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You’ve Got This! Bridal Bootcamp Week 7 Starts Now!

Only two more weeks of workouts, babes! Only two more weeks until you’re looking and feeling better than you were six weeks ago. Only two more weeks until your fiancé is like, “DAMN, you look good!” (which he should be saying all the time anyway, but this time he’ll really mean it). Let’s be honest, there’s nothing sexier than a toned, strong, confident woman. Who wouldn’t want to marry you after this boot camp?!

You’ve clearly been working your butts off, and I want to reward you all for that this week – although maybe not in the way you’re expecting. I want to give you guys a break this week – not a physical one (sorry! Peter won’t allow it…) but a mental one.

There’s no doubt you’ve got a lot on your mind: planning a wedding, getting your workouts in, trying to eat right, working a full-time job most likely. It’s a lot when you list it all out like that, isn’t it?! I’m doing it all, and just to keep things extra interesting my fiancé and I bought a new house last week, so now I’m dealing with that, too! When it rains, it pours, eh?

So how are we expected to stay sane through all of this? I happen to be a big believer in the power of a mindfulness practice. I wrote about how meditation was saving my wedding a few months back, and I wasn’t making that up. A formal practice (designating a specific time and place each day to meditate) isn’t necessary, but I would encourage everyone participating in an intense workout program like this to, at the very least, consider practicing informally – for example, when you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a few deep breaths; or take a minute in your car on your way home from the gym each day to feel proud of yourself and thank your body.

You’ve got some major stuff going on in your lives, my dears, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a few moments each day to pat yourselves on the back or close your eyes. It’s so easy to feel beat down by the wedding planning process that it’s important to remember how great you are, how loved you are, and how hard you’re working. If you need a little guidance, check out my tips here, or reach out to me directly – I am a health coach, after all! A free consultation may be just what you need to add a little mindful awareness into your day.

And because I want to acknowledge how AMAZING you all are, I’m going to treat you to an extra special recipe for the week that actually feels like a guilty pleasure – although there is no guilt to feel! My go-to smoothie bowl is great for breakfast or lunch, and I usually make enough for a few days at a time, making it an easy on-the-go meal since you can eat it with a spoon or just throw it in a blender bottle and sip in the car.

So don’t forget to throw yourself a little love this week, gals, and don’t be afraid to take a breather every once in awhile. You’ll be surprised how much it helps. See you next week!

 

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XO,

Molly

Molly Winding is a freelance writer and health coach who splits her time between Vail and Denver. She is a foodie, health nut, and lover of books, movies, and meditation. When she isn’t working, you’ll find her spending time outside with her fiancé and their goldendoodle. Follow her @windmol!

Green Smoothie Bowl Recipe Perfect For #SMPBootcamp
Molly’s Go-To Green Smoothie
prep time
3 Minute/s
cook time
5 Minute/s
total time
8 Minute/s
Serves 2Ingredients
  • 2 cups fresh spinach
  • ½ medium-sized banana
  • ½ cup blueberries
  • 1 Tbsp almond butter
  • ¾ cup almond milk (you may need to add a bit more if your smoothie doesn’t blend easily)
  • 1 cup frozen riced cauliflower (this is what will make it cold, so it’s important that it’s frozen)
  • 2 scoops collagen peptides OR 2 egg whites
  • Optional: ½ cup sugar-free granola
  • Optional: another ½ cup of blueberries
Instructions
  1. Add spinach, banana, almond butter, and some of the almond milk to a blender and blend on high for 1 minute
  2. Add ½ cup of blueberries, cauliflower, collagen peptides or egg whites, and the rest of the almond milk to the blender and blend on high for 3-4 minutes, or until thoroughly mixed so there are no chunks or little bits of fruit
  3. Option 1: If you want to eat as a smoothie bowl (I prefer this because it helps me feel fuller than if I just drink it), pour smoothie mixture into a bowl and top with granola and additional ½ cup of blueberries
  4. Option 2: If you want to drink it, pour into a blender bottle and hit the road, no additional ingredients needed!
This Off the Radar Venue is a Total Hidden Gem

Ever heard of Lotusland? Yeah, me either. Tucked in the hills of Montecito, it unfolds like a secret garden (animal topiaries and all) and when paired with a stunning ethereal wedding like that photographed by Kurt Boomer, the beauty is off the charts. From romantic florals by Plenty of Petals to a magic open air reception coordinated by Hoste Events, get lost in this celebration with even more right here.

Kate and Aaron’s wedding was one of my favorites this year. Lotusland is one of those off the radar venues but its beauty is astounding. Set in the hills of Montecito, it gives off a feel all of its own. The whole day seemed to have a beautiful etherial feel. The bride Kate was an artist and created all of the paper goods as well as backdrops for photographing them. She had amazing style and was a joy to work with. Kasia from Plenty of Petals brought her artistic touch to the florals and the day was completed with a cruise around Santa Barbara on a catamaran.

Photography: Kurt Boomer | Cinematography: ByDesign Films | Coordination: Hoste Events | Floral Design: Plenty Of Petals | Wedding Dress: Sarah Jenks | Cake: The Farmer and the Cook | Invitations: Katherine Engel | Ring: Truong & Company | Catering: Pure Joy Catering | Groom's Attire: Joseph Abboud | String Quartet: Santa Barbara String Quartet | Wedding Venue: Lotusland Santa Barbara | Dessert: Donut Friend | Harpest: Laurie Rasmussen | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | MUAH: TEAM Hair and Makeup | Officient: Ceremonies by Nanette | Rentals: The Tent Merchant

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A Texas Wedding Inspired by the Hospitality of the French Countryside

Inspired by the beauty and the hospitality of the French countryside, Chancey Charm Wedding Planning and Design set out to create a country wedding where the entire town comes together with their best china, favorite wine, prettiest blooms, and fresh food harvested from their gardens. They enlisted the help of La Tavola, Bella Acento, Allen Tsai Photography, Lovely Bride and more of Texas’s best vendors to bring this vision to life. The shoot is warm, romantic, and celebrates love and togetherness – what else could any Bride want for her wedding day?

From Chancey Charm Wedding Planning and DesignPerched high above the Texas countryside, Dove Ridge Vineyard, a new working vineyard and venue, boasts 360 degree views of the rolling hills, impeccable finishes, and the warmest hearts amongst the owners and staff. With their self-proclaimed “Napa meets Pottery Barn” design, Dove Ridge is a perfect backdrop for any Bride’s style. Simple, neutral colors pair beautifully with the dark wood beams, complemented by astounding views of endless evergreen trees. Natural stone fireplaces bring a rustic warmth to the space. The amount of gorgeous light that flows into the main ballroom takes your breath away. At sunset, you’ll be able to catch the wide Texas sky lit up with watercolor hues. This venue captured the hearts of so many wedding vendors and nearlyweds in the few short months since its grand opening. It was a no-brainer to dream up a beautiful styled shoot to show off this new space.

When coming up with a concept for the shoot, we were drawn to the soft and romantic colors, natural elements, and endless romance that is found in the Provencal countryside of France. Provence boasts warm hospitality – just like here in the heart of Texas – and we wanted to bring to life an idea of a country wedding, together with the help of the town’s residents. Everyone brings their best flowers, china, food, and wine to spend a beautiful evening together celebrating love. The powerhouse duo, Jayla and Brandi of Blushington Blooms, brought together romantic fresh florals and aromatic plants that showcased our inspiration perfectly. The soft florals mixed with Sugar Creek Vintage Rental’s eclectic pieces made each space feel homey and warm.

Because no day in the European countryside is complete without a delicious meal, Two Sisters Catering created summer-inspired meals that looked like art. We wanted each course to feel as fresh as if the vegetables were picked from your backyard only hours before and to bring everyone at the table closer together. The luxurious paper goods and calligraphy were dreamed up by Sisters Ink Studios to mimic the soft, natural tones found in the Provencal architecture and landscapes. All of this was captured so beautifully by Allen Tsai, who brought his extensive European travel experiences with him to this shoot. From the delicious golden light to the subtle emotions he captured, every image perfectly showcased our inspiration and the romance of Dove Ridge Vineyards.

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Photography: Allen Tsai Photography | Event Planning: Chancey Charm | Floral Design: Blushington Blooms | Wedding Dress: Carol Hannah | Engagement Ring: Victor Barbone Jewelry | Catering: Two Sisters Catering | Hair + Makeup: Q Makeup & Hair Artistry | Groom's Attire: Generation Tux | Wedding Venue: Dove Ridge Vineyard | Bridal Boutique: Lovely Bridal Shop | Bridesmaids' Dress Boutique: Bella Bridesmaid | Custom Gift Boxes: Bonjour Boxes | Desserts: Crème De La Crème | Film Processing: Goodman Film Lab | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Paper Goods: Sisters Ink Studio | Rentals: Bella Acento | Rentals: Sugar Creek Vintage Rentals | Silk Ribbons: Honey Silks And Company

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We’re All About the Gorgeous Details In These Two Destination Weddings

Before you bust out those comfy sweaters and start sipping your fave PSL, we’re taking a moment to relive those warmer days on the beach with two of our fave destination weddings. Because what any fall day deserves is some glam details straight from the likes of Dreams Las Mareas Costa Rica and Dreams Riviera Cancun. Raise your hand if you agree!

We’re big fans of saying “I do” in paradise, especially if paradise happens to be in Costa Rica. And Carolyn + Jack? They agree. They rushed off to Dreams Las Mareas Costa Rica for what they knew would be the celebration of a lifetime in a spot that is perfect for couples AND families. Think water sports, an Explorer’s Club for kids and even golf excursions to Nicaragua. Not to mention the luxe accommodations for guests, gourmet dining options and pools + spas. It’s a gorgeous locale that has everything you’ll ever need, right down to the talented wedding coordinators that will guarantee your dream day.

Dreams Resorts & Spas’ is known for its amazing locations, and we’re big fans of Jackie + Tyler’s choice, Dreams Riviera Cancun. This AAA Four Diamond resort is basically famous for its tropical gardens and stunning beaches, plus they offer suites with private plunge pools.  They also happen to be kid-friendly, so you can bring along every one of your loved ones. So if you are ready to take the leap, contact a wedding coordinator today to learn all about your options – and their Unlimited Luxury® experience, which includes 24-hour room + concierge service and top-shelf liquor. Then get inspired with more of these beautiful days here and here, because you’ll be relaxing on the beach in no time at all.

Photography: Dawn Derbyshire | Photography: Madison Baltodano Photography

Would You Write Rules for Your Wedding Day?

As my wedding day is getting closer and planning is in full swing, I have started thinking about what is most important to me on that day and how I can ensure that, above all, my fiancé and I actually enjoy this most-anticipated event.

So, in order to help myself combat the inevitable hiccups with calmness, side-step unnecessary stress and focus on the happiness of the day, I decided to write a few rules for my wedding.


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Here are the five rules I have set for my wedding day, and tips for writing your own!

1. No matter what, I will not sweat the small stuff.
On that day, I will not let anything become more important than the fact that I am marrying my best friend and no catastrophe, big or small, changes the fact that we will be husband and wife when the celebrations come to an end. If the cake doesn’t show up or the flowers aren’t quite right, that’s ok, as long as my groom is waiting for me at the end of the aisle and on the dance floor. If it rains, that’s okay too, we’ll be showered with love.

2. First “I do” and then “we eat!”
So often you hear people say that the bride forgot to eat—this will not be me and it certainly will not be my fiancé. After spending over a year planning the wedding and choosing the food, we also deserve to enjoy it. Plus, we really love to eat! So, before greeting guests or hopping on the floor for our first dance, we will sit and enjoy our meal alongside family and friends.


Asia Pimental Photography

3. Timing is not always everything.
Of course, it is important to keep a schedule, but my wedding day is decidedly a drill sergeant free zone. When I look back on the day, I want to remember getting ready with my girls, spending a few extra moments with my mom while I put on my dress or hugging my dad extra tight before heading down the aisle. What I do not want to remember is someone constantly telling me that “it’s time to go” or “you don’t have time for that,” inevitably causing the type of stress that distracts from the joy.

4. Day-of tasks will be delegated and simplified.
My bridesmaids are there, first and foremost, because they are my favorite people, but they are also there to help and I am going to let them. I vow to let go and trust that my best ladies can handle small tasks, finishing touches or, quite simply, the logistics of breakfast. I also promise myself I will simplify and make choices that will help the day run smoothly so everyone can relax and enjoy being in the moment.


Christine Clark

5. We will marvel in the magic of Mr. and Mrs.
Even though it is your wedding day, there can be a lot of things you are “supposed” to do. From greeting all your guests to cutting the cake, not much happens without the two of you, which often causes the day to pass in the blink of an eye. As such, possibly the most important rule I have set is to take ten minutes to truly marvel at the magic of the day. It may sound cheesy, but whether it is just after photos or post-dinner, my new husband and I will spend a few minutes, just the two of us, taking in the moment together as newly-minted Mr. and Mrs.

How to write your own wedding day rules:
When it comes to writing rules for your own wedding day, it should be simple and fun!


Lacie Hansen

First, take time to sit down with your fiancé and talk about what you feel are the priorities for your wedding day and what you are looking forward to the most. If neither of you can wait to bust a move with each other and your guests, one of your rules may be that you will ensure you spend a majority of your evening on the dance floor. If you set rules that align with the aspects of the day that are most important to you, it is more likely that you will end up experiencing the day the way you envisioned.

Second, it is also important to take into consideration your personality type. If you are a person who tends to be more high strung, you may want to abide by the “don’t sweat the small stuff” rule in order to minimize stress and maximize joy. If you are a person who errs on the side of always making everyone else happy, perhaps consider writing a rule that encourages you to put your own happiness first on this day.


Ether & Smith

Lastly, share the rules you have written with your family and bridal party! This way, everyone that has a hand in the day knows what is most important to you and can help ensure the day is enjoyed to the fullest.

Happy wedding rule writing!

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Katie Patton is a merchant and freelance writer from Ohio, currently residing in Celebration, Florida with her fiancé. When she isn’t working you can find her sipping and snacking on a patio, traveling to see her friends and family, endlessly scrolling Instagram or Pinterest and, of course, planning her own upcoming wedding!

Magical Engagement on a Volcanic Island

I love when we get to add new locations to our site. With a bajillion weddings, engagements, elopements and inspiration shoots in our archives, that’s not something we run into very often! But today, we get to add Fuerteventura to the list—a gorgeous volcanic island in the Atlantic Ocean, where these Tanja Kibogo captured these two lovers in the perfect golden light. There’s more right this way!

From Tanya Kibogo… Reya & Christian are two doctors who met each other at work in south Germany. Both wanted to move back up towards middle west of Germany because they found it boring in the mountains for young folks. This is how a relationship started, escaping the south. Both love traveling a lot and that why they decided to do their engagement session on the volcanic island Fuerteventura. We went to the side of the island where usually no cars are allowed to drive but that was the more beautiful part of the island so we sneaked away from the main road and made it to this magical rough place for sunset shots. The second part was in the morning during sunrise at the beach in front of their hotel. Pure magic, worth the early wake up.

Photography: Tanja Kibogo | Film lab: The Find Lab

This Duo Dated Nearly a Decade Before Getting Engaged

Speaking from personal experience, having a long “dating” relationship before getting engaged is an absolutely wonderful thing. That growing together process makes the day you say I do that much more meaningful, as these two lovebirds can attest. Hello Love Photography joined them to document all the feels. See some of our favorite captures below and check out the full gallery when you’re done!

From the Bride… Stanley and I had been dating for nine years before we got engaged last summer. Many of our friends and family have been waiting for this day for a long time. And since most of our family and friends live on all ends of the US (and even abroad) we were excited at the chance to have an occasion to bring everyone together! I was inspired by the beautiful arches and garden of the Winnetka Community House for the wedding. The lush greenery provides a gorgeous backdrop that doesn’t need anything more to make it beautiful. I gravitated towards floral and watercolor motifs to bring it all together and aimed for simple, romantic and elegant.

Photography: Hello Love Photography | Floral Design: Morning Glory, Glenview | Reception Venue: Winnetka Community House | Makeup: Janice Cha | DJ: Mike Staff Productions | Hairstylist: Claire Lee

Love + Laughter Filled Florida Wedding

I fell head over heels in love with this first image right here. The The blushing Bride surrounded by the love of her beautiful bridesmaids. The smiles are real and authentic… and contagious because I can’t get a grin off my face either. Jessica Bellinger captured this sweet moment – and many, many more from this Floridian fete – and with Fox Grove Films‘ clip as well, we have a full view of what a wonderful wedding day it truly was. Soak it all up and enjoy!

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From Jessica Bellinger… One of my favorite weddings to date! Alexis and Evan had amazing style and vendor choices. This day was so important to them, and you could tell through all the effort into details they put in. I loved their venue, probably my favorite in the Central FL area. Full of beautiful gardens, a courtyard, and vintage rooms full of antique items. They also have this gorgeous historic boat that created beautiful photos for us. It was a lovely day.

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Photography: Jessica Bellinger Photography | Videography: Fox Grove Films | Event Planning: UNIQUE Weddings & Events | Floral Design: a special rose | Wedding Dress: Watters | Cake: Le Petit Sweet | Shoes: Kate Spade | Bridesmaids' Dresses: David's Bridal | Hair + Makeup: Lauren Welch | Venue: Sydonie Mansion | Bridal Boutique: BHLDN | Photography - Assistance: Ashley Watson

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The Family Heirloom China Pattern Inspired This Bride’s Big Day

Working in the wedding world, I have the pleasure of hearing of some of the most thoughtful and creative ways couples honor loved ones throughout their big days. Today’s wedding decor inspo is one of those extra special ones – the sweet Bride, a high school art teacher, had one of her students recreate the floral pattern of her grandmother’s china, and Kruse + Vieira Events expertly incorporated this watercolor painting throughout the celebration. It made for not only the prettiest of weddings, but also one of the most meaningful, and you can see it all here with thanks to the gorgeous photos by Lisa Ziesing for Abby Jiu Photography.

From Kruse + Vieira EventsIt was such a pleasure to help Melissa and Brennan plan and design their romantic Stone Tower Winery wedding. From our first meeting, Melissa had mentioned the desire to use her grandmother’s china pattern as the guide for her color palette. We ended up taking it a step further and having one of her high school art students recreate the floral pattern in watercolor form to use throughout her big day. This was just one small example of the thoughtfulness that this couple put into commemorating their loved ones and their relationship through the deliberate personal touches that permeated their big day.

The ceremony took place at St. John’s the Apostle where Melissa’s uncle officiated the wedding. Following the ceremony, guests were greeted with a wine tasting bar at Stone Tower Winery as a nod to the couple’s proposal, which took place after a visit to their favorite wine tasting bar. It was important to Melissa and Brennan to provide their guests with interactive and personalized experiences. Food and wine played a big part of that with a curated passed appetizer selection from Occasion’s Catering to pair with the couple’s favorite Stone Tower wines. The French fry station ended up being one of the bigger hits of the evening with the Cacio e Sale (parmesan and sea salt) – a nod to the Bride’s Italian heritage – being the crowd favorite.

One of the biggest wow moments ended up being the escort card display directing guests to their tables. Melissa spent hours collecting photos of the couple’s friends and family with them that we turned into black and white polaroid-esque escort cards displayed on a large wooden frame adorned with delicate blooms and stunning Café au lait dahlias.

Melissa loves soft lavender, blush, and white blooms so there was no shortage of peonies and roses in the bouquets and centerpieces. Sweet Root Village even added some fragrant little fresh lavender buds to the boutonnieres. Simple, elegance was our guiding principle for the tables, which allowed Sweet Root Village’s stunning florals to be the main focus. We paired natural linens with lots of soft candle light and several other romantic textures such as silk ribbon tied around the menus and a vintage lace runner on the head table. After dinner, the dance floor filled up quickly and remained packed throughout the evening with several spontaneous dance-offs bursting out. The dancing went on into the night and only paused shortly when late night snacks of Brennan’s favorite breakfast food – egg and bacon biscuits –were served before finally coming to an end with a stunning sparkler exit.

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Photography: Abby Jiu Photography | Event Planning + Design: Kruse & Vieira Events | Floral Design: Sweet Root Village | Ceremony Venue: St. John's the Apostle | Reception Venue: Stone Tower Winery | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Jenny Yoo | Catering: Occasions Caterers | Makeup: DNA Lab | Hair: Brianna B Adams | DJ: Black Tie Entertainment | Transportation: Road Yachts

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Tour a Lake Home That Perfectly Blends Indoor and Outdoor Spaces

When you own a lake home in Texas, it’s probably a given that you’re patio game needs to be strong. But Barbara Town took it a step further, designing a home that beautifully blurs the line between outside and in. Tour this dream space filled with great light, beautifully designed spaces and a patio that we could 100% spend the rest of our days in.

Project Lake Ridge is a recently built home that sits on the beautiful Lake McQueeney in Seguin, TX. After downsizing from their 5 bedroom traditional hill country home, the couple wanted to make their new custom built home feel more modern and while showcasing their beautiful lake views. When initially moving in, they purchased uber contemporary pieces (ie. White leather sofa) but nothing could make the space feel quite like home.

They decided to hire an interior designer to help give them a modern look that was still comfortable and casual for daily living. The only piece the client wished to keep was their glass topped coffee table and dining table. When starting the design concepts for this project, I knew I wanted to bring in natural colors with pops of blue, organic patterns and lots of texture. 

For the Living Room and Dining Room, I wanted to keep the furniture low, drawing your eye in the minute you walk through the door and out to the lake. 

 Mixing metal and wood tones brings in a more modern and comfortable feel, while giving the clients a lot of options for seating and table tops while entertaining. We custom upholstered the back of the host and hostess chairs in a subtle pattern that really adds something special and unique. 

In the Master Bedroom, the clients really wanted this to be a moody and sexy space filled with lots of layers and rich jewel tones. They had a beautiful Gustav piece that they really wanted to showcase in the room and pull the color way around. With the high ceilings I knew I wanted to create a simple, yet tall custom bed that created a great focal point for the room and backdrop for some colorful pillows.

Out on the patio, we really wanted to bring the inside, out. By continuing the look and feel from the Living Room, Dining Room, and Master Bedroom out into a comfortable space with both living and dining. I laid out the ‘living’ portion of the patio directly off the Master bedroom, with a small sofa and two swivel occasional chairs. 

We brought in color with a few decorative pillows and accessories and grounded the space with an indoor/outdoor rug. The ‘dining’ portion of the patio was placed directly off the Living Room and creates great additional seating during large parties as well as helps draw the eye out to more of the lake views.

 

Photography: Laura Dominguez | Interior Designer: Barbara Town

8 Secrets Your Wedding Planner Wishes She Could Tell You

Wedding guru, event designer, savvy stylist and yes, therapist. These are just a few of the terms used to describe a wedding planner. As a seasoned wedding planner with over a decade of life in the wedding planning world, I can tell you that I have seen and experienced A LOT.

We go to great lengths every. single. day. to guarantee that beautiful end goal- the bliss of your happiness on the day of your wedding. Today I am sharing the top eight things I wish I could tell all my brides.


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We don’t tell you everything to protect your happiness.
There are little white lies we will tell you during the planning process to keep things on an even keel. If something goes wrong, we are quick on our feet to cover and keep things calm.


We are never judging your budget.
Your budget is simply a blue print for us to use as we begin collecting quotes and recommending vendors to you. We are often working with budgets well over what our own wedding cost, so never feel like we won’t be able to plan the wedding of your dreams because of your funds.


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We are always planning dozens of events at once.
While we are SO excited about your big day, we are also SO excited about the weddings of dozens of other clients getting married at the same time as you. We become masters of juggling all of those precious details at once, so please be patient with us if we blank on your bridal party names or don’t get back to your email right away.

 


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EVERYONE has family drama.
I repeat EVERYONE. You are not alone in your sister or mother-in-law woes. Bringing families together takes a lot of TLC so try not to be too hard on yourself and tread lightly.


Your Bridezilla moment will more than likely rear its ugly head. 
Weddings are EMOTIONAL and it’s completely normal to lose your cool. However, be sure to rein in those emotions if you find yourself being snippy with vendors. If you’re rude to just one, you can be sure the rest will find out.


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Your wedding day goes by FAST.
Take in every moment! We always try to schedule extra down time into your timeline so you can steal an extra kiss (or two) with your new husband or wife.


Something will always go wrong.
While we try our hardest, there are just too many variables and people for everything to be perfect. Breathe it in, accept it. It’s usually—hopefully—something minor like a broken bra strap or missing escort card.


Darya Kamalova of Thecablookfotolab


Remember why you are getting married.
Remember that all of these details are just background noise. At the end of the day, you have each other and that’s all that matters.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Jennae Saltzman is based in Minneapolis, MN and is the owner of Blush & Whim Wedding Planning + Event Design. She was recently named one of the TOP 10 Wedding Planners in the Midwest by Martha Stewarts’ sister company, MyWedding Magazine.

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If You Answer Yes To These 3 Questions, You NEED a Wedding Videographer

You may be contemplating if you really want to have a videographer at your wedding. It’s an expense but it may be so worth it for your big day. If you answer yes to one or more of the questions below, you may want to seriously consider budgeting for a videographer. Josh Gooden, videographer of 31 Films, weighs in as you consider your options.

 

 


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Do you want to re-live toasts, prayers and the officiant’s message?
“Most couples forget that video is not just visually driven, but predominately audio driven,” Gooden said. They forget that audio is one of the key components to wedding videos that allows them to not only see the whole detail of each moment, but hear the reactions, laughs, pep talks, and everything else. Photos show you what things looked like, but videos completely transport you back to those special moments.


Sean Cook Wedding Photography


Are you having an intimate destination wedding or a cultural wedding?
Small destination weddings place the family gatherings and wedding celebrations in a beautiful scenic place. “With intimate weddings, the guest list is typically limited to their closest family and very dear friends,” Gooden said. Film will capture the exchanges between the closest friends and family members that will be a beautiful addition to any wedding video.

For cultural weddings, there are many amazing moments and traditions you don’t want to miss.”There is often a lot to capture and I believe you can share a lot more context through audio and video,” Gooden said.


Megan W Photography


Are you stressing that your wedding day will fly by too fast?
If so, you’re not far off in your worries. “The day will go by in the blink of an eye, so make sure to enjoy yourself to the fullest.,” Gooden said. While you will try your best to enjoy it to the fullest and be present in the moment, it can be hard to do if you’re constantly worrying that time is slipping away.

Having a videographer will put your mind at ease. You’ll be able to live your day completely present knowing that your day will be captured through film for you and your loved ones to re-live for the rest of your lives.


Michele Beckwith

A wedding day is a story you’ll want to relive for the rest of your life.”The most important thing, as a couple, is to remember that the day is a celebration,” said Gooden.

Think about how you want your wedding story to be told, and how it can be a true celebration for you, your spouse, and your guests. The answer may be “through film”.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Kylie Thompson is a freelance writer, blogger, and marketing professional from Grand Rapids Michigan, where she resides with her husband. When she isn’t working, you will find her exploring Grand Rapids’ newest culinary establishments with her husband, or traveling up and down Lake Michigan’s coast.

Stroll Through Paris’s Iconic Sites With This Classic E-Session

I had the pleasure of visiting Paris for the first time last month and immediately fell in love with the city – and this engagement session captured by the talented Amanda Wei Photo is taking me right back to the romance of those cobblestone streets. The gorgeous Bride-to-be absolutely glowed, with thanks to Harold James, as she walked hand-in-hand with her love around some of Paris’s most beautiful and iconic sites. From the Eiffel Tower to a majestic chateau, there’s so many pretty moments to see in this gallery!

From Amanda Wei PhotoThe world is far from lying when they say that Paris is one of the most romantic places in the world. Even with the gritty street art, gloomy weather, and cigarette smoke every where you turn, the cobble stone streets, petite cafe store fronts, and never-ending, jaw-dropping architecture of Paris will sweep you off your feet.

Our clients, Jessie and Shuning who are getting married at Auberge du Soleil next April, decided to have a destination engagement session in Paris, and we couldn’t be more thrilled about it! We split their session into two days to get the most out of France that we possibly could. On day one, we wandered through Paris, starting at the world famous Eiffel Tower. We began just before sunrise to beat the crowds and to capture the beautiful soft pink light, and man, was it worth it! We carried on and went to the Pont Alexandre III, which is a stunning bridge crossing over the Seine that is elegantly decorated with gold statues and old black street lamps. Continuing on our stroll through Paris, we stopped by the Louvre Museum, wandered through Les Deux Plateaux with its fun black and white pillars, passed by Notre Dame, and found ourselves wandering through tiny side streets loaded with shops, cafes, and gift stores.

Just in the nick of time before the rain overtook Paris, we ended our first session at one of our favorite locations on the side of the Seine. People were scattered along the river that runs through Paris like the vain of romance every day, just enjoying each others company, some with a bottle of wine, a baguette, or a bit of cheese. It was amazing to see how this simple place surrounded by such beauty could be the source of encouragement for so much love, chivalry, and romance.

After a stunning countryside drive about an hour south of Paris, we arrived at this magnificent chateau for day two of our session! The view of the front entrance was so incredibly breathtaking, we were all so thrilled about the day that was ahead of us, and it was only just the beginning. We spent a good couple of hours strolling through the chateau with our jaws dropped, pit-stopping every now and then along the way to shoot. Each room had its own unique style and elegance, which created the perfect setting for a unique engagement session! After covering all of the locations possible inside, it was time to head out to the garden. (It was also time to get a golf cart!) The Chateau de Vaux le Vicomte was so incredibly massive, majestic, romantic, and well-manicured! We kept day-dreaming about attending parties that were hosted there way back when… Could you imagine?! It was such a beautiful day casually strolling through the chateau that we pretended was our very own private palace, photographing such an incredibly sweet, fun and loving couple, Jessie and Shuning.

Thank you again for taking us on such an amazing adventure! We absolutely love destination shoots and can’t wait for the next one! Paris, you stole our hearts.

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Photography: Amanda Wei Photography | Hair + Makeup: Harold James

A Blush Colored Ode to Classic Southern Beauty

Consider this inspiration designed and styled by Bellafare an ode to classic Southern beauty. The charming grounds of Magnolia Plantation set the scene for a garden affair awash in blush colored florals by Forage & Fleur and beautiful stationery by Lazywood Lane. All in all it makes for a shoot as romantic as they come and the peacock certainly doesn’t hurt either. Get inspired to craft your own Southern affair through the stunning images captured by Simply Sarah.

From Kristin with Bellfare…This old-world garden inspired shoot highlighted the iconic Southern landscape of live oaks and spanish moss found throughout beautiful Magnolia Plantation. The glossed blush china, gold flatware, and lace inspired linen, added a soft feminine touch to the tablescape. With loose, organic botanicals woven throughout the paperie and bride’s gown, the garden theme was thread throughout every detail. To top it all off, the all-white peacocks that call Magnolia Plantation home added an element of surprise that even coordinated with the overall design.

Photography: Elizabeth Lanier Photography | Event Design & Styling: Bellafare | Florals: Forage & Fleur | Wedding Dress: Carolina Herrera | Cake: Tessa Pinner | Stationary: Lazywood Lane | Shoes: Bella Belle | Rings: Trumpet & Horn | Makeup and Hair: Ash & Co. | Venue: Magnolia Plantation Carriage House | Dress Shop: Betty Bridal Atelier | Linen: BBJ La Tavola | Plant Dyed Silk Ribbons: The Poetry of Silk | Rentals: Ooh! EventHaus

4 Tips For a Well Thought Out Wedding Registry

In theory, creating a wedding registry is a fun and easy breezy day trip to the store. But, if you’re as clueless as me (who knew you needed to register for more than four place settings in a household of two?) it helps to have an insider to walk you through the process. Enter the wedding experts.


Ether & Smith

As planners and etiquette experts, they often act as a stand-in friend and confidante to hundreds of brides who are unsure of how to navigate different aspects of the bridal experience. Here are their tips for navigating it all like a pro.

Quantity is important
Remember when I mentioned needing to register for more than four place settings? Candice Coppola, owner of Jubilee Events, explains why: “Your wedding china, flatware and glassware will hold sentimental value and meaning for a lifetime. Plates break, they get loaned and never returned or patterns become discontinued. This may be the only time you receive the patterns you’ve selected. Make sure you have enough. It comes in handy when you host a big dinner party like your first Thanksgiving.”

For that reason, she encourages clients to register for dinner service for at least 12, but 16 is ideal.

Streamline your registry.
“These days, our clients are all about expressing their personal style in their homes,” says Shannon Leahy Rosenbaum of Shannon Leahy Events. “They find that many of the big box registries are a little too “one size fits all” for their tastes.” As a result, Shannon says many couples are hitting Pinterest for ideas and registering via third-party sites like Zola, My Registry, and Blueprint.

The upside of these vendors is that they pull from multiple vendors, but sort everything in one portal, making it an easy, one-stop shop for guests to purchase gifts from. Eliminating the nuisance of visiting multiple sites and having to submit billing information more than once.

Keep in mind some things may be out of stock if you immediately register but your wedding isn’t for more than six months, says Amy Spears, owner of Socials in the South event planning. Be sure to visit and update your registry regularly to avoid out-of-season items, particularly if you have a long engagement.


Ruth Eileen Photography

Pick items that are pretty and practical.
Modern couples are saying hello to everyday fine china. “Heath Ceramics creates high-quality ceramics I love,” says Shannon. “Their table settings feel high-end and timeless enough that they can still be special family heirlooms.” For a fancy dinner party, she recommends dressing them up with festive linens, placemats and silverware. However, they are versatile and durable enough to be used daily (aka, they’re dishwasher safe!).


Ruth Eileen Photography

Register for experiences.
Etiquette experts agree that it’s more than ok for couples to register for date night ideas. Since many people are getting married later in life, it’s possible they already live together and have already furnished a home. If you fall in that category, use a registry like Honeyfund to register for activities to do your honeymoon.

“There are plenty of sites that offer options for guests to gift couples with everything from rafting trips to car rentals,” says Amy. Not going on your honeymoon immediately after the wedding and still prefer an activity versus a product? Use a site like Zola to register for a cooking class in your city.
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Style Me Pretty – Ximena N. Larkin is a writer and publicist. She lives in Chicago with her husband and dog. More at ximenalarkin.com

Throwing the Perfect Al Fresco Wedding From the Comfort of Home

This Bride and Groom didn’t have to travel farther than their own backyard for a dream wedding venue. With gorgeous mountain views and a newly landscaped garden, their Fallbrook home played host to a romantic al fresco celebration inspired by the moonlight. From a wildly romantic floral arch crafted by Plenty of Petals to the prettiest garden details designed by To La Lune Events, get inspired to throw your wedding from the comfort of home courtesy of stunning photographs by Carmen Santorelli.

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From the Bride…David and I knew that we wanted the beautiful mountain views from our Fallbrook home to serve as the backdrop for our wedding day. The only issue was that our backyard was not landscaped or properly graded for our dream Al Fresco wedding. So, we immediately began a full-scale backyard project that included an infinity pool, extensive grading, landscaping, and hardscape. This put us in the unique position of designing an outdoor living space to enjoy for years to come while also creating the stage for our big day. Lucky for us, our visionary and daring wedding coordinator (Christy from To La Lune) was on board and the rest of the vendors that made for a design dream team followed suit. The overall style we were going for was old world elegance with a contemporary twist and we drew inspiration from the mountains that surround us as well as the moon that shines above them. Our color palette consisted of a variety of creams and soft greys accompanied by moody tones of deep indigo and dark grey along with pops of blush and golden yellow hues. From the impeccable table settings, to the floral lined aisle, to the custom hand painted guest favors, to the modern acrylic pieces, and the romantic hand calligraphy, we loved how every thoughtful detail came together. The design truly was a labor of love and collaboration that beautifully reflected our personal style. And all of the above was made that much more intimate because we were able to share it with our closest loved ones in the comfort of our own home.

Photography: Carmen Santorelli Photography | Floral Design: Plenty Of Petals | Catering: Giuseppe Fine Catering | Makeup + Hair: Beauty By Melina | Calligraphy: Nancy Hopkins Lettering | DJ: Choice Entertainment | Acrylic Moons: Laura Made It | Cupcakes + Dessert: Hey There, Cupcake! | Event Design & Coordination: To La Lune Events | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Live Music: Kevin Miso | Rentals: Archive Rentals | Rentals: Classic Party Rentals | Rentals: Geranium Street | Save the Date, Invitation, Acrylic Elements: Peanut Press Creative | Tableware: Casa de Perrin | Video: Audrey Alba Films

The Kind of Destination Wedding You Want to Be a Guest At

An invitation arrives on your doorstep for a wedding in Greece—what do you do? RSVP, hell yes! Especially when it’s a stunner like this one planned by White Ribbon Boutique Events. From the Bride’s elegant dress to the breezy al fresco reception, Anna Roussos snapped up every bit, which will have you adding this destination to your bucket list.

From the Bride… We knew when we decided to get married in Greece that we wanted to do something different and a little off the beaten path. Our desire was to show our guests a different side to Greece and the island of Spetses was just the place. The Poseidonion Grand Hotel is not only a landmark of the island, but the most elegant destination. It offered a touch of old-school glam against beautiful blue sea views, lavender blossoms in the garden, a grand staircase (perfect for our first look!) and the glass-tiled pool. As for our ceremony and reception, we really wanted something unique. We decided on Agios Georgios Church and the adjacent Zogeria Beach. The secluded destination, lush greenery and gorgeous waters of the Argolic Gulf were the most idyllic backdrop. Our guests witnessed were transported to Zogeria (accessible by boat only) on the Buona Fortuna boat and witnessed our traditional Greek Orthodox ceremony at the most charming white washed church. Post ceremony, we ventured down the breathtaking path to our beach party setup. The soft color palette really accented the natural beauty of the setting along with the dance floor off the water and the string bistro lighting. The fireworks were the perfect ending the evening as guests danced the night away!

Photographer : Anna Roussos | Videography: Lee Bakogiannakis | Wedding Planning & Design : White Ribbon Boutique Events | Florals: Red Box Days | Wedding Dress : Monique Lhuillier | Cake: Pavlov's Lab | Catering: Menoo | Make-up: Katerina Theofilopoulou | Hair: White Lilac | Groom's Suit : Tom Ford | Bridal Shoes : Alexandre Birman | Ceremony & Reception: Zogeria Beach | Dishes: White Lilac | Fireworks: Nanos Fireworks | Furniture: Stylebox | Invitations & Stationary: Atelier Invitations | Music, Sound & Lights: music essentials

5 Southern Destinations for a Grand Minimoon

No matter where you tie the knot, celebrating with some Southern charm is irresistible. Before you pull out all the stops planning your honeymoon, take a peek at these luscious Southern resorts for a weekend minimoon you won’t forget. Sometimes living the simple life is all you need for a newlywed vacay.


Natalie Watson 

Blackberry Farm – Walland, TN

On the edge of Great Smoky Mountains National Park sits the most relaxing getaway you could dream of. With an assortment of historic rooms, suites, and cottages to choose from, Blackberry Farm offers an exorbitant amount of creature comforts in a classic setting.

And if you’re a foodie, your minimoon search might be over. Here at the farm, you can book private wine tastings, whiskey tastings, culinary classes, and even shadow a chef for a day. Every meal here is a celebration. What better way to start a new life together?


Harwell Photography


Little Palm Island Resort & Spa – Little Torch Key, FL

If life on the water is more your style, this boutique five-star resort on a private island might be more your speed. Just a sliver of sand, Little Palm Island will have you falling in love all over again.

The bungalow suites open out onto sandy beaches where paradise awaits. No matter how you enjoy the island, this is a place to slow down and soak in each other’s company.


Perry Vaile Photography


Bohemian Hotel Savannah Riverfront – Savannah, GA

Beloved by tourists and locals alike, this place is a hip hangout for you and your newly officiated love. Let yourself sink into the nautical design as you enjoy a much-needed vacation.

The hotel itself is second only to the riverfront festivities. With bedrooms and lounges filled with unique paintings, chandeliers and gallery pieces from international artists, strolling the halls is an amazing experience. This is the place to be if you want to sip cocktails from the rooftop and lounge by the water.


Taylor Lord


Travaasa Austin – Austin, TX

Continue the celebration after the reception is over by staying at the Travaasa Austin. This place is home to some serious rustic romance.

There’s nothing you can’t do here. Soak, swim, steam, ride, garden, dance, eat, drink, and be merry. It’s like a Texas fairy tale come to life. You and your honey can revel in activities like trail riding, sketching, bird-watching, cooking, and anything else you can think of. For the adventurers and memory-makers, this all-inclusive minimoon is just a short flight away.


Sarah Beth Photography


Melrose Mansion – New Orleans, LA

The home of infinite culture, cuisine, and cute photo ops, New Orleans has the power to make a romantic weekend getaway even more lovely. For a couple of classic lovebirds, staying in a historic Victorian-era mansion is the start of a wondrous weekend.

Since Melrose Mansion is centrally located, you can play the tourist or the local as you wander the streets and explore every neighborhood. Ride the trolly, indulge in beignets, and savor every moment. Your first trip as a married couple is sweeter down by the Bayou.

Style Me Pretty Contributor – Katy Palmer is a casting producer and creative consultant in Denver by way of Los Angeles. When she isn’t working you will find her volunteering at local film festivals, enjoying the Denver comedy scene and supporting other women in media. Connect with her on Instagram @bykatypalmer.

Santa Barbara Wedding in Shades of Pink

It comes as no surprise that we love a good pop of color here at SMP, so this Santa Barbara wedding at El Encanto sure did make us do a little happy dance when we first saw it. From the bright and fluffy blooms adorning the ceremony arch by Coco Rose Design to the soft pink accessories paired with the Groom’s light gray suit, the day incorporated pink and rosy hues in all the best ways. Head to the Vault, where all the pretty pink inspiration captured by This Modern Romance is waiting for the taking!

Sometimes you meet a couple and just get them. The way they sit, so close and comfortably. How they finish each other’s sentences and seem to continue each other’s thoughts. That is Annie and Paul. The beautiful thing here is that both of these gracious, lovely, funny, and smart people share each other’s goodness. From the first moment of their initial meeting to the last moment at the end of the last dance, these two were side by side sharing their love and goodness, not just with each other but with all of us.

Annie and Paul wanted their wedding to reflect their passion for fun and romance. El Encanto was the obvious choice for them and offered a warm and welcoming destination for their guests. Sometimes you hear “smile” about a thousand times from your photographer, but they needed no prompting on their wedding day. Stephanie of This Modern Romance captured their essence, following along as they stole kisses and playful looks. The soft neutral florals by Coco Rose made the lily pond the perfect backdrop for their sweet exchange of vows. A turtle even came up to visit and sat on his rock as he and the rest of the guests watched their first kiss. Next guests were treated to the fun. Pinks and pops of color reflected their fun personality and lively music filled the gorgeous ballroom. Soft light from the golden Santa Barbara sunset cascaded through the windows as Annie and Paul danced together for the first time as husband and wife. We used a balance of soft colors and textures from La Tavola Fine Linen to finish the tables. Guests enjoyed their dinner listening to loved ones toast the newlyweds, sharing stories, memories, and hopes for the future.

Last, DJ Gavin Roy took the party to the the next level, playing the couples’ favorite tunes late into the night. Guests danced, laughed, ate, and drank. That connection that Annie and Paul share was now shared with all of us, and it was a goodness we won’t soon forget.

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Photography: This Modern Romance | Coordination: Wedding Kate | Floral Design: Coco Rose Design | Reception Venue: Belmond El Encanto | Makeup: Pretty Please Beauty | DJ: Gavin Roy | Linen Rentals: BBJ La Tavola