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A Wedding Planner’s 3 Simple Ways to Notify Your Guests of Your New Wedding Date

It seems nowadays we start a lot of conversations by “what a year this has been” or “I hope you’re well in these unprecedented times”. Twenty-twenty has been a whirlwind to say the least. Along with the wedding industry, 2020 couples have really weathered the storm. We’re at the point where some may have postponed their wedding not once, some twice and even thrice. Like what I did there? 

To make the postponement process easier I wanted to provide you with some easy ways you can keep your guests abreast of all changes to your wedding date, whether you’ve set a new one, or not.

Sarah Shuttle Creative

 

1. Wedding Website Updates

At one point wedding websites were super trendy and allowed you to tell your love story as well as post cute pictures of you and your spouse-to-be for all your guests to see. The great thing about websites is they can be updated quickly and once your guests have the link they can bookmark and visit the website as often as necessary. Create a section called “wedding updates”, and as the date for your big day changes or any details need to be tweaked, update the page and also send out a quick email to your guest list letting them know new information is available. Some wedding websites also have an app where you can push notifications to your guests phones, pretty cool, right?

Rebecca Yale Photography

 

2. An Un-save the Date Card

While this may be a little more costly, many couples prefer to use traditional methods to advise guests of any changes to their weddings dates. Wording on an un-save the date card could include:

“Ooops, COVID changed our plans but stay tuned for our new date”,

“Same wedding, same guests, different date” or;

“ Save our new date, the party’s going to be great”

Work with your stationer to create unique wording for your specific situation, you can also give your guests a heads up that they’ll be receiving a wedding update via the mail.

 

3. Email Blasts

While normally email marketing software is used for businesses, a great way to keep everyone on top of your wedding changes is sending out an email blast. The benefit of using software is you can track who has read the email, use templates as well as store the email list so that if you need to send further updates it’s all easily accessible. Be sure to always collect email addresses from your guests when compiling their information and this will make it easier to get your lists setup for future use.

With all the uncertainty regarding gatherings across the globe, these tips should provide you with a quick and easy way to keep loved ones up to date and in the know when it comes to your big day. Hopefully, changing your date more than once won’t be necessary, but if it is, these methods of updating your guests should have you covered!

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The Perfect Setting for a Modern Thanksgiving…or Friendsgiving

Whether celebrating Thanksgiving with friends, family or both, this holiday inspiration will give your festivities a fresh, modern kick. The ladies of Beijos Events know how to set the perfect tablescape and it shines through with this outdoor affair loaded with steal-worthy details like a moody, autumnal color palette, pops of copper and bohemian textiles. Even if you’re not lucky enough to do thanksgiving alfresco, you can pull this inspiration indoors for an equally lovely gathering. See the full shindig captured by Riley Starr right here.

From Beijos Events…One of the best things about living in California is the fact that we get to be outside all year round. Including the special days like Thanksgiving and Christmas! Often times you can find us barbecuing on these holidays! Each year my friends and I like to get together and have a Friendsgiving, it’s such a great kick off to the holiday season. This year we took advantage of the great weather and my friend’s newly renovated backyard! It was the perfect setting to gather us all and enjoy some delicious food and drinks.

One of the things we don’t like about these get togethers is the clean up. I came across L’Entramise, a beautiful disposable line that was perfect for our table setting. Their pieces have a sleek and pretty look and are so well crafted. The best part was at the end of the night we could just toss everything away and not worry about the dishes!

Our friends at Colette’s Catering designed a menu with a modern take on Thanksgiving dinner. We had a delicious salad, roasted veggies and squab instead of turkey. They also put together a killer cheese plate, which every party needs in my opinion! And a delicious dessert that had us all happy at the end of the. night. One Hope wine helped us pair each course with the perfect wine as well!

For the details we turned to Olive & Blooms for florals and Miss Multee for the invite, menus and place cards. We used the colors of the tabletop and added in some deep berries and copper to finish it off. The beautiful florals lined the table and really brought a fall feel to the event, with a fresh and modern take. And everybody kept talking about the beautiful hand written menus, they were an ombre gold to copper that perfectly shined all night.

Each year at this time I get a bit sentimental, it means another year is coming to an end. But ending it with great friends is always a good idea, and that’s why Friendsgiving is so special.

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Photographer: Riley Starr | Event Planning: Beijos Events | Floral Design: Olive & Blooms | Catering: Colette’s Catering & Events | Calligrapher: Miss Multee | Pillows/Blankets: The Garage Collective | Tabletop: L'entramise | Wine: One Hope Wine

Modern Farmhouse Wedding Inspiration Complete With a Vintage Truck Abounding in Blooms

“Neutral, organic, with a touch of whimsy”… a few words to describe today’s wedding inspiration planned by E Events Co. perfectly defined by Carlie Statsky. If you’re looking for a modern farmhouse venue for your microwedding – look no further than Seascape Flowers’ brand new property in sunny California. The surrounding nature makes for the perfect backdrop for your ceremony while the all-white barn serves as the most insta-worthy reception spot! To see all the inspiration from this day, including custom wooden arches made by Statsky Design, don’t miss out on the full gallery!

From Carlie StatskyOur team drew inspiration from Seascape Flowers’ new modern farmhouse venue for intimate, outdoor events, as well as the surrounding nature, so everything was kept neutral and organic with a touch of masculine whimsy for our two handsome grooms. 

Some of the special features included a bold and dramatic ombre boutonniere to compliment the dusty rose tuxedo jacket from The Black Tux, vintage Rolex watches from Fourtane, custom wooden arches made by Statsky Design that were beautifully covered in floral by Seascape Flowers, an eclectic yet cohesive mix of rentals from Revival Rentals, (including a leather lounge set up for enjoying some whiskey cocktails) a vintage yellow pickup truck filled and overflowing with floral and greenery, and a beautiful tables cape designed by E Events Co with amazing cane black chairs and earthy place settings from Theoni, complimented by more organic floral. 

It was such a fun day spent celebrating these two grooms in love and the beauty of nature, and good design!

Photography: Carlie Statsky | Event Design: E Events Co. | Event Planning: E Events Co. | Floral Design: Seascape Flowers | Cake: Tart And Tin | Invitations: Bourne Paper Co | Groom's Attire: The Black Tux | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Men's accessories: Fourtane | Rentals: Revival Vintage Rentals | Rentals: Theoni Collection | Rentals: RJ Vintage Trucks | ceremony & reception: Seascape Flowers | craft Cocktails: Bar Cart Cocktail Co

Abby Larson’s Playbook for Easy, Effortless Gatherings

Here’s the deal. It doesn’t matter if you are entertaining indoors or out, in a pandemic or in the blissful time before, with 25 people or with 5. The foundation of a successful gathering is always the same. So, as we enter a holiday season that looks and feels so very different from years past, it’s comforting to know that the basic rules of entertaining will always stay essentially the same. You might need to invest in a heater or package up your desserts individually, but for better or worse, a successful get together is one that looks pretty, celebrates something delicious, invites coziness and requires little to no stress.

photo: white loft studio

Get Organized Ahead of Time. This is the numero uno, baby. The guests, the menu, the timing, the serve ware. I write everything down and pull all supplies + decor out ahead of time. Sounds labor intensive but it really only takes a few minutes and will save you a lot of stress on the day of. If you are hosting Thanksgiving or a holiday dinner, this rule is the end all be all of rules. Channel your inner Type-A friend and just do it. The more detailed, the better. I usually work backwards from 1. how many my table will seat and 2. what time I want dinner to be served. It all falls into place once I determine those two things.

photo: leila brewster

Use What You Have. First and foremost, the frantic purchases in the days before a party are what usually send both pre and post party stress over the edge. While you have seen or used your own plates and napkins and flatware a million times, and might have serveware-fatigue, your guests haven’t. So take a solid inventory. Think about what you can highlight (your favorite wine glasses), what you can repurpose (a cake stand makes for a great platform for candles or appetizers) and what you can dust off (those throw pillows that haven’t seen the light of day since last Fall).

photo: white loft studio

Transform (or Make) What You Need. Look both outdoors and in for little moments that you can transform to keep your costs down. I regularly spray paint wispy leaves from our yard in a pretty copper color. I almost always use ribbon to wrap the flatware atop the napkins. Pretty baguettes in baskets make for gorgeous centerpieces or favors placed on each place setting. Coasters can turn into bases for candles that line the table. Ribbon can be puddled down the center of the table to create a faux runner. The ideas and options are endless.

photo: leila brewster

Consider the Elements. I promise you, if you don’t consider the elements – the weather, the lighting, the environment – the party won’t be nearly as successful. I have a little stockpile of candles + a few lanterns that I always pull out for outdoor entertaining. I have tiny bug sprays for the summer months and pillows/blankets for the colder months. Really think about how the general elements will play into your guests’ experience and plan for everything.

photo: leila brewster

Practicalities Matter. We’re talking where your guests will put any trash or disposables, who will refill drinks and appetizer trays, who will welcome the guests in, who will make sure the music stays on and at the right volume. All of this can and should be planned ahead and while it sounds like a lot, it totally isn’t. I tuck a little trash can behind a brick wall in our yard. I keep a pitcher of wine + water outside so guests can refill themselves. I ask my husband or daughter to greet guests. It can be simple but making sure these little details are cared for, will 100% turn a clunky party into a perfect party.

Make Some, Buy Some. If you try to make every last element of the dinner, you will go insane. Your stress level will be hard core and you won’t enjoy the party. My general rule is the make one super-star dish and either cheat the rest or buy the rest. By cheating, I simply mean buying pre-made pie dough for handpies with a gourmet ice cream, doing a super simple app like baked cream cheese + goat cheese with crackers, piling a bunch of pretty branches from my yard in a pitcher instead of doing florals. A good rule of thumb? Cheat your way through the beginning and end, and create a star in the middle. It’s the Jan to your Marcia.

photo: leila brewster

Have a Focal Point. For me, it’s usually a pretty centerpiece. Something lovely that distracts from the simplicity of the table settings. It could also be a beautiful charcuterie board or adorable pillows set on every chair, a firepit with s’more ingredients, fun lawn games. Anything that your guests’ eyes immediately go to means that they likely won’t notice the more understated moments throughout the rest of the party.

photo: white loft studio

Keep the Kids Entertained. If you are having kids, this is a BIG DEAL. Kids – and I have three so I’m not talking smack – can make it impossible for 1. you to keep the party going smoothly and 2. allow any guests that don’t have children to really have solid conversation. So having a few activities is always a good idea. Even just setting out coloring pages and crayons goes a long, long way.

photo: leila brewster

Make it Cozy. I have this annoying tendency to look for a place to sit no matter where I am. The DMV. My kids’ school. In line at the grocery. I’m always looking for a place to rest my rear. So I have made it a rule to make sure there are always plenty and more chairs to go around and that each chair feels soft and inviting. Even if it’s one of my wooden adirondack chairs. A pillow and a cozy throw go a long way for upping the comfort factor. But more than that, bringing in great music, pretty candles, curating your guest list to include only lovely people…these are all apart of the cozy factor for a party.

Try to Charm Them. Learned from grandmothers past and present, adding a little something fun or whimsical to your gathering is so so important. It makes people laugh, it becomes a conversation piece. At my in law’s anniversary dinner, we had little cuddling flamingo salt and pepper shakers on the table. I often put little bowls of curled paper conversation starters out for people to share. Sometimes, my kids will create place cards for everyone complete with silly pictures. A party that doesn’t take itself too seriously is a party that I want to attend.

A Monogrammed Floral Arbor That’s About to Go Viral on Pinterest

Today’s styled shoot planned by The Design Agency at Magnolia Way brings wedding personalization to a whole new level. The darling couple exchanged vows under a custom-built arch that emulates the grand doorway framing the venue, adorned with a gorgeous wedding monogram created by Inquisited. After the “I do’s”, guests enjoyed an intimate candle-lit reception beneath cascading florals by Violet Rose Floral as a harpist played in the background… I mean, how dreamy is that?! To see all the inspiration this day has to offer – check out the full gallery of details captured by Lynn Dunston.

From The Design AgencyInspired by wanting to tell the story of black love, I designed this event to showcase the truth and beauty of black people. A simple and elegant color palette of charcoal grey, cream and taupe with accents of gold. The ceremony features a modern arch backdropped by the beautiful lake at Magnolia Way. The custom-built arch mimics the grand doorway framing the venue. Guests were treated with a stunning waterfront view as the ceremony took place, with the arch perfectly surrounding the couple. 

Cherry blossoms adorned the sides of the arch, which represent a time for renewal. They were accompanied by the most stunning roses from Grace Rose Farm. The custom monogram designed by Inquisited sat atop the arch, an element that appears throughout the event. Cocktail hour, to me, is the optimal time to entertain the guests. The highlight of the cocktail hour was the custom-built bar, backdropped by a stunning Van Gogh cherry blossom wallpaper that added depth and texture to the structure. The cast iron bar features the monogram designed by Inquisited accented by more cherry blossoms and cream florals. The backdrop and the bar together created an interesting three dimensional focal point to the cocktail hour. 

A full-floral arbor arch over the table design created a romantic and luxe focal point for guests to enjoy. The cascading florals above the guests as well as the large floral centerpieces created stunning environment for the reception. The table design was a mix of modern and classic, with airy floral designs by Violet Rose Floral and slender tapered candles. Guests were greeted to menu cards that doubled as placecards inside of a custom velvet slip case designed by Inquisited, letterpressed with the wedding monogram. 

Throughout the event, a harpist played beautiful classical music that tied the atmosphere together. The bride and groom, both engineers, wore classic pieces. The groom wore a custom tuxedo, and the bride’s stunning beaded gown by Jude Jowilson featured light shoulder draping. Her hair flowed in gentle waves down her back, leaving her face bright and open. Her overall look was soft with clean lines. 

Photography: Lynn Dunston Photography | Event Planning: The Design Agency | Floral Design: Violet Rose Floral | Wedding Dress: London and Lace Bridal | Wedding Dress: Jude Jowilson | Cake: Ally And Eloise Bake Shop | Invitations: Inquisited | Shoes: Bella Belle | Rings: Erstwhile Jewelry | Catering: The Millstone At Adams Pond | Groom's Attire: Imperial Custom Clothiers | Harpist: HM Harp | Wedding Venue: Magnolia Way | Earrings: Twigs & Honey | HMUA: Kimberly Mocks | Rentals: Crisp Event Rentals | Woodwork: SC Woodwork Art

The Most Romantic Inspiration Shoot At The Park Chateau Estate With An Overflowing Floral Champagne Wall!

Our inspiration shoot today, hosted by Styled Shoots Across America takes you to The Park Chateau Estate in New Jersey where a mix of romance and florals stole the show! From stunning centerpieces to the floral champagne wall, Rosaspina Floral hit it out of the park with their romantic installations. Idalia Photography captured every special detail from the elegant invitation suite by Invitations by Whitney to the beautiful couple. Take a look below to see all of the absolutely gorgeous photos!

From Idalia PhotographySince March of 2020, weddings have been reimagined. Cramped banquet hall gatherings are now replaced by intimate ceremonies under lush trees, where the sky is big, but the celebrations are small. With outdoor micro-weddings, nature becomes the canvas, and couples have the freedom and creativity to paint their wedding with personal touches. 

An inspiration shoot for a micro wedding at a French chateau right in NJ. Hosted by Styled Shoots Across America at the elegant Park Chateau Estate, this shoot had a truly romantic atmosphere. Our bride and groom were surrounded by lavish florals by Rosaspina Floral and beautiful Parisian architecture – a perfect combination for a truly romantic atmosphere.

Photography: Idalia Photography | Event Design: Heather Benge Events | Event Planning: Styled Shoots Across America | Floral Design: Rosaspina Floral | Cake: Duchess of Desserts | Stationery: Invitations by Whitney | Reception Venue: Park Chateau Estate | Shoes: Bella Belle | Make-up: Sunkissed And Made Up | Accessories: Etoile | Bridal Salon: Solutions Bridal | Bride Model: Brena D | Gown Designer: Netta Benshabu | Groom Model: Alan Hepner | Linens: Nuage Designs | Menswear: Generation Tux | Ring Box: Lovely Ring Boxes | Tabletop Rentals: Lovely Luxe Rentals

Common Thanksgiving Mistakes…and How to Fix Them!

It’s inevitable. Mistakes WILL happen. There has actually never been a single perfect Thanksgiving in the history of the world. Or at least the Larson household. While sometimes we can easily laugh off the imperfections (because we’ve had a lot of wine), usually there is at the very least a whisper of frustration that sneaks into the day. And by whisper, we mean a screaming match. Well not this year. Nope. We’re crossing our T’s and dotting our I’s with a comprehensive Oh Shit Field Guild to a Perfectly Imperfect Thanksgiving Dinner. Consider it your no-sweat manual to rescuing Turkey Day, one soggy crust at a time.

TURKEY PROBLEMS

YOU FORGOT TO THAW THE TURKEY. Friends, turkeys take a LONG time to thaw. Like 3-4 days. Good news though. And it doesn’t include thawing your turkey in the toilet by flushing it repeatedly like my uncle tried to do (true story that I still don’t understand). You can thaw a turkey by giving it a cold water bath, draining the new water every 15 minutes or so and adding fresh water. This still takes a while so you might want to consider cooking it frozen (totally frozen, not partially frozen)…but you’ll need to get it in the oven nice and early!

THE TURKEY IS DONE WAY TOO EARLY. This is a non-problem. The turkey is big. And big things retain heat for longer than you might think. Just cover it with foil and set it in a nice, warm (but not hot) spot until it’s ready to carve. It will be just fine.

YOUR TURKEY IS COOKING UNEVENLY. If your turkey is cooking unevenly, don’t sweat it. I have actually started cooking my bird breast side down for the first half which distributes the juices and allows the breasts to retain that moisture. If that isn’t your schtick, just make sure you truss (or tie up) your bird so that the wings and the legs are tucked in to prevent overcooking. And make lots of gravy so that if worst comes to worst and you have a dried out bird – you can cover it up with gravy goodness. And don’t forget, you can always pop portions of it back in the oven after you’ve carved it if there are parts that are not cooked thru properly.

EVERYTHING IS DONE…EXCEPT THE TURKEY. Make sure you brush up on cooking times per pound (usually 13 minutes per pound at 350 if you’re cooking it the trad way) before you start to freak out. But, if something still went wonky and your bird just won’t cook, double check that you are checking the temp in the right spot (this can GREATLY effect your reading). If your reading is accurate and it’s still too low, up your temp by 50 degrees, cover your bird with foil and check it again every 30 minutes. Feed your guests wine, snacks and fun music to distract them. Grandpa in a turkey costume also does wonders.

YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO CARVE A TURKEY. Well, for one…read up! Secondly, there are many ways to carve a turkey and if you just pretend like you are hip to all of them, guests will hardly know the difference. But the most important thing to remember is that while tableside carving is certainly exciting, it’s not pretty. Carve it in the kitchen away from judgey eyes. You could also pass the buck entirely and earmark someone else to do it, making it their problem and not yours. Big win.

LOGISTICAL PROBLEMS

YOU DON’T HAVE A ROASTING PAN.  Don’t worry, most newbies in the kitchen aren’t fully stocked. And if you don’t have time to borrow one, well, you’ll just have to make one. You can use a large casserole dish OR you can use a cookie sheet (the one with higher sides) fitted with either a handful of cut potatoes + carrots OR foil ropes. This gives the juices somewhere to collect. Just make sure that the sides are high enough so that you don’t have an overflow situation. You can build higher sides with a few layers of foil.

YOU’VE DON’T HAVE ENOUGH OVEN/STOVE SPACE. There are two easy plan-ahead fixes for this: have friends bring side dishes OR plan to serve a few dishes at room temp that you can totally make ahead. If neither of those is an option, you’ll need to stagger your cooking + have vessels to keep things warm. Another alternative would be to employ other equipment to help carry the load…a smoker for the turkey, a crockpot for the mashed potatoes, a microwave or a toaster oven for re-heating.

YOU RUN OUT OF PLATES / FLATWARE / CUPS. Whether those pesky unexpected guests arrived or you just didn’t think about the plate part of planning, get yourself some insurance and buy really sturdy white disposables. Don’t skimp on the sturdy factor. We like Chinet. If you still forgot, it’s time to send your mother home for hers. And if that isn’t going to work – place your shame on the shelf and pull out pie dishes, casserole plates, large bowls, trays and anything else that will contain the food so your guest isn’t eating like a caveman off the table.

YOU DON’T HAVE ENOUGH FOOD. This probably won’t happen. But just in case, there are a few tricks to solving this dreaded dilemma. Slice the turkey thin, guests usually only take a couple of slices whether it’s cut thick or thin and thin goes a lot further than thick. Fill the table with snack-type food: leftover apps, nuts, fruits. This will do 2 things: 1. Extra food for plates and 2. the appearance of abundance. Pour sparkling water into the water glasses. It’s super filling. Place rolls on plates so everyone has one and is peer pressured into eating it. Give a gentle reminder to your guests to not to fill up too much to save room for dessert! And if you are super duper nervous, just serve everyone yourself or pre-mark the “servings” for each dish (making cuts into things like stuffing etc). Whatever you do, remember: flaws are often funny and if you admit that you might not have enough, your guests might all laugh and then go easy on the portion size!

YOU RUN OUT OF WINE. Now this might be the worst problem of all. Families + high stress cooking + hunger = NEED plenty of wine. Plan for at least 1 bottle per person. Then, if you notice wine is get low, consider either moving everyone to spritzers (1/2 seltzer and 1/2 wine), making a big batch of sangria or pulling out another form of cocktail so that you can save the wine for dinner.

TIMING PROBLEMS

THE FOOD IS READY…AND GETTING COLD. Whether it’s pokey guests or you just didn’t time everything up right, cold food that tastes best warm is a no fun side effect. Wrap hot foods entirely (base too) in aluminum foil, then cover with a dish cloth to help that insulation even more. Alternatively, put your oven at 200 or on its lowest setting and keep covered inside OR put the dish in your microwave and run it for 30 seconds to get the heat circulating. Don’t open the door, just leave the dish in the warmed mirco until you are ready. Sidenote, this is where crockpots and casserole dishes with a lid come in very handy.

DINNER IS TAKING TOO LONG (AND EVERYONE IS HANGRY). Thanksgiving Dinner is not usually dinner. It’s usually linner or lupper, that sweet spot between lunch and dinner. Which means that your guests are down a meal and they are going to be hungry. Hungry guests = cranky guests which is the fastest way to spoilsville. Make sure you put out snacks. 1-2 hearty ones and a handful of room temp, no cook options like nuts, dips and cured meats should do the trick. We always do a baked bree with caramelized bacon on top, served with bread. Very very filling and very pretty to boot!

COOKING PROBLEMS

OOPS. YOU FORGOT A MAJOR INGREDIENT FROM THE GROCERY. Didn’t your mother teach you that when you run out of flour, just pop over to your neighbor’s house? Well, what if your neighbor is out of town? And the store is closed? And dinner is almost ready? Brush up on substitutions (I use mayo in place of eggs all the time with great success) and/or figure out if it’s a make or break scenario. If not, choose to go in the way of Frozen and Let it Go.

THE STUFFING ISN’T REACHING THE RIGHT TEMP. First of all, I’m a stuffing outside of the bird kind of girl. It’s a constant battle in our house actually, so now we end up stuffing the bird and the casserole dish and having two options. #familyproblems. But if you’re an in-bird stuffing kind of gal, and it’s not reaching the appropriate temperature for safe eating, just remove it from the bird, cover it with foil so that it doesn’t crisp up (something us out of the bird people love) and bake it for about 20 minutes. Recheck the temp and either remove from the oven or let it go a little longer.

ALL THE GRAVY DRAMA. Why is gravy so very finicky?? Finding those brown bits amidst the oils, making sure that it’s thick without being goupy, making sure flavor is on point…all tricky. Here are some quick rescue remedies.

  • Lumps: pour it through a fine mesh strainer then add thickener or reduce on the stove until you reach desired consistency.
  • Too Thin: Either reduce over medium heat on the stove OR blend 1/4 cup of gravy with 2 Tbs of flour, stirring until the flour has completely mixed in then add back to your gravy a little bit at a time. Alternatively, you can mix flour with softened butter to create the same effect.
  • Its Bland: Add salt. Duh. You can also add a bit of browned butter or worcestershire sauce to deepen the flavor.

SOMETHING IS TOO SALTY. This is a tough one because you will never be able to remove the salt. So you only have three real options:

  • Dilute it by adding more of all of the other ingredients including the main event (potatoes, bread, etc).
  • Add acid. Lemon juice or vinegar (try apple cider) will help mask the flavor. But it won’t fix the problem.
  • Turn it into something else. Green beans can get added to your stuffing or turned into a casserole. Same with roasted veggies. This takes some creative thinking but it’s definitely on the menu of possibility.

YOUR PIES ARE FLOPPING. Pie is probably what people look forward to the most at Thanksgiving, so if yours fall short, the whole day will most likely be ruined. Juuuust kidding. Here are a few quickie pie fixes…

  • Soggy crust: First read tips on preventing. If that isn’t an option, serve it warm with a scoop of ice cream in a bowl. It will taste more like a cobbler and it will be DELISH.
  • Cracked: Again with the tips on preventing. Or, just cover the top with whipped cream and a dusting of cinnamon, apple pie spice or grated chocolate and no one will know the difference.
  • Burnt Crust + Uncooked Filling: First and foremost, don’t overwork your dough. Next, cut a piece of foil into a square large enough to cover your pie. Then cut a round circle out of the top. Leave it on for the first half of your cook time, then remove it at the end. Foolproof.

GUEST PROBLEMS

AN UNEXPECTED GUEST SHOWS UP. A plus one is usually no biggie. A few plus ones are what can derail a Turkey Day in no time flat. Always plan a meal that includes leftovers – that way, you’re sure to have enough. Forgot to do that? Man the portions. Cut the turkey thinner, make sure to include some bread in the offerings, scoop the mashed potatoes and doll out the gravy yourself – that way, you graze right over Uncle Dave’s heavy hand that leaves everyone else without.

THERE ARE TOO MANY COOKS IN THE KITCHEN. Give everyone a job from the moment that arrive – and plan plenty of jobs outside of the kitchen. So when Grandma Ruth insists on stirring the gravy, you can redirect her with the equally important job of lighting the candles or reading a book to the little ones.

YOU FORGOT TO INVITE SOMEONE. An elderly neighbor who is home alone, a family member that had a change in plans. Reach out, always reach out. Apologize for the oversight and invite them over. Before they get there, whip up a place card and make room for them at the table so that they don’t feel awkward watching you try to squeeze in another chair.

YOUR GUESTS WANTS LEFTOVERS. And you secretly want them all to yourself! First, make sure to buy containers to send home with people. Here’s a cute DIY one. Next, divvy up the portions on each of the platters so that you have equal amounts or small enough portions to fit in said containers. Give everyone the same thing and don’t divvy up in front of anyone. Then sing the ditty, “you get what you get and you don’t get upset” as you hand each package over.

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Where Opulence and Beauty Collide: A Wedding Editorial Inspired by the Pages of Vogue

To say this unique editorial took our breath away would be the understatement of the century. From the bride’s knockout Dana Harel gown complete with a cascading train and floral appliqué, to the untamed floral magic created by Jana Brown Design Co. in an ultra feminine color palette. To the bride who spends most of her spare time flipping through the pages of Vogue, this inspiration is perfect for you. Head on over to the full gallery of details, all captured by Lost Coast Photography!

From Janna Brown Design“The Swan,” where opulence and wild beauty collide, in this ultra romantic editorial hosted by Janna Brown Design.

Inspired by the juxtaposition of fierceness and femininity found spilling out of the pages of Vogue, our editorial balanced delicate, wild blooms and ethereal fabrics with immense architecture, powerful posing, and the intensity between our couple and the lens. 

Our bride donned an impressive gown by Dana Harel Design, with a cascading train and a sheer bustier, adorned with a plethora of delicate hand-sewn flower petals. She carried a bouquet composed of wild jasmine, elaeagnus, and garden roses, finished with trailing silk ribbon. 

Our table details mimicked the bride and her bouquet: soft cream fabrics paired with untamed florals. Tara Spencer created vellum menus which sat atop each place setting, while the flowers nestled into a bed of cream fabrics…

Photography: Lost Coast Photography | Design: Janna Brown Design Co. | Floral Design: Janna Brown Design Co. | Wedding Dress: Dana Harel | Invitations: Idyll Paper | Hair & Makeup: Katie Gurley Artistry | Groom's Attire: Street Tuxedo | Accessories: BHLDN | Linens: BBJ La Tavola | Location: http://www.aAtlanta History Center: Swan House & Grand Overlook Ballroomtlantahistorycenter.com/ | Rentals: Peachtree Tents | Veil: Lauren Leshansky

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When High School Sweethearts Wed in a Romantic Summer Ceremony at Arrowhead Hill

Muted sunset hues, a gown fit for a princess, and a dreamy gray barn setting – today’s wedding planned by Sweet Tea and Linen is a Pinterest board brought to life. The Farmer and I created heavenly arrangements of brightly colored blooms that made for the perfect color pop against the white interior walls of the venue. To see every last detail of their day captured by Courtney Leigh Photography, don’t forget to head on over to the full gallery of inspiration.

From Courtney Leigh PhotoAnna and Matt rescheduled their wedding from late spring to mid-summer due to Covid and they were finally able to have the wedding of their dreams. They booked a beautiful new venue in Montgomery, TX with a refined, modern and elegant barn design and based their colors and florals on a Texas sunset. Anna had the most meaningful details, from using her parents wedding cake topper to a ring bearer pillow made out of lace from her mom’s wedding dress, to the acrylic etched vows… This wedding was nothing short of a dream.

From the Bride… Matt and I are high school sweethearts turned college sweethearts. I was on our high school’s drill team and Matt was a Trumpet player in the band. In the stands every Friday night, the drill team and band were always right next to each other. It was known among my friends that I definitely had a crush on Matt, and I found out later that Matt also felt the same about me. We ended up hanging out with each other all night at our Senior Homecoming instead of with our dates and I even drove him home in the morning. He finally asked for my number (on Facebook) a few weeks later and then shortly after we began dating and have been together ever since!

What did you envision your wedding being prior to planning?

The biggest thing I wanted and envisioned was an outdoor fall wedding. My now husband was completely opposed to a fall wedding simply because it would interfere with football season (Geaux Tigers!) while my parents told me I could get married outside, but my dad would drop me off at the alter then proceed to head indoors to sit in the AC with my mom watching from afar (if you know Texas and outdoor weddings, then you’ll understand the humor behind this!) Long story short, Matt said I do while not simultaneously asking for score updates and both of my parents were physically in attendance. : )

 

What was your color palette and your style vision?

My indecisiveness hit hard with determining the color palette, and after months of contemplation, a decision finally came to me. I ended up searching color palettes on pinterest and stumbled across one based off of a sunset and was instantly hooked. Muted sunset colors for my florals with my main color for bridesmaids dresses being a pretty blush pink.

What unique elements or details did you include?

I ended up finding someone who was able to etch our vows on to acrylic sheets. They turned out beautifully in photo and video for our wedding but also doubled as a beautiful keepsake. The cake topper that I placed beside my cake was actually my parents cake topper from their wedding. They have always had it displayed in our childhood home, along with a few other wedding keepsakes, and they decided to pass it on to us. My ring bearer pillow was made by my grandma from my mother’s wedding dress. One of our best decisions was asking our friend to officiate our wedding. He was one of Matt’s fraternity brothers and has been such a close friend of both of ours for years. It felt so personal having someone that is a part of both of our lives that we love dearly to marry us. He absolutely nailed it and Matt and I both agree it was one of our favorite small touches to our wedding day.

 

What was your favorite moment? Your favorite crafted detail?

I feel like this is the hardest questions to have to come up with an answer for because it was my favorite day filled with so many amazing moments. From my matron of honor gifting me with a book of letters written by all my loved ones, to my first look with my dad where he asked me to carry my late grandad’s pocket knife, to my first look with Matt, to being prayed over by my sweet bridesmaids, to MARRYING my best friend then getting to celebrate the night away with our loved ones, it was our dream day. It’s not a single moment but looking back and being able to be married and celebrate with our loved ones will forever be one of my favorite memories. During this time of so much uncertainty, so many changed plans, and so many loved ones who were not able to attend, love still wins because I was able to say I married the love of my life.

From the Groom… Hands down, my favorite moment of the day would be hearing Anna’s vows for the first time. She is the one person on Earth that truly understands who I am at my core, and she loves me unconditionally. We are both so passionate for each other, and hearing that our loud on such a special day is something I will never forget.

Tell us about your flowers, your gown, your favors, your cake, etc.

Flowers = flawless. Carrington, owner and creative behind the Farmer and I, absolutely brought my dream to life. The only detail that stuck from beginning to end during my wedding planning process was that I wanted colorful flowers and Carrington 100% delivered. I stumbled across her on Instagram one day and instantly fell in love with her style and knew that I could trust her to bring my vision to life! Gown: I felt like a princess in my gown! I never thought I would be one to want or wear a ball gown, but I would not have wanted any other dress! I loved every detail from the sparkle to the lace! Cake: I surprised Matt with his groom’s cake, which ended up being a Whataburger cake with a little bit of LSU thrown in there as well! He loved it and it was just another way to say “hey we’re from Texas” and “Geaux Tigers!”

 

What is one piece of advice that you could give bride’s to be?

Remember that at the end of the day you will still be able to say you married the love of your life! My Matron of Honor and I, who were both going through having to plan a wedding in the midst of a pandemic, constantly reminded each other of this. Through all of the stress, upsetting news, and constant changes, it felt like having a wedding during this time wouldn’t be worth it with so many of our loved ones missing. I will say this to any and everyone, it was SO worth it. It was still our day, we were still surrounded by so many loved ones, and we because husband and wife! This is what getting married is about and all the rest is just the icing on the cake!

Photography: Courtney Leigh Photography | Event Planning: Sweet Tea and Linen | Floral Design: The Farmer and I | Dress: Brickhouse Bridal | Wedding Dress: Brickhouse Bridal | Cake: Three Brothers Bakery | Invitations: Jo's Paper Kitchen | Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Bridesmaids' Dresses: David's Bridal | Catering: All Star Catering | Men's Attire: The Black Tux | Vintage Car: Royal Coach Classic Limo | Wedding Venue: Arrowhead Hill | Acrylic Etched Vows: Etch Xpress | Film Lab: Goodman Film Lab | HMU: Hey Lovely Makeup

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The Ultimate Christmas 101 Decorating Guide

If you’re starting from ground zero, decorating for the holidays is an almost daunting task. Do you need garland? How many wreaths are too many? How many is just enough? What all actually goes on a Christmas tree? Do you need nutcrackers? While the answer is completely subjective and up to your tastes, like anything home decor related there are best practices to help guide you in your preference discoveries.

So without further ado, your ultimate Christmas 101 Decorating Guide!

At the core, there are 4 locations that scream for a little holiday attention more than any other place in the home. These can be improvised, ultra-creative and sometimes downright unconventional, but starting by looking at these core locations sets the tone for the rest of your home

THE CHRISTMAS TREE

The star of all holiday decor, the Christmas Tree is where most memories are made and therefore deserves to be the baseline of your attention and planning. You can go real or faux, eclectic or completely coordinated — but whatever you decide, here are the elements to consider

The Tree Itself: take your space and budget into account first, then look at aesthetic. You can get a tree that looks like it’s been dusted with snow (“flocked” being the primary term there!) You can get gorgeous accorns attached, you can get even get skinny trees!

Lights: Typically the biggest decision here is to go for multi-colored or white lights, but also take into account if you want to go on a limb and go for the ultra retro-glam large-bulb strands. Those bad boys can take your tree to the next level.

Beaded Garland: Another layer of tree decor to layer through the branches is a good strand of beaded garland. These weave in and out of trendiness, but they are a true classic. Whether you go for metallic, wooden or felt stands, they do wonders for elevating you tree game.

Bows and Ribbon: Arguably our favorite part of all tree decor, this combination is elegant to the MAX. Whether you opt for ribbon that cascades down from the top of your tree or loops in and out of branches along with your beads, you cant go wrong with adding this little elegant detail.

Ball Ornaments: These ornaments are the baseline of all your other ornament decor. Opt for a coordinating color scheme that works well with your other tree elements and you’r tree will feel perfectly filled out in no time. Sentimental Ornaments: These are typically collected over time and include a variety of knick-knacks, hand-made elements or collectables you simply just *liked.* Don’t over think this part! If you like it, it’s the right decision to get it and display it proudly.

Tree Skirt or Collar: Often overlooked but sadly noticed when it’s gone, the tree skirt is the baseline that grounds the entire tree. Without it, your tree looks naked and that’s just sad. We love a good knited tree skirt with pom-pom detailing or even going out on a limb to opt for a tree collar!

The Topper: Much like a tree skirt, the topper is a high-impact element of the whole ensemble. Choose your topper with care! You have many, many options. Some go for an angel, some go for a traditional start, others make a neatly tied bow the center of attention and we’ve even seen a bird or two perched at the top regally tying everything together.

THE MANTLE

The mantel can be both literal and created, but the main purpose of the mantel is to house the stockings. So don’t fret if you don’t have a mantel — create one! You can use a blank wall, a piano, an entry table, a console piece or even your tv table.

Garland: if you’re working with a mantel, this fills it out beautifully and denotes it as a holiday focal point. If you’re not working with a traditional mantel, a bit of garland signals that you’re using that piece of furniture as your mantel!

Lights and Beads: We can’t recommend little bits and bobbles enough! These simple elements dress up your garland in a really functional and fun way! Don’t overlook this detail. Stockings: The hallmark of a festive mantel — your stockings play a super important dual role of looking good and holding your goodies :)

Stocking Holders: Frequently forgotten and always missed when they’re not there, the stocking holders need to be sturdy but bonus points for making them look good too.

Focal Point: if you’re working with a traditional mantel or a piece of furniture, you’ll need an overhead focal point. Whether that’s a wreath, a mirror or even your tv, the extra effort to make it festive goes a long way.

Bits and Bobbles: There’s really no elegant way to word the idea of “things you place on the mantel that are cute but don’t really have a category.” This can be candle-sticks, nutcrackers, animal figurines or tiny Santa-Clauses. Whatever you choose to display here gets some significant eye-time, so make sure it pops!

THE TABLE

The holidays follow all of the same rules of thumb when setting and decorating, but the thing that makes the holiday table extra special are the things that layer in on top of the norm a juj it up.

Plates and Chargers: You can go ALL out here and festiveness or you can layer in basic pieces with festive pieces for a nice balanced look. We like to go for a festive plate and multi-purpose crisp charger.

Name Cards: Whether you actually put names out on your table or not, a little token nod to the season is a cute way to add some festive holiday themed decor without going majorly overboard.

Tiny Wreaths: Our favorite decorative piece in our whole arsenal, the tiny wreath can do SO MUCH for you table. From gracefully lying on top of a plate to being beautifully tied to the back of a chair, this multi-use token is a great way to make your table cheery.

Linens: Another great place to bring in a festive baseline is with your linens! Napkins, table runners and tablecloths all create a graceful, festive scene.

Napkin Rings: Don’t know how to fold a pretty napkin? No problem! Napkin rings are your solution. They’re a fool-proof way to make your linens look good, and when you get them specific for the season they really do wonders for making your table look like that of a pro.

Center Piece: This can be a strand of garland, a cluster of candlesticks, a bowl of ornaments or even a vase of piney stems. The sky is the limit when it comes to your holiday tablescape!

THE FRONT DOOR

The entry of any living space automatically sets the tone for what you’re about to find inside. The front door does the same for your Christmas decor! Any type of front door in any sort of living space could do for a little festivity.

The Wreath: Arguably your most important wreath of all the wreaths, this one is your “welcome!” “hello!” “come in!” and because of that it deserves some special attention. Whether your opt for a full, leafy real-life pine or a modern hooped loop, your door will look better and more festive no matter what.

The Door Mat: This is one of our favorite elements of the front door because it’s an opportunity to let your personality shine. Are you more of a classical kind of person who likes the traditional wordings in a great font? Are you a witty online shopper who likes to purchase a doormat with package hiding instructions? Or are you a whimsical festive fanatic who likes to see their favorite Christmas lyric as they enter their home? Whatever the case, own it! You do you here and make the most of it.

Garland: Can you tell we love garland? There are few places we can think of where garland *wouldn’t* work, but one of the most impactful places you can use a big hulking bunch of garland is framing your front door. It looks fab no matter how you install it — perfectly symmetrical or intentional off balance — so have fun and make it look good to you.

Potted Greenery: We’ve seen everything from poinsettia, tiny evergreen trees to topiaries tied with red bows. If you’re the kind that likes to swap out your potted plans seasonally, this is your time to shine and think outside of the festive box!

Figurines: You don’t have to go entirely Clark Griswald here to be festive. You can opt for small lanterns, tastefully-lit deer or even a sweet sleigh filled with poinsettia. A small token of festivity makes your entry that much more cheery.

THE DETAILS

While these aren’t core locations, it is often the smaller details that complete the transformation.

Candles: The scent of your home can be a true dictator of holiday festiveness. Whether you’re a warm vanilla type, a slim pine type or a crips cranberry kind of candle person, nothing makes a bigger impact that thinking through the sense of smell.

Pillows and Throws: A great way to add maximum impact with minimum effort is to swap out your day-to-day pillows and throws with festive alternatives! Think cozy knits, cheery colors and whimsical sayings.

Music: Another sense to add to consideration is what plays in the background. We can’t recommend a mellow, instrumental big-band jazz playlist enough for your “scene-setting” mood. Just throw it on and you’ll instantly feel like you should be in smack dab in the middle of the White Christmas movie.

So there you have it! A simple yet inclusive list to get you started on your holiday decor. And don’t forget, at the end of the day it’s a collection of years of effort. so don’t stress the little things :) You’ve got this!

 

Photo: Carla Taylor

A Beginner’s Guide to Designing Your Wedding Tablescapes (It’s Easier Than You Think!)

Once you’ve got those rings around your fingers and you’re getting a feel for your new titles (yup, we know you’ve been fantasizing about that iconic, much-anticipated introduction by your fabulous emcee: buh-bye fiancé/fiancée, hello hubs or wifey!), it’s time to settle in for the night–and pulling up a chair at a wow-worthy table is exactly what we’re talking about. Whether you’re planning on doing a traditional plated dinner, with predetermined table arrangements or an en vogue, extended cocktail hour approach with freestyle seating, you’ll want to be sure your tablescapes are on-point and inviting. And we’re not just imagining beautiful blooms (although petal power is a major part of it!). 

PHOTOGRAPHY | Linda Nari Photography

 

Setting a Table–A Beginner’s Guide to Wedding Tablescaping Genious

1. Start with a neutral or muted canvas.

Don’t get us wrong, we love a bold, punchy palette, but when you’re starting to think about tablescaping for your reception, you’ll want to start with a simple backdrop–like white, ivory, blush, grey, powder blue, etc. linens–and then layer on texture and intrigue. Smart to consider, too, if your venue doesn’t stock a kaleidoscopic range of colored tablecloths.

PHOTOGRAPHY | Linda Nari Photography

 

2. Freshen up with flowers.

To quote Monet, “We must have flowers, always, and always.” Your florist will help you figure out what kinds of floral centerpieces work best for your tables (round, rectangular, etc.), but you’ll of course want to bring in statement colors from your aisle aesthetic and also incorporate some grounding tones to go along with the neutrals in the rest of your tablescape. Balance. Balance. Balance. 

PHOTOGRAPHY | The Byes Photo

 

3. Clean your plates.

With color, that is. On a blush canvas like this, a nice bright white combination of plateware (a monochromatic matching of dinner plate AND charger) works beautifully. It’s clean and modern and allows anything placed on top to pop. A single stem placed underneath a wooden or acrylic place card is stunning in its simplicity and consider a little something special at your seats!

PHOTOGRAPHY | Studio Opia

 

4. Mix in some metallics.

A gold (or any kind of trendy metallic–copper, rose gold, platinum, silver) moment will never be missed, but doesn’t need to be overdone, either. We like to see gilded touches play out in the flatware, rimming on wine or cocktail glasses and coupes, candlesticks, calligraphy-laced place cards, and table number stands. Or, you can go with gold foil for a streamlined hint of elegance. 

PHOTOGRAPHY | Faith Roper Photography

 

5. And light it up.

Because we’re pretty sure there’s nothing more romantic than candlelight, during the day and definitely at night. You can do it with tall, statuesque tapers – blush and gold always play nice together–and then temper things with entrancing tealights. 

PHOTOGRAPHY | Jaye Avery Photography

Now back to that ‘sitting at the head table’ situation. We certainly love –a couple cozying up to their tribe for toasts and table talk–but a sweetheart table, reserved with custom signage also does it for us! The photos taken right before the newlyweds see their reception space and sit down to their first meal as a married couple. We’re not crying…you are!!! 😭  So, turn up your tablescaping skills and who knows, maybe it’s your wedding we’re featuring on Style Me Pretty next!

PHOTOGRAPHY | Jenny Quicksall

Danielle Halibey is a writer, editor, and publicist living in New Jersey. She has been immersed in the world of weddings since planning her own whimsical, romantic affair in 2014. And isn’t that what they always say, “those who can’t do, teach?” Well, once her nuptials were over, she still had stuff in the ‘I Do’ industry to do. She writes regularly for top wedding blogs including Style Me Pretty and Wedding Chicks, and has garnered millions of press impressions for brands in the wedding space: fashion, beauty, wedding talent+tastemakers and more. 

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This Micro Wedding Brings Provence Lavender Inspiration to the Pacific Northwest

Dreaming of a romantic destination wedding in the French countryside – but COVID travel restrictions bursting your bubble? Don’t fret, we may have just found the stateside venue of your Provençal dreams. Today’s stunning styled shoot at Woodinville Lavender planned by Rose Andrew Events is the epitome of natural beauty. The bride absolutely took our breath away in her long sleeve Reem Acra gown complete with a French lace turtleneck and feminine skirt. Botanique Flowers created elegant arrangements that perfectly complimented the lush, lavender field setting. To see all the destination inspiration this shoot has to offer, head on over to the full gallery – all taken by Whiskers and Willow Photography!

From Whiskers and Willow PhotographyThere is nothing like the majestic view of miles and miles of lavender fields in Provence. While COVID-19 has caused postponements and cancellations of weddings abroad, our creative team brought the romance and European flair of Southeastern France to the beautiful Pacific Northwest! From Emily Muddiman of Rose Andrew Events: “My muse for this design was a bride who was forced to postpone her European nuptials but wanted to celebrate her marriage in a way that felt regal yet approachable, romantic, intimate and true to the region where she originally planned to wed. We loved the setting of Seattle’s venue, Woodinville Lavender. It features acres of blooming lavender and the most charming white greenhouse. With our location and inspiration in mind, we chose a neutral color palette with pops of color! 

Our ceremony was set in the lavender fields and guests sat on French inspired soft seating. Large lush arrangements of homegrown blooms were created by Kelly of Botanique and adorned the alter and tables. The tables featured rich textured linens paired with plush velvet napkins, handmade ceramic plates, pearl flatware and cut crystal glassware. We incorporated tufted linen benches to elevate the look and feel of the setting. I worked with our talented stationer, Crystal of the Fancy Cat Studio to dream up an invitation suite and corresponding day of paper goods that felt timeless and reminiscent of European regalia. 

Her custom crest on the invitation, the corgi and unique guest name lasered on velvet napkins, and the chartreuse menu pockets gave the day an extra dose of unique French opulence. The cake, perfectly created by Missy of Missy Lee Cakes, featured tall opulent tiers and fondant appliqués that mimicked the curves and aesthetic of the custom crest created for our couple. For the wedding look, our bride wore a stunning Reem Acra gown— made complete with a French lace turtleneck, elegant sleeves and an over the top skirt. Paired with her white crystal studded Jimmy Choo’s and diamond earrings, her bridal ensemble was feminine yet grand. She carried a colorful bouquet of hydrangea, garden roses, lavender and wildflowers. Our talented Hair and Make-up artist styled her natural curls in a french updo and adorned her bun in a gorgeous hair wreath by Riot of Flowers. Standing beside her, our groom wore a classic black tux and the sweetest boutonniere to compliment her elegant bridal look. Jackie, of Whiskers and Willow, beautifully captured this wedding inspiration!

Photography: Jacqueline Benét Photography | Floral Design: Botanique | Cake: Missy Lee Cakes | Stationery: The Fancy Cat Studio | Men's Attire: Men's Wearhouse | Venue: Woodinville Lavender | Accessories: Riot of Flowers | Bridal Boutique: Nyanza Bridal | Design and Planning: Rose Andrew Events | Furniture Rentals: Fanciful Rentals | Gown Designer: Reem Acra | Makeup and Hair Stylist: Jen Lagers | Models: Seattle Models Guild | Tabletop Rentals: Pedersen's Rentals

Some of Our Favorite Celebrity Engagement Rings and How You Can Achieve The Look With Taylor & Hart Custom Rings!

When it comes to engagement rings, well, you could spend all day happily staring at photos of different designs and styles and still not know which is the best choice for you or your partner! Maybe that’s because an engagement ring is about not only a good design, but a sentimental meaning. To help bring that beauty and personalization together, Taylor & Hart creates heartfelt custom wedding and engagement rings that capture your story. With ethically-sourced diamonds and gemstones, you not only get the comfort of knowing you’ve made a sustainable purchase, but you can have a ring that you helped design alongside your own personal design consultant! They also have their own collection, which I think you’re going to want to check out below….where they outline how a handful of their pieces have taken inspiration from our A-list friends!

These days, couples are no longer constrained by the limited options displayed on the local jewelers’ shelves. With boundless imaginations, today’s couples want to find a unique ring design to match. Anything less than a custom engagement ring or wedding band feels impersonal. But thanks to innovative technologies such as 3D CAD designs and printing, it’s now possible for anyone to create a one-of-a-kind piece of jewelry that reflects their style and personality, while celebrating their self-expression & creative freedom.

Creative freedom also means getting inspired by your favorite celebrity & being able to have a ring similar to theirs. Taylor & Hart breaks down some of the most iconic celebrity engagement rings to spark your own inspiration when it comes to what design is right for you!

Hailey Baldwin Bieber

The Demure design is the most petite solitaire in the Taylor & Hart collection. Set in 18ct yellow gold, the band is 1.6mm wide with a rounded profile and sculptural eagle claws proudly holding its centre diamond in place.

 

Meghan Markle

This ring made waves around the world when Meghan Markle and Prince Harry got engaged in 2018. The ring appears to be a trilogy style featuring an elongated cushion cut centre diamond flanked with round diamonds. Keeping on trend, Harry opted for a mixed metal ring, with white gold claws accentuating the bright nature of the diamonds. Harry revealed that the band is 18ct yellow gold, to honor Meghan’s favorite metal. Markle’s design closely resembles the Destiny engagement ring design. Mixing tradition with sentiment, a trilogy engagement ring is representative of the past, present and future.  However Taylor & Hart always encourages you to add your personal touch, customize the design & make it yours. 

 

Blake Lively

Blake Lively’s 12 karat oval diamond rose gold engagement ring is undeniably one of the most impressive celebrity engagement rings of the past decade. With its oval diamond set in a romantic rose gold three row pavé setting, this ring is both delicate and show-stopping and Lively is certainly not afraid to show it off. 

Taylor & Hart took inspiration from this iconic design, and added the Halycon to their engagement ring collection. With 122 diamonds in the band, the triple row of pavé diamonds adds an architectural element to the design, packing a powerful punch.

Beyonce

Jay-Z quite literally “put a ring on it”, and what a ring it is. Beyonce’s engagement ring features a show-stopping 18 karat emerald cut diamond with a split-shank diamond pavé band.  Set with classic pavé diamonds, a split shank gives rings a more ornate finish with a greater presence on the hand. Many celebrities opt for a glamorous emerald cut diamond engagement ring, harkening back to the elegance and excitement of old Hollywood. 

The Symphony from the engagement ring collection is a perfect alternative to Beyonce’s design, with two diamond encrusted bands that split and attach to the centre diamond, which is held within sculptural eagle claws. This design is set with a princess diamond, but can easily be customized to fit other diamond shapes. Viewed from above, the diamond centre seems to seamlessly float above the finger.

Jennifer Lopez

The ring embodies J.Lo’s personality–bold, confident and powerful. Its presence is emphasized by the classic simplicity of the design itself. Known for their subtle elegance, emerald-cuts are the preferred shape among celebrities for large engagement rings. Wearers are drawn to the sleek architectural beauty of the shape, known for its seamless fusion of light and dark planes called the “hall of mirrors”. 

If Lopez’s mighty 20 karat emerald diamond is slightly out of budget, the engagement ring design bears resemblance to the Hope from Taylor & Hart’s collection of classic solitaire rings.

Mary Kate Olsen

Olsen’s engagement ring certainly reflects her love of vintage design and is both elegant and timeless, with attention drawn to its four karat European cut diamond as the centerpiece and main focal point. A European cut diamond is a predecessor of the round brilliant, created in the late 19th century, cut using antique techniques. The centre diamond is surrounded by 16 custom cut vivid blue calibre-cut sapphires. 

The ring is larger than life, and many may prefer a ring which is a little more subtle and suitable for everyday wear. The design can be reworked in a variety of ways to suit those with less extravagant taste, while retaining the opulence and elegant symmetry of the original design.

Kate Middleton

Whether you’ve considered a sapphire engagement ring previously or not, most would admit that Kate Middleton’s design sets the standard for iconic engagement rings. It reflects Middleton’s definitive beauty and classic tailored looks—emulating a classic, bold, yet refined style. The ring was once worn by Prince William’s mother, Princess Diana, and after his engagement to Middleton, its fame grew exponentially. The iconic sapphire engagement ring has garnered fans across the globe with its cluster halo of 14 diamonds surrounding a 12 karat deep blue oval-cut Ceylon sapphire set in a white metal—most likely white gold.

This classic style can be replicated in a number of ways to suit any given price point & design preferences. Middleton’s engagement ring design bears resemblance to the Allure from the collection of halo rings. 

Katy Perry

Perry’s engagement ring is an oval purplish-red ruby surrounded by round diamonds, framed with a delicate milgrain halo. Milgrain is a raised metal beading effect, often seen in antique jewelry, usually featured along the edges of a design, serving as a textured frame to highlight the stone at its centre.

Never one to shy away from experimental fashion, the deep ruby tones and shimmering diamonds in the halo are reflective of Perry’s bold sense of style. While the vintage style pays homage to tradition, the combination of the rich ruby and the dramatic halo diamonds brings this design a sense of individuality.

Lily Collins

The Emily in Paris star Lily Collins recently became engaged on a romantic, sunny trip to New Mexico. The unusual engagement ring features a bezel set rose-cut diamond ring, set in 18 karat gold with a chunky brushed band. The understated, bohemian style of this engagement ring perfectly suits Lily’s laid back style. Rose cut diamonds date back to the 16th century, and are typically found in vintage jewelry styles and hand carved by jewelers, making the gemstone quite rare and sentimental. 

Collin’s design closely resembles the Purity engagement ring design. If you liked the bezel set feature of Lily’s engagement ring, but want to go in for a slightly more refined band, the purity ring features a cushion diamond set in a delicate bezel of yellow gold.

“Even though proposals center around that one iconic question, they’re also an opportunity to express your love through more than just words. We’re often at our most creative when we find ways to let someone know how much they mean to us. Which is why we think every element of your engagement ring should have a meaning personal to you and your partner. After all, this might be your best chance to make the ultimate expression of love.”

In 2020, Taylor & Hart endeavored to make this ring buying process as magical as the engagement itself, which led them to open their new showroom in NYC’s iconic Freedom Tower. And until the end of this year, with every ring order over $1,500, Taylor & Hart will be gifting you this diamond pendant to celebrate your love in all its forms. Just a little something, from them, to capture your story and hold it close to your heart.

Rings: Taylor & Hart

How to Style an Intimate Wedding That Will Still Wow Your Guests!

We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again, folks… an intimate, micro wedding can be just as breathtaking as grand, lavish affairs! Don’t believe us? Then allow today’s gorgeous shoot from Cavin Elizabeth Photography to prove us right. Cavin kindly walks you through each element of a micro wedding, highlighting the many design opportunities that can be accomplished with a smaller guest count. Ready to see all the inspiration? Along with Studio Fleurish’s jaw-dropping arrangements? Then head on over to the full gallery of details!

From Cavin Elizabeth PhotographyDue to the pandemic, many brides are moving toward micro weddings and abandoning the idea of hosting a 150/200+ person affair. With the world of weddings in an unknown state, I think planning smaller guest count weddings will be much safer in terms of health but also in the higher chance of the wedding being legally allowed to take place. For this editorial, we wanted to showcase the beauty of fall and how you can style an intimate wedding that will still wow your guests. Smaller tables of single households might become a trend for future weddings and with small guest counts, it’s much easier to fully deck out each table without breaking your budget. Nadine of Studio Fleurish designed two separate tablescapes. 

The first consisted of fall-toned pastels and the second a more moody palette. Brides could opt to design their wedding tablescapes with just one of these palettes or mix up the design and spread both looks across all of their tables. Next, a lounge is perfect for intimate weddings. After dinner, guests can mosey to the comfy sofas to enjoy cocktails and conversation. You can’t go wrong with a neutral lounge and a couple pops of fall color in your textiles! Speaking of cocktails, Snake Oil Cocktail created two delicious fall libations infused with culinary perfection: London Calling and Ginger Peach. Loren of Four Things Paper designed a watercolor cocktail menu featuring two precious pups. We love when couples include their pets, hobbies, or history into their wedding signage, so of course we couldn’t resist doing so for this editorial. 

Moving onto bridal looks, I always believe that the season doesn’t have to dictate your dress. If you want long sleeves in summer or a strapless, fitted gown in winter, go for it! I pulled over a dozen bridal looks from my bridal boutique, The White Flower, to show just how beautiful any silhouette or sleeve style can look against a fall palette. At the end of the day, brides should choose the dress that best suits their personality and comfort rather than focusing too much on “matching” the gown to the season or venue. As an avid fashion lover, I totally have to suggest that if you’re torn between two gowns and perhaps have more room in your budget due to downsizing your guest count, by all means get two dresses! If you do, plan extra time in your timeline for portraits in both looks! In case you’re still on the fence about hosting an intimate, micro wedding, know that there are so many benefits of doing so compared to hosting a larger event. Likely the most meaningful is that you’ll have much more time to spend with each guest. Weddings go by SO fast and if you have 200+ people, odds are you might not be able to talk to every person and you might feel stressed trying to make your way to as many people as possible. Second, your budget will have much more of a positive visible impact on your design and decor, especially with your flowers. Spreading your floral budget across 4-5 tables will give you much larger arrangements than using that same budget across 15+ tables. Lastly, in the time of the pandemic, you’re making a much more health-responsible choice by having far fewer people at your event since we have no idea when the virus will be eradicated. Less guests means less risk and will likely put your crowd more at ease!

Photography: Cavin Elizabeth Photography | Film: Goodman Film Lab | Floral Design: Studio Fleurish | Reception Venue: Julep | Shoes: Bella Belle | Jewelry: Twigs & Honey | Jewelry: Brides And Hairpins | Bridal Boutique: The White Flower Bridal Boutique | Cocktails: Snake Oil Cocktail Co. | Floral Arch Rental: Enticing Tables | Furniture Rentals: To Be Designed | Gown Designer: Essense of Australia | Gown Designer: Kelly Faetanini | Gown Designer: Marchesa | Gown Designer: Netta Benshabu | Models: Shamon Freitas | Paper Goods: Four Things Paper

You’re Going To Want to Check Out These New Getting Ready Gifts For Your Girls from Birdy Grey!

I am a huge fan of Birdy Grey bridesmaid dresses…affordable, the best color palettes and the best styles for all of your girls! Now (like launching today!) Birdy Grey has something for your best gal pals! We introduce to you their brand new getting ready gifts – bridesmaid robes, PJ’s and because 2020…masks! Spun of ultra soft matte satin, they’re perfect to wear for photos in the bridal suite, and they’re even perfect for them to wear after! Take a peek below and let us know which design is your favorite!

Made of 100% Polyester Satin Crepe De Chine and digitally printed, these getting-ready gifts were co-designed with customers through a series of Instagram polls! How cool?! They are available in two prints; Pink Orchid and Sage Eucalyptus and I know I can’t decide which I like more! These are the perfect gifts for your #idocrew and the holidays just so happen to be coming up!

Karen Bridesmaid Robe – $29
Pink Orchid | Sage Eucalyptus 
A soft, silky kimono-sleeved bridesmaid robe with tie closure!

Jonny 2-Piece Pajama Set – $39
Pink Orchid | Sage Eucalyptus
A short-sleeved button down mens top with matching tulip-hem shorties.

Bridesmaid Mask – $10
Pink Orchid | Sage Eucalyptus
Soft, silky and weightless on the face, a necessity during these times, so why not make it pretty?!

Head on over to Birdy Grey and start your gift giving early! We promise you, your girls won’t be disappointed with these gorgeous gifts!

Getting Ready Gifts: Birdy Grey

How One Couple Used Style Me Pretty Products to Transform Their Last Minute Wedding at Home

For all of you ‘COVID brides,’ this is one you’re going to want to read! Rather than cancel their big wedding, this couple opted to say I Do at the brides family home, surrounded by their family and the fruits of their labor – a true family affair as they all came together to make the day possible! Brooke Allison Photo was there to capture it all from all of the local favorites to the surprise car parade for the bride and groom. Decorative florals were gathered from around the home and the bouquet was crafted by White Moss and Twigs and the other decor….well, that just so happened to be done by Style Me Pretty products! Check it all out below, and be sure to read all about each and every special detail of this magical day!

From the Bride…On June 20, 2020, Sydney and Caleb’s family gathered to celebrate their wedding at the bride’s parents’ house. It wasn’t the wedding they had been planning over the last year ( in fact it wasn’t planned for at all until a month before the wedding) but both family pulled together, to pull of this amazing home wedding in Newport, RI.

At the beginning of May, when it became obvious their large wedding would not be able to take place, the bride’s father suggested using a side room in the family’s historic farmhouse. It was a large round room with 12 ft ceilings and a beautiful stone fireplace in the middle. The only problem was the room was unfinished. Prior to the family moving into the farmhouse, the room had been gutted and it had not yet been refinished. Her father was undeterred though and over the next couple weeks, her fiance, her brother, and her dad worked together to complete the drywall, reface the fireplace, paint the ceiling and walls, and put in new light fixtures. On June 18th, just two days before the wedding, it was finished.

From here, the bride and her mother took over planning how to decorate. The mother of the groom had drawn a beautiful wedding crest that was meant to be used on the invitations, and they used this crest as the inspiration for decorations. It was a romantic yet cheerful crest, filled with soft pastels, roses, and shades of blues. The bride and her mother walked around the neighborhood asking neighbors for permission to cut some of their garden roses. Because of COVID, no florist would sell flower petals so they gathered them from under bushes around the yard.

Earlier that year they had bought small potted olive trees to use as extra centerpieces at the original wedding, but now they took center stage amidst a flurry of votive candles and under the twinkling Christmas lights. The bride and grooms seat was marked out by Style Me Pretty “Bride” and “Groom” signs as well as SMP gold champagne glasses.

From the barn in the family’s backyard they hung SMP’s “Together is my favorite place to be” banner, a saying that seemed especially meaningful for such an intimate family wedding. And it truly was a family affair! The groom and his brothers set up tables in the backyard, small pop up tents, and hung Christmas lights from the shed. The bride’s brother, the mother of the groom, and the sister of the groom decorated the ceremony room, and the maid of honor (Sydney’s sister) decorated the master bedroom for a “getting ready” suite. The bride herself made the “Wedding Schedule” sign on a mirror from her old dorm room, calligraphed small signs to hang around the property, and designed the programs. When all was done, it was hard to tell if the beauty came from the details or the love that the family had poured into it.

Outside the door to the ceremony room was the framed crest alongside the mirror, the programs, and a SMP card box. The doorway was framed with two potted blueberry bushes, a nod to Caleb’s home state of Maine while all the flowers inside the ceremony room came from around Sydney’s neighborhood. The bride’s bouquet, the boutonnières, and corsages were all provided by White Moss and Twigs. Music was played by the groom’s sister as the family gathered in the room and during the procession (which started at the top of the stairs just outside the room and stopped in front of the fireplace).

After the ceremony the bride changed out of her ballroom style dress into a more casual and fitted dress. Upon exiting the house, the newly married couple were surprised by a parade of friends driving by with congratulations and well wishes. During cocktail hour the family mingled in the backyard; the older member of the family played corn hole, relaxed and chatted on patio lounge, and enjoyed appetizers while the younger ones swung around on one of the tree swings or the zip line.

Because it was a day of two families coming together, they wanted to acknowledge both families’ home states in the food served (Rhode Island and Maine). So for specialty cocktails, they served Rhode Island favorite, Del’s Lemonade (kept in white coolers the bride had hand painted for the occasion) with a vodka mixer, and for dinner they had a lobster boil.

One request of the bride, was there had to be some sort of French fries, but the bride and her mother where they could order so many French fries from. One week before the wedding, while the intended couple and the bride’s parents were eating out at a local restaurant, the bride and her mother commented on how good the tator tots were. On a whim, the bride’s mother asked the chef if it would be possible to order tray of them to go for the following weekend, and were pleasantly surprised that they could! For dessert the mother of the groom made ice cream sandwiches, and the couple’s cake was from Greggs (a local favorite).

After dinner, the families moved back inside to the ballroom for the couple’s first dance and cake cutting; which then lead to everyone joining the dance floor as the bride’s sister played dj. After all the dessert had been eaten and everyone was worn out from dancing, the two families gathered together in front of the house to send off the new couple with a sparkler exit. It was a beautiful ending to an entire day celebrating not just two individuals but two families coming together. Every single person had helped and played a part in the day, and because of that every detail had extra meaning.

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Photography: Brooke Allison Photography | Videographer: Jared Cicichelli | Florist: Whitemoss & Twigs | Wedding Dress: Spark Bridal Outlet | Cake: Greggs Restaurant | Brides Shoes: Kate Spade | Rings: D.Cole Jewelers | Hair: Shelby White | Ties: Summer Ties | Groom's Attire: Ralph Lauren | Banner: Michaels | Bride and Groom Place Set: Michaels | Bride/Planner: Life in the 31 | Cake Plate and Fork Set: Michaels | Card Box: Michaels | Chairs: Quality Rentals | Champagne Flutes: Michaels | Cocktails: Del's Lemonade | Decorations: Style Me Pretty | Dinner: Tony’s Seafood | Door Sign: Michaels | Maid of Honor Dress: Lulu's | Mother of Bride Handkerchief: EmbroideryWord | Mother of the Bride Dress: Talbots | Reception Dress: Lulu's | Ring Box: The Mrs Box | Tater Tots: MainSail | Wedding Crest: Terry Reed

Pastels, Organic Blooms and a Dreamy Meadow: This Editorial Is for the Feminine Brides-to-Be

Blending couture details with a natural setting, Janna Brown Design Co. created garden-inspired wedding magic at Serenbe Farms. From the bride’s ethereal gown adorned in floral appliqué to organic arrangements in a soft, neutral palette – this shoot has so much pretty to go around. To get inspired by every last detail of today’s editorial, don’t forget to head on over to the full gallery, all taken by Lost Coast Photography!

From Janna Brown Design Co.Inspired by the pastel tones and femininity of a garden-inspired floral linen, this editorial hosted by Janna Brown Design grew to exude an organic aura while intentionally blending couture details with a natural setting. 

Serenbe Farms set the backdrop for our day, while the horses grazed in the distance, and the breeze rippled through the tall grass. Our bride boasted an impeccable dewy makeup look by Katie Gurley Artistry, that set her aglow, while donning an exquisite gown by Dana Harel Design. 

Envisioning a tablescape in a wild scene of an overgrown meadow, we built layers of florals upon the linens, with thoughtfully curated paper goods by Plume Calligraphy, and floral arrangements in a perfectly paired palette, brimming with seasonal blooms. From delicate tendril sketches on the paper suite, to the floral appliqué on the bride’s cathedral veil, we aimed to paint each scene with a splash of floral detailing.

Photography: Lost Coast Photography | Design: Janna Brown Design Co. | Floral Design: Janna Brown Design Co. | Wedding Dress: Dana Harel | Invitations: Plume Calligraphy | Hair & Makeup: Katie Gurley Artistry | Groom's Attire: Street Tuxedo | Accessories: BHLDN | Linen: BBJ La Tavola | Location: The inn at Serenbe | Rentals: Liberty Party Rental | Veil: Lauren Leshansky

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The Perfect Blueprint for a Brunch Wedding Inspired by the English Countryside

“Tea time, with modern details” explains Chic by Nicole of the inspiration behind today’s editorial… I mean, does that not sound like the most charming event theme ever!? Complete with a custom watercolor and toile print created by Ashley from Floraison Co, dusty blue and blush hues and organic blooms by Forever Wildfield – to sum things up, this shoot is drop.dead.gorgeous. Don’t miss out on the full gallery of details, all taken by Will Reid Photography!

From Chic by Nicole… This shoot was inspired by two of my favourite things: Brunch and English Gardens. We incorporated one of our favourite British traditions, tea time, with modern details to bring the English vibe to another level.

Dusty blue has definitely been an “it” colour for weddings this year. When designing this editorial I mixed dusty blue tones with our favourite colour, blush! The custom watercolour and toile print created by Ashley from Floraison Co. were just the icing on this editorial cake. To keep the table soft and airy, it was set with a silk ivory linen which allowed the romantic tones weave together on a neutral backdrop.

For the florals, we kept the arrangements and bouquet organic and free flowing in order to compliment the fine art vibe of the shoot. We kept the colour scheme in mind and complimented with blush and white flowers as well as luscious greens to accent the table.

Photography: Will Reid Photography | Videography: Anton Park Films | Floral Design: Forever Wildfield | Cake: Truffle Toronto | Reception Venue: The Doctor's House | Shoes: Bella Belle | Jewelry: Blair Nadeau Millinery | Rings: Stor by Margot | Catering: Elle Cuisine | Embroidered Napkins: The Embroidered Napkin Company | Fascinator: David Dunkley | Gowns: The Modern Bride | Hair Extensions: Sparkle Hair Extensions | Hairstylist: Shannon Petrolito | MUA: Daneille Mattis | Model: Dulcedo Models | Planning: Chic by Nicole | Planning, Design and Creative Direction: Chic by Nicole | Rentals: Simply Beautiful Decor | Silk Ribbon: Stella Wolfe | Stationer and Watercolor Artist: Floraison Design Co | Teaware: Teaspoon Events | Vintage Rentals: Cre8ive Studios | Vinyl, table runner and Backdrop: KV Print Bar | Wax Seals: Kathryn Hastings & Co.

Your Thanksgiving Timeline from One Week Out

Welp. We are kicking off the 7 day countdown to Thanksgiving (plus or minus a few days depending on when you stumbled upon this awesome post). And with this year looking a little different from years past, it’s more important than ever to make sure we are organized, energized and ready to kick some Turkey Day ass. Because there is nothing we need more in #2020 than a beautiful, seamless, totally happy day to remember that gratitude for the ones we love is the only center stage we need. And a really good meal. With wine.

photo by Sugar & Charm

7 days out

Tidy Up and Take Inventory. Start off with an entirely clean slate. Nothing get’s you in a better planning state of mind better than squeaky clean countertops and tidied up pantries! While a good scrub down by a pro is always welcome, if you are keeping your doors sealed during Covid, just focus on the areas that you and your guests will be using. And if you have time, trash any items in your fridge and pantry that you don’t need – this will both free up space for your groceries and will free up any tupperware or containers you might need. Plus, you will actually see what you have and what you need to buy.

Order a turkey. Grocers can’t guarantee you a turkey if you don’t reserve one in advance. So just do it! You’ll feel better and will avoid a turkey travesty. Many places allow you to order even further out so call today and check that box.

Confirm your guest list. This is important for two reasons. First, you want to make sure that you plan for enough food and place settings for your guests. Second, you want to check for food allergies and/or dietary preferences.

photo from: reDesign Home

6 days out

Design Your Menu. Now that you have your guest list set and you know all of your food allergies and/or preferences, it’s time to consider your menu. Make a list of your final recipes, from apps + snacks all the way through to dessert. Take note of cooking times, how much stove space you have, etc. You don’t need to finalized the timing per se, but you need a strong sense for where there might be some logistical problems.

Divvy up responsibilities. Remember the problems mentioned above? Here’s how you solve them. Align your guests and their unique personalities + dietary wishes with a dish that they could bring. Do you have a sister who is always early? Ask her to bring an appetizer. A mom that is always late? Let her bring the dessert. Know that your stove might be overwhelmed with a side dish or two? Divvy those out to your brother and make sure he brings them in a crockpot. It is also not a bad idea to ask guests with dietary restrictions to bring a dish or two that both works for them and is delicious for everyone – making sure to give them plenty of time to brainstorm and shop for ingredients.

Create your cooking and entertaining blueprint. This is so important. It is the make or break between a frantic, totally untimed day of cooking and a seamless, stress free celebration. Pull out every single serving dish that you will need and place a sticky note on it describing what it will be used for. Make sure each dish has a serving utensil. If you are embracing your inner type-A, rinse and repeat with the pots and pans that will be used to cook each dish, the plates, wine and water glasses, pitchers to fill said wine + water glasses, the flatware, everything. Lastly, before you tuck in for the night, create your cooking timeline. I use an excel spreadsheet because I’m insane but you could also just note general cooking times on a piece of paper.

From the Style Me Pretty Harvest Collection

5 days out

Make a master grocery list. Since you have already written out links or bookmarks to all of the recipes that you will be cooking, it’s time to pull out the ingredients and make your master grocery list. Don’t assume you have anything – salt, butter, olive oil, these staples get depleted quickly when cooking a feast. Make sure you remember to add the items that won’t be in your recipes – wine and/or cocktail ingredients, sparkling waters, rolls, anything that you might be purchasing and not making.

Take stock of tupperware. Leftovers are as important as the meal itself. And if you are heading to the store anyway, you may want to pick up some tupperware packs so that you aren’t left scrambling to pack everything up when you are exhausted and likely a little tipsy.

Pull Out the decor. Even just a small gesture of intentionality for decor can make all the difference! Plus, it’s a great excuse to bring out alllll the pumpkins. Take inventory of what you have and what you need. If you need candles, for example, it’s tempting to procrastinate purchasing them today when you can do it in the next few days. But 5 days is really the minimum you want to place your amazon order or hit up the stores. So knowing what you have and what you need is key this year.

From the Style Me Pretty Harvest Collection

4 days out

Polish, buff and repeat. Make sure your flatware, dinnerware and serving pieces are clean and in tip-top shape. This is one of those naggy to-do items that you really don’t want to save until the day of. Pop on that Hallmark movie and get to work. OR even better, this is a great job for kids and spouses.

Visit the grocer or order online. As most Thanksgiving meals tend to have a common thread (for example, everyone will need butter, sour cream, and milk), purchase as much from your master grocery list as you can. This way, you’ll have time to visit another store if needed, and/or visit the farmer’s market should you so choose. Note, that this year, we would suggest going at least 4 days out. Further, as you know, groceries are limiting space inside so unless you want to wait in line for 2 hours, avoid peak shopping times at all costs (basically anytime after 4PM or on weekends). Consider ordering the bulk of your supplies online extra early and filling in the gaps as you need to.

photo by Alyssa Rosenheck

3 days out

Make a playlist. Let’s face it: parties are simply more fun when there’s a little music in the background! Prepare a playlist of upbeat songs or Holiday favorites to get everyone in a festive mood. This is a great task for the other members of your family to help with and even if it goes totally off the rails, it can be a fun conversation starter…hahaha, this is my 16 year olds all metal playlist that then seamlessly blends into your husband’s jazz playlist.

Take a bubble bath. Now that your place is spotless, the turkey is ordered, guest list solidified, menu is prepared and you’ve jammed out for an hour, you should feel pretty darn good. Do something nice for yourself- it’s an order!

photo from: Leila Brewster

2 days out

Shop for flowers and design your arrangements. If you are having a floral centerpiece, today is the day you will want to snag those. We often just use greens from our yard with candles but it is definitely nice to have something even more robust if you have the creative energy. Small arrangements in the bathrooms, entry hall and sprinkled throughout the buffet are also such a lovely touch that transform your house from standard to special.

Iron your linens. We know it’s a pain, but the last thing you’ll want on your pretty tablescape is creased napkins! So, take a bit of time to make sure that your linens look nice and neat- you won’t regret it.

Set up Your Chairs. Wherever you plan to be, today is the day to set up your exact seating arrangements.

photo from: Abby Capalbo

1 day out

Be your own sous chef. Chop your carrots, onions and celery. Prep the herbs, grate your cheeses. Peel and chop your potatoes, then submerge them in cold water in the pot you plan on cooking them in. It’s the little things that will save you a ton of time tomorrow. Anything and everything that you can prep, do it. I like to store things in plastic baggies so that I don’t waste any precious tupperware.

Set the table. Yesterday, you prepped by ironing linens. Today, it’s time to set the stage. Make sure each place setting is complete, the glasses aren’t chipped, and everything is in decent shape.

Make your pie. While a fresh pie is things that Thanksgiving dreams are made of, cooking a pie on the same day that you are cooking 75 other things is a thing of nightmares. Gather the family and get to baking.

Shower and blow dry your hair. No matter how much you’ve prepared, Thanksgiving is going to be crazy! If you can, take a shower and blow-dry your hair. You’ll save a bit of time tomorrow when the madness begins. My secret for refreshing a day old blow out…a touch of dry shampoo and either a curling iron or another quick run thru with the dryer.

photo from White Loft Studio

THANKSGIVING

Start early. You did absolutely everything you did to get this day prepped in the most organized, efficient, fool proof way possible. But that doesn’t mean that “ugghhhhhs” won’t still happen. Start early, go in with an open mind and a sense of flexibility and today will be wonderful. And if all else fails, refer to our Master List of Thanksgiving Mistakes and how to quickly + easily fix them!

How to Pull off the Microwedding of Your Dreams? It’s All in the Details.

Think you can’t still have the wedding of your dreams during COVID times? Enter microweddings. Today’s gorgeous shoot from Sweetly Southern Events highlights all the beauty and plus sides that come with hosting a microwedding. That downsized guest list means more room to splurge on an insta-worthy floral arch, handcrafted details and personalization at every turn. To see all the inspiration this whimsical editorial has to offer for your Big Day, head on over to the full gallery – taken by e.losinio photography!

From e.losinio photographyCombining the natural beauty and high end details, Sweetly Southern Events sought to draw out the plus side of a microwedding and highlight the beauty in a time of darkness. She designed a color palette of soft peach, blush, muted green, and gold accents. Every detail was perfectly crafted to highlight the beauty of a micro wedding; from the handcrafted stationery pieces from Tortoise Designs to the custom hand painted backdrops provided by Lindale Studios. 

For the table design, Sweetly Southern Events, set an intimate table setting with a wispy blush runner that ran right down the middle of our Something Vintage Rentals’ Brentwood farm table. The couple selected high-end end Louis French-styled upholstered chairs with crisp natural linen fabric and two Carved His and Hers Chairs. Real-life couple Shanda and Jonathon were excited to celebrate their anniversary with a short vow renewal while supporting local wedding vendors in bringing this inspiration to life. 

There was not a dry eye in the room as they each shared handwritten vows preserved for years to come in beautifully crafted vow books by The Art of Etiquette. The bride wore a Watters gown from Bridal Elegance which was chosen for its simple yet elegant composition. The sheer sweetheart bodice fit and flare was the perfect touch of classic yet modern. Hair and makeup were completed by the talented Styled for Elegance and Beauty by Brigid. Her bouquet, a signature piece for JR Flowers, included pops of peach, white, and blush roses. The relaxed, modern, and romantic feel of the wedding gown and bouquet reflected the personality of the bride that Sweetly Southern Events hoped to capture.

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Photography: e. losinio photography | Videography: Alex Mangione Photography | Event Planning: Sweetly Southern Events | Floral Design: JR Flowers | Wedding Dress: Bridal Elegance of VA | Stationery: Tortoise Designs | Makeup: Beauty By Brigid | Hair: Styled for Elegance | Backdrop: Lindale Studios | Creative Space: A Wedding Loft | Historic Mansion: Rust Manor | Model: Flor de Casa Designs | Rentals: Something Vintage | Vow Books: The Art of Etiquette