or the hand me down nightstand you never liked and give your sleeping space a gorgeous and 100% you revamp. Online Interior Design company, Laurel & Wolf, is dishing 5 easy tips for a post breakup redo sure to mend a wounded heart quicker than you can say ice cream and a Lifetime Movie Marathon.

Buy New Bedding

“Invest in some high quality linens that you love. Not only will these smell fresh and clean, but you will want something soft to cuddle you while you cry yourself to sleep for the next couple of months.” says Laurel & Wolf Designer James Tabb.

Rid Your Room of Reminders

You can’t make a fresh start without first freshening up the spaces that you spend the most time in. “You’ll always remember the good times, but it’s time to clear your head by removing old mementos and replacing them with items that make you happy no matter what’s happening around you,” designer Kimberly Winthrop says. That means the framed photos and sweet gifts get stored out of eyesight and replaced with beautiful new art, photos of beloved friends and fam and pieces that remind you of all the things you love in your life.

Make “Me” Space

Now that you have some quality alone time on your hands, spend it doing the stuff that you’ve put off or always wanted to try. “Mark your territory by making a “me space” where you can read, journal, or plot your revenge,” says James.

Reclaim Your Style

One of the upsides to finding yourself newly single is not having to answer to anyone other than yourself, starting with the look and feel of your room. “Design using your favorite colors and indulge in soft textures and fabrics,” says Kimberly. Take advantage of the ability to make your room all about you. No compromises.

Give Your Bedroom a Fresh Coat of Paint

You don’t have to spend a lot to make a big change (save that for your wine and ice cream budget). A fresh coat of paint makes a big impact on a small budget. James recommends choosing a light and uplifting color, or one you’ve always gravitated towards.

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Photography: Laurel & Wolf | Design: Laurel & Wolf

I’m convinced onelove photography attracts some of the coolest clients in the world, and this couple is no exception. The bride rocked a unique Jim Hjelm ballgown featuring a floral design for a subtle, completely elegant statement. The dress set tone for their wine country wedding and the whole day is waiting right here.

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From the couple… We knew we wanted to get married in Napa/Sonoma (where Steve had proposed), and I knew I wanted to get married outside. My style is already rustic, so it was an easy fit. Our palette was pale pink, cream and greens. I wanted earth tones with a small pop of color.

Taking pictures with Steve was my favorite part of the day. The property had so many unique features that we just had a blast. And then just enjoying time with family and friends. It was an intimate setting in the barn, we only had 30 guests.

Steve got me pearl necklace shaped like a bunch of grapes since we got engaged and married in Napa. I got him cuff links, one with a map of Napa and the other of Bora Bora, to represent both our wedding and honeymoon.

Photography: onelove photography | Event Planning: Holliday Weddings | Florals: Aimee Lomeli Design | Wedding Dress: JLM Couture, Inc | Stationery: Wedding Paper Divas | Shoes: Betsey Johnson | Jewelry: Late Grandmother's wedding ring | Jewelry: Mother's Earrings | Rings: Tacori From Calvin Broyles Jewelers | Catering: ring of Fire food truck | Hair + Makeup: Just Jenni Style | Groom's Attire: Jos. A. Bank | Venue: Olympias Valley Estate | Linens: Encore Events Rentals

Backless gowns are best kept for indoor attire but with this gorgeous engagement, the Bride-to-be had her love to keep her warm. And it’s all set against a magical winter wonderland captured by Forage + Film. Get inspired to dress to the nines and romp in the snow with even more gorgeous imagery right here in the vault.

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We loved shooting this winter wonderland session with this sweet couple! The soft falling snowflakes, and the beautiful white historic estate made for such dreamy setting. Paired with this couples fabulous style, serious guts ( hello backless dress in freezing temperatures!) and tangible love, we walked away knowing it was a special day. This was the kind of session that can’t ever be recreated and is just as unique and special as this couple is, and that is the kind of experience we live for! We loved that this couple got to cuddle into each other for warmth as the snow rested on their hair and laugh with each other in these extraordinary circumstances! While we sometimes wish it snowed more often here in Raleigh, its rarity truly does make it that much more special when it does!

Photography: Forage + Film | Historic House: Merrimon-Wynne House

Vermont will always hold a special place in my heart (it’s where I said “I do”!) but when you have pics this pretty, it’s easy to fall in love with this state in seconds. Christina Bernales captured these cuties in all their fall fun, from apple picking to a romantic picnic by the lake – see it all here in our Vault!

From Christina Bernales… Sarah and Lenny wanted to celebrate their engagement doing one of their favorite fall activities: apple picking. We walked around Shelburne Orchards in Vermont and then headed to the waterfront along with Sarah and Lenny’s furry friend Piper to enjoy a wine picnic during the last bit of light of the evening.

Photography: Christina Bernales | Dress: Anthropologie | Blazer: Zara | Lenny's Shoes: House of Fraser | Sarah's Shoes: BCBG

Where, oh where do I start with this pristine Tuscan fete from Vasia Photography? It’s effortless with that old world charm in every way, yet with hints of modern beauty—did you see the Bride’s two-piece dress? Layered with stationery and calligraphy from Maurelle Calligraphy, olive branches and ivory blooms, and a family-style dinner reception for the books… I highly suggest you spend some quality time in The Vault.

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From Vasia Photography… Kat & Moreno planned an intimate destination wedding to host their closest friends and family in Tuscany. The villa was incredible, tucked away on the outskirts of Firenze and surround by rolling hills, vineyards and olive groves. The couple held the ceremony and reception outdoors and then danced the night away in the Green House. For decor, they kept things simple and rustic, with lots of olive branches, white candles and a long exposed kings table where dinner was served family style with fresh bread and local wine.

Photography: Vasia Photography | Catering: Galateo Ricevimenti | Makeup Artist: Emma Collins Beauty | Ceremony music: Chiara Trallori | Wedding Venue: Villa Le Piazzole | Film Lab: Richard Photo Lab | Florals & Decor: Fiori Del Chianti | Planning & Design: Fluent Productions | Stationery and Calligraphy: Maurelle Calligraphy

Said best by the vendor team… a modern elopement is the ultimate expression of authentic, romantic love—the perfect beginning to a life of adventure with the one you love and the perfect manifestation of our inspirational quote: “Let’s be adventurers, Darling…marry me in Paris!” Really, is there any place more romantic than Paris to elope? Make sure to peruse The Vault for the full batch of beauty from French Grey Events and Maru Photography. Plus, more details below on their upcoming workshop!

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From French Grey Events and Maru Photography… This styled editorial session is an international collaboration between wedding industry creatives from Canada, Belgium, the Netherlands, Ukraine, UK and France. We were inspired by the idea that no matter in which country and in which culture it takes place, a modern elopement is the ultimate expression of authentic, romantic love—the perfect beginning to a life of adventure with the one you love and the perfect manifestation of our inspirational quote: “Let’s be adventurers, Darling…marry me in Paris!”

The elegance and adventure of eloping to a private chateau in France can today be effortlessly achieved with the guidance of the right wedding vendors who will help couples realise their dreams of having an authentic and stylish intimate wedding.

In this editorial, we focused on the creation of an intimate wedding day in a private, family-run, French Chateau, nestled into the countryside just outside of the Paris, with an emphasis on the celebration of the simpler things in life as the French do it best—French champagne, delicious pastries, delicate floral, and of course, beautifully hand-written love notes between lovers pledging their lives to one another—what could possibly be more romantic? We wanted this destination elopement to be infused with the romance of the culture, the charm of the venue and its beautiful surroundings, creating a meaningful, unique and effortless wedding day that is truly inspired by both adventure and romance.

Our couple’s day of love begins in bed with croissants and hugs, followed by the ritual of the bride and groom preparing for their intimate ceremony. This precious time spent alone before the wedding event, to reflect and to reread their prepared wedding vows, the promises that will last a lifetime, something that a couple will cherish for the rest of their lives. A hand-written declaration of the couples’ elopement in Paris along with their wedding vows and announcement to friends and family, was beautifully designed by Vancouver calligrapher, Quill & Co.

The day unfolds with the bride dancing carefree through the streets of Paris in her stunning ice blue bridal gown by Kathryn Bass Bridal while she enjoys the last few hours before the ceremony begins. Following this, we see an intimate ceremony in the ancient Orangerie of the Chateau Barthelemy, a family run chateau, now a historical wedding venue and a place full of beginnings, artistry, romance and hope. The Chateau contains a love note box in which the owner’s aunt kept her love letters from suitors in the 1800’s—the perfect place to store your elopement vows!

After the intimate ceremony, the couple takes a quiet walk through the private grounds of the Chateau as newlyweds, returning to a romantic dinner for two in front of a blazing fire in the enormous ancient fireplace in the Grande Salon of the Chateau. What could be more romantic and intimate? The perfect way to elope in the countryside of Paris, beautifully curated by Kasia of French Grey Events, an intimate destination wedding planner and stylist based in Paris, France, and photographed by Kim-Maru of Maru Photography, a boutique destination wedding photographer, based in Vancouver, Canada with travel worldwide.

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Want to Learn from the Vendor Team?

Join Kim-Maru and Kasia in October 2017 at the L’Artisan Workshop for wedding creatives, held at the beautiful Chateau featured in this editorial, for four inspiring days together learning how to plan, execute and photograph intimate destination weddings and elopements artfully, intentionally, and authentically. For workshop details, visit L’Artisan Workshop for more details and to join the beauty making!

Photography: Maru Photography | Event Design: French Grey Events | Wedding Dress: Kathryn Bass Bridal | Engagement Ring: Perouse Paris | Hair and Makeup: Trine Juel | Hair and Makeup: Rika Bitton | Calligraphy: Quill and Co. | Groom's Attire: L'apieceur | Bridal Headband - Maison Michel: Art & Facts | Brides Coat: Zara | Chateau Venue: Chateau Barthelemy | Event and Floral Styling: French Grey Events | Feather Comb Maison Michel: Art & Facts | Lingerie: Fine Art Wedding Boutique | Manchettes: Art & Facts | Nude Bridal Shoes: Sergio Rossi | Parisian Apartment Rental: Cobblestone Paris Rentals | Pearls: Bekah Anne | Ring Boxes: Secret Keeper Box | Silk Ribbons and Table Runner: Fine Art Wedding Boutique | Veil and Hair Vine: SIBO Designs | Wedding Band: Cartier | Wedding Cake & Pastries: Cokoa | White Bridal Shoes- Rupert Sanderson: Art & Facts | paper products: Spurle Gul Studios

It’s a given that anything with Greg Finck behind the lens is destined to be pure magic. And when you add Paris and a couture Elie Saab dress into that equation…it’s heart-stopping territory. Feast your eyes on this château celebration made even prettier at the hands of event planner and designer extraordinaire Sarah Haywood and florals by Kitten Grayson. Plus see another couture dress in action with the couple’s wildly pretty engagement right here!

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Sonny & Ann are both from Singapore, and had decided to organize their wedding day at stunning Château de Vaux le Vicomte. This is undoubtedly the most prestigious venue around Paris, and I had never had the chance to work in that amazing XVIIth century castle before. The couple trusted Sarah Haywood, a celebrity luxury wedding planner from London, to organize the weekend festivities. The day started at The Shangri-La Hotel in Paris, where Ann got ready and the couple led the tea ceremony. For the ceremony, Ann wore a stunning couture dress from Elie Saab, with a 30 feet long train. The ceremony was held outdoor despite the chilly Parisian weather that day. Reception was absolutely stunning with amazing florals by The Isle of You, and an amazing main table. Guests were then invited to the gardens of the Château, for a glorious firework, and an incredible video mapping on the facade of the Château.

Photography: Greg Finck Photography | Floral Design: Kitten Grayson | Assistant Photographer: Marie Film Photographer | Assistant Photographer: Oliver Fly Photography | Chateau: Château De Vaux Le Vicomte | Event Planning, Production + Design: Sarah Haywood | Fireworks: Grand Final Fireworks | Hair Styling: Phuc Le Trung | Live Music: Vogue Band | Live Painting: Maerta Wydler | Video Mapping: Rupert Newman | Wedding dress and shoes: Elie Saab

You know how they say, “you learn from your mistakes?” Well, today, prepare to learn from the mistakes of others. Because, even if you were to imagine your wedding day worst-case scenario, we’re willing to bet the situations these Redditors witnessed are infinitely worse. Moral of the story? Avoid exes, family brawls and guests having a little too much fun with the open bar.

“I was best man in a wedding. I was standing next to the couple at the reception and the bride was tipsy (groom was sober). She told him aloud ‘I’m not really that in love with you…. but I think you’ll be a good husband.’ The look on his face sucked all the joy from me. He tried to laugh it off and told her to hush but he was tearing up as they walked away.” —winkers

“Probably when the bride came storming into the men’s room, screaming that it was the last dance, and everyone needed to be on the dance floor, or her night would be ruined.” —themoneyofart

“The bride was absolutely plastered, bar was closed, and she’s leaning against the bar. Some really dorky guy comes up to her and starts telling her how he thought they always more than friends, and they had a deep connection, and as if to just shut this moron up, the bride pulls the top of her dress down, says ‘There,’ and then walks away.” —philmorrisjunkie

“Two of my friends got married. The groom cheated on his bride quite often, including the night before the wedding. An anonymous text was sent out and spilled the beans to the bride. A fight ensued, but the wedding continued as planned. Also, the girl that did the bride’s makeup for the wedding…well, that was the girl who had been sleeping with the groom. I have never witnessed a more awkward situation in my life.” —ball_in_uh_cup

“My mom toasting the groom… (not me, thankfully) and saying how thankful she was to have the bride come into his life, thereby removing any questions about the groom’s sexual orientation.” —Daybreak74

“In comes an old Italian woman screaming ‘THEY’RE FIGHTING, THEY’RE FIGHTING!’ and before you could say amore the whole hall had emptied and everyone had rushed the parking lot. Outside 400 people were swinging there fists anywhere they could. Italian men fighting Polish men, Polish women fighting Italian women, there were even some kids throwing punches at each other. There was nothing any of the employees or owners could do but watch and wait for the cops to show up.” —DaHossBoss

“After everybody eats the potluck stuff and had a few fine beverages, the bride’s mother exclaimed that this party needs some entertainment. She then tried to convince her very pregnant daughter (the bride) to do a pole dance and strip tease on a tent pole. Her daughter refused. And that’s when she decided to take matters into her own hands.” —admiralwaffles

“All was going well until my five-year-old cousin, the ring bearer, takes the cushion with the ring on it and spins it above his head, throwing it at the flower girl, my four-year-old cousin who had been making faces at him, leaving the bride’s ring nowhere to be found. It took all of the bridesmaids and groomsmen a good while of crawling around on their knees to recover it.” —syowangza

“The groom decided half way through the ceremony that he didn’t want to get married. He was then attacked by the father and brother of the bride. After a brawl (and a few bloody noses) he changed his mind and they got married.” —_Arimanius

“During the cutting of the cake, the bride shoved cake in the grooms face. When he tried to return the favor, she tried to dodge and hit her head on the corner of a wall mounted cabinet. Gave her a nice bruise.” —Blasterbot

“My MIL’s one daughter had an outdoor wedding the summer when West Nile virus was all over the news. So, to get attention, she threw a giant fit, and showed up to the wedding wearing a pith helmet she had brought back from Australia, in camouflage, with mosquito netting, and refused to take it off. She is in all the wedding photos like this, the mother of the bride, looking entirely pleased with herself.”

“While in the reception line immediately following the wedding of my cousin Brad, there was a lady in front of us with a 5 year old child. When she came up to Brad we could tell that he was noticeably uncomfortable seeing this woman. She looked at Brad and asked ‘Do you happen to remember that party 6 years ago that we hooked up at? Well this is your daughter, see you soon.’ and walked away….” —Offcrandy

“I could hear them screaming and swearing at each other and then I heard a horrible scream. I called the police, and then the bride came in with a horrible bloody nose and blood all over her gown. Turns out the groom had slept with the maid of honor the night before, and when the bride called her out on it, the maid of honor punched her in the face and ran off.” —girly_416

“I officiated my best friend’s wedding. She got married in front of a fountain on a scenic set of stairs in a park. Halfway through the ceremony, a lady on her cellphone , walking two dogs and her (maybe 8 year old) daughter in tow walked right through the ceremony. She stopped by the fountain right next to me and carried out a conversation about a woman she worked with being a bitch and a skeezy ho.” —sig863

“It was our high school friend’s wedding and she had a way of getting guys to fall for her left and right… last thing you would think is that she would invite them to the wedding. Sure enough, one guy broke down in the middle of the aisle crying to show he still had an obsession of her, and other guy, during the little speech phase of the wedding said this ‘You are a very lucky man, and I hope to find a woman as lovely as you’ while sitting next to his girlfriend… the greatest face palm moment for for any wedding.” —KamFox

Dreaming of saying “I do” in paradise, but not quite sure where to even begin with all of the, you know, planning? Guys, we feel you.  Which is why today we’re hosting a little meet + greet with the team at LUXE Destination Weddings, aka, your one-stop-shop for awesome destination affairs. It’s planning sans the stress, so you can sit back and relax with a glass of bubbly. We obviously love that.

LUXE Destination Weddings isn’t your traditional travel company.  Nope, they happen to focus ONLY on destination weddings and honeymoons, so you know you’re in good hands with they take over all of the details. Think a custom-tailored group event at one of the world’s most exclusive resorts (hello, the Caribbean, Mexico, Costa Rica, Hawaii, the DR and Cuba), complete travel + planning services (seriously) and an entire vaca-slash-wedding that is everything you’ve ever dreamed. We can’t even begin to tell you just how amazing that is.

So now that you’re ready to stop dreading all of the logistics and team up with THE place that can handle all of the details for you (within your budget, no less), contact LUXE Destination Weddings today to get the ball rolling with their awesome travel consultants.  They’re more than ready to talk shop about the newest trends and developments… and plan that fab day that is right on track with your vision. Trust us, you won’t regret it.

When it came to my own I Do’s, I seriously contemplated trading the east coast for the west and doing a California destination wedding. The venue at the top of my list? Holman Ranch. It’s the perfect backdrop for a blend of rustic elegance and this affair from Coastside Couture, Seascape Flowers and Julie Cahill Photography is the proof. Want more? It’s all sitting pretty in The Vault.

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From Coastside Couture… Sarah and Andrew hired the A-team for their romantic wedding at Holman Ranch this past October. Since California is known for it’s Indian Summers, we wanted to make sure that the the decor felt warm and bright even though it was an Autumn wedding. To encompass the feel of Fall, shades of blue and green were used throughout the wedding day between the cool pastel bridesmaid dresses, lush garland, ceremony floral, and dark blue velvet table linen. To incorporate the warm weather, Seascape Flowers added pops of pink and orange throughout the floral to keep the floral light and cheery for this easy going couple. We loved the whimsical sophistication of the contrasting colors! In addition to a gorgeous setting, the bride had her heart set on a “booth bus” photobooth, but all of the Booth Buses were rented out. To compromise, our adorable groom surprised his new wife with an old fashion Volkswagen he rented as well as a regular open air photobooth to create a unique photobooth with the bus as a backdrop, which we loved!

Photography: Julie Cahill Photography | Videography: Gino Mascardo | Flowers: Seascape Flowers | Cake: parker lusseau pastries | Stationery: Heart Paper Soul | Catering: Paradise Catering | Hair and Makeup: The Hair and Makeup Company | Lighting: Belmont Entertainment | DJ: Belmont Entertainment | Ceremony Music: Monterey String Quartet | Transportation: Main Event Transportation | Wedding Venue: Holman Ranch | Linen: BBJ La Tavola | Planning and Design: Coastside Couture

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