The historic venue, the romantic gardens, her breathtaking Oscar De La Renta gown, the timeless hues… this wedding is a nothing short of a fairytale from start to finish. We don’t know about you, but Filoli Estate is quickly becoming one of our all time favorite venues. I mean… after seeing this wedding, how can you blame us! Harlin & Sparrow Events brought the couple’s “1920’s formal garden party atmosphere” to life, while Max Gill blew us away with his effortlessly beautiful arrangements! The bride and groom incorporated personal touches at every turn, from their ceremony to their drink stirrers, that celebrated their unique personalities and cultures. Don’t miss out on the full gallery captured by Sylvie Gil Photography for some major garden wedding inspo.
From the Bride… Kushal and I are both from the Bay Area and met while working together in San Francisco. We were living in Boston when we got engaged but Kushal wanted to propose somewhere special to us. He proposed one weekend when we were back visiting San Francisco at Chrissy Fields, which is a beach in the city where we’ve brought our dogs for years. Kushal’s proposal was such a special moment and he surprised me again when we got back to our hotel and our family and friends were waiting to congratulate us. We spent the night celebrating at Tonga Room, which is a hilarious tiki bar that we love in the city.
We knew we wanted to have the wedding weekend in the Bay Area. For the Rehearsal Dinner and Friday night reception, we rented out Park Tavern, which is a great restaurant that we love in the city. For the wedding day, Kushal’s mom suggested we check out Filoli in Woodside, which had just started having weddings. Kushal’s family lives in Palo Alto and his mother goes to Filoli every year to celebrate Mother’s Day.
I’ve always loved beautiful historic buildings and gardens and knew I wanted to get married outdoors. When I visited Filoli it was so beautiful and beyond what I could have imagined. The venue became the inspiration for our wedding, which had a 1920’s formal garden party atmosphere. With our venue set, we started looking for vendors that could make our dream wedding come to life. We loved working with people who had a distinctive style that matched ours and everyone was truly fantastic to work with.
Our ceremony was held in the garden at a spot called the wedding place, which was built for the wedding of the owner’s daughter 80 years ago. I loved the romantic symbolism of that and the entire design for the ceremony was meant to emphasize the natural beauty of the space. Our wedding ceremony incorporated our dogs and both of our parents walked each of us down the aisle. The ceremony also included both Christian and Hindu elements to reflect both mine and Kushal’s heritage. My grandmother gave a reading and my grandfather officiated our wedding. It meant the world to us to have them in our wedding and for my grandfather to be the one to pronounce us husband and wife.
We wanted the dinner and reception to be more fun and celebratory and to reflect both Kushal and my personalities. My childhood nickname was Panda and Kushal grew up loving Jurassic Park so when we moved to Boston, my parents threw us a pandas and dinosaurs-themed going away party. The theme stuck and for our wedding we found panda and dinosaur drink stirrers, which people loved and wore in their lapels throughout the night. Some of our favorite memories were dancing with each other and with our parents in the beautiful ballroom at Filoli. For dancing, we were thrilled that we had Tainted Love, an amazing 80s cover band that we’ve seen half a dozen times in the city, as our band. One of my favorite moments of the night was dancing onstage with my mom to ‘How Will I Know’ by Whitney Houston. The entire weekend was a dream and we couldn’t have imagined a more perfect way to celebrate the beginnIng of our married life together.
Photography: Sylvie Gil Photography | Event Planning: Harlin & Sparrow Events | flowers: Max Gill | Gown : Oscar De La Renta | Catering : Taste Catering and Event Planning | Make up: Sherrie Long Makeup Hair & Effects | Venue: Filoli Garden | Linens : BBJ La Tavola | Rentals : Hensley Event Resources | Rentals : Bright Event Rentals | bridal shop : jinwang