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Breathtaking Wedding Photography from OLLI STUDIO

Guys, I don’t need to tell you just how much we love photography… I think that goes without saying. But what I DO need to share with all of you is our absolute obsession with the seriously talented OLLI STUDIO; a team of modern photographers and cinematographers that are all about capturing your Big Day with a contemporary approach that is timeless, elegant and fresh. We sooo heart them.

Based in NYC and offering the most recent advances in the photography field, OLLI STUDIO’s photojournalistic approach to your wedding day will leave you, well… very, very happy. That’s because OLLI STUDIO prides themselves on staying up to date on the latest in trends and bride preferences, which means that they are 100% committed to capturing your every moment in the most joyous and unobtrusive way possible. From that ear to ear smile you’ll be flashing as you slip into your gown to your breathtaking ceremony under a canopy of trees to the fun-filled sparkler exit at the end of the night, OLLI STUDIO will be there… and you (and your guests) won’t even notice.

With OLLI STUDIO, gone are the days of cookie cutter anything. Say goodbye to assembly line coverage, poses and staged photography and say hello to a talented team of NYC photographers and NYC wedding cinematographers that will highlight your distinct personality through each and every image… from the tears to the laughter to everything in between. Contact OLLI STUDIO now to begin your journey towards a day that is captured with grace, distinction and style. And make sure to check out their new studios in California, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts and Texas. It’s the best decision you’ll make, lovelies.

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Cozy + Intimate Farm-to-Table Restaurant Wedding

Wedding food gets a bad reputation, but this couple ensured theirs would be different, putting an emphasis food and wine when planning their New Jersey wedding. Working with Chef David Felton, this Bride and Groom created a farm-to-table menu of elevated comfort food perfectly suited for their natural and organic-inspired day. See all the pretty, including gorgeous florals from Laura Clare Fine Floral Design and photos from Carolina Rivera Photography, in The Vault!

From The Bride…We wanted an intimate wedding with focus on the details we thought were most important. For us that included the food, wine, and flowers in a beautiful yet relaxed atmosphere. An outdoor ceremony in the spring time was our first choice for a wedding. Natirar at Ninety Acres was exactly what we envisioned. The farm-to-table menu was designed for us by chef David Felton and event coordination by Megan Dashio. They inspired trust that allowed us to focus on the most personal details. We wanted something very soft, lush, and feminine along with something strong, rustic, and masculine. There was no set color palate in our minds, just to keep it soft, natural, and organic. We captured that with peonies and reclaimed wood with help from our florist, Laura Clare Designs. Laura created over 100 floral arrangements in vintage blue-green mason jars, as well as decorating the arch created by the groom. The arch was constructed with American chestnut from a one-room school house built in the 1890’s and hardware from old barn doors. The venue was also provided the perfect backdrop both indoors, with rich woods and leather, and outside, with the farm and the woods.

Being from the Midwest, we wanted seasonal comfort foods that were elevated. Our guests were lavished by an extensive menu of appetizers and custom cocktails on the back patio while listening to the Ian Kenselaar Trio, a surprise from the groom. Guests were then escorted inside for lunch with ingredients harvested from the gardens at Ninety Acres and local farms. We chose a strawberry-rhubarb pie for our wedding “cake”. Dessert was a big hit with guests as they filled their plates with various bite-sized treats such as S’mores, fruit cobblers, and mini tarts. We danced our first dance to “It Had To Be You”, with an original arrangement for us by The Ian Kenselaar Jazz Band, another beautiful surprise from the groom.

Piece of advice to future brides is keep the focus on a few small, special details. If you focus on all of the details, you will be stressed and lose sight of what is really important. Decide what things are the most important and do them well.

I went in for my first wedding dress consultation and that is where I found my dress. I was looking for a dress that would work well in a garden wedding. I didn’t want a dress that would be too hot for the weather and wanted something that would show off my figure. I tried on a candlelight version of my dress and it made me looked washed out, so I tried on the same dress in an ivory lace with a mocha slip underlay. I loved how it looked and was smitten with that dress.
My dress was not complete until I had my accessories. Nancy Stone from Nancy and David Fine Jewels loaned me a pair of stunning pair of diamond earrings, tennis bracelet, and infinity bands to complete my look. She was also the creator of my engagement ring.

Advice From The Groom…Select vendors you can trust and connect with. Choose a venue and vendors that share your vision and passion. Keep it simple and let them run with it. If they are right for you they will help you create a wedding better than you ever expected. Show your bride that you aren’t just there to taste cake. Be involved. It is your day too. There were no questions from our guests that our wedding day was “our day,” with elements that represented both of us.

Photography: Carolina Rivera Photographer | Event Planning: Natirar | Floral Design: Laura Clare Fine Floral Design | Wedding Dress: Maggie Sottero | Jewelry: Nancy And David Fine Jewels | Catering: Natirar | Hair + Makeup: Steven John Salon | Band: Ian Kenselaar Trio And Jazz Band | Groom's Attire: Tessuto | Officiant: Celia Milton | String Quartet: Rosadoni String Quartet | Venue: Natirar | Arch And Table Top: Made By Dan Festerling (Groom) With Lumbar Sourced By J. C. Woodworking Perkasie, PA | Bridal Boutique: Maggie Sottero

Craig Paulson Photography

Our happy place?  Beautiful photography.  Those kind of stop-you-in-your-tracks images that capture every moment + feeling + look, all while expertly telling your true love story.  Its exactly the type of images we see time and time again from Craig Paulson Photography, and the reason we fan girl out when we happen upon one of this boutique studio’s brilliant weddings.  Scroll below for a look.

Based in New York City for over 15 years, Craig Paulson Photography specializes in destination and NY wedding photography.  Which means that whether you’re saying “I do” in a fabulous loft space in Tribeca, or jetting away to a tropical locale, Craig Paulson’s talented team of photogs will be on hand to capture every second of your Big Day perfectly… and organically.  I’m talking highly trained photographers known for fusing modern portraiture with classic photojournalism, giving you those timeless photos you will treasure for always.

Craig Paulson Photography is always striving to tell your story in the most unobtrusive way possible… unless you need an emergency dress mender or someone to calm down your flower girl’s meltdown. They are pretty skilled at that, too.  They also have an ah-mazing Studio Manager who will help facilitate your timeline, permits and payments. Plus, they’ll even help with vendor recs, or come along to your dress fitting.  There isn’t a moment of your Big Day Craig Paulson Photography won’t be a part of, which is why they are so very, very unique… and very, very awesome.

Contact Craig Paulson Photography today to make an appointment to stop by their studio to chat all things wedding. They’ll walk you step by step throughout the process and even introduce you to their sister company, The Album Room, for that perfect keepsake.  You’re going to adore them, SMPers. We can guarantee you that.

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Classic Black-Tie Wedding with Pretty Pink Peonies

Trends come and go, but classic is forever. And Lyndsay and Nate’s big day in Hamilton, New Jersey is precisely why. The Bride’s made-for-twirling Hayley Paige ballgown, the bouquets of fluffy pink peonies, the Groom’s classic tux, and a sparkler exit? It doesn’t get much better than that. See all the beauty captured to perfection by Love & Light Photographs in The Vault!

From Love & Light PhotographsLyndsay & Nate’s wedding day in one word was classy. I think sometimes we get so caught up in trends we forget how great a black bow tie is and that simple puffs of peonies can be more than enough to make your wedding feel effortlessly chic. From the second the Love & Light team arrived, Lyndsay was grinning ear to ear with anticipation for the day. The day-of coordination by Creations by Christine Events was so helpful making the day go smoothly and without even one hiccup. Lyndsay loves horses, so after the ceremony we stopped at this stable on site and captured the wedding party there and I love how handsome the building looks as a backdrop! Lyndsay’s sister-in-law Amanda owns Little Miss Mrs and she designed the invitation with perfectly fit the day. She incorporated a little horse shoe on the string on each invitation and had Jessica of Simply Jessica Marie create a watercolor peony bouquet to make the invites feel even more personal. I love each and every detail that fit seamlessly into their day! Nate held Lynsday’s hand the whole night and the two danced to their awesome band Brian Kirk and the Jirks until it was time for their epic sparkler exit! Thank you so much to Lyndsay & Nate for having L&L there to capture your day, we loved every second of it.

From Creations By Christine EventsLyndsay & Nate’s wedding day was simply magnificent. The love, support, respect and admiration they have for one another was clearly exhibited before their family and friends on June 13, 2015. It was an honor and privilege to assist them with their wedding planning.

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Photography: Jessa Schifilliti, Photographer | Event Planning: Creations By Christine Events | Floral Design: Jardiniere Fine Flowers | Wedding Dress: JLM Couture, Inc | Cupcakes: Sweet Spot Bake Shoppe | Invitations: Little Miss Mrs | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Bill Levkoff | Hair + Makeup: Beauty On Location | Band: Brian Kirk And The Jirks | Groomsmen Attire: Ralph Lauren | Venue: Hamilton Farm Golf Club | Watercolor: Simply Jessica Marie

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Elegant Multicultural New Jersey Wedding

The combining of cultures often leads to greats romances and beyond beautiful results – and this wedding is no exception. Asya Photography captured it all, from the beautiful Bride and her maids to the grand ceremony and sweet pics with her new Husband. Get captivated in our Vault right this way!

From the Bride… We knew since the beginning our wedding was going to be a large party. Ash has a big family and a lot of friends, plus he is an only child so we knew it meant a lot for his parents to share the day with everybody. With that being said there were only a handful of venues in NJ that could hold the amount of people we had in mind (300 was our original number). We went to several venues and there was one I really loved but while waiting for a call back from that venue I decided to make an appointment at The Florentine Gardens. We fell in love as soon as we walked in the door. After that day we disregarded the other venue. I had a vision in my head for our wedding and I wanted the overall feel to be romantic and full of flowers. Florentine Gardens has floor to ceiling windows that face their beautiful gardens, grand chandeliers and an overall elegant, old school look. Also, after talking to one of the wedding coordinators it felt like they actually cared about making our day the most special one and not like a business transaction.

While dress shopping I had a very clear picture in my head of how I wanted to look on my wedding day. I knew I wanted an all-lace dress and that’s exactly what I got, simple, romantic and elegant. My dress is Dennis Basso which was purchased at Kleinfelds. My veil is a cathedral veil with a border of the same lace of my dress.

I didn’t work with a certain theme, but I knew I wanted flowers, romance, elegance and classic. The overall color scheme was blush, ivory and gold. After meeting our florist I decided to add a touch of green from the eucalyptus leaves from our flowers. I wanted the gold to be the focal point for everything. This was carried throughout the whole wedding. Our flower girls had gold shoes and baskets, our centerpieces were gold candelabras, frames displayed throughout our venue were gold and ornate. Ash’s church is full of gold so that was a perfect fit.

We got married through Ash’s church. He was raised in the Coptic Orthodox Church. It is very similar to the Catholic Church except they still have a lot of older traditions and they sing a lot of hymns throughout the ceremony. The ceremony starts with the priests and deacons singing hymns as they walk in. They also sing while the bridal party and bride walk in. Typically in the orthodox tradition the bride and groom walk in together but it was super important for me to walk in with my dad. Ash and his family have been part of St. Mary for a long time and the Father Mark has been a friend of the family for many years. He was able to obtain a special permit in order for us to have a mixed ceremony. My parents do not speak English, so I really wanted for them to understand and be part of the ceremony. I was able to get in touch with the priest that married my sister 10 years ago, also a good friend of ours and he officiated part of the ceremony as well in Spanish. It was really special.

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Photography: Asya Photography | Floral Design: Pink Dahlia | Wedding Dress: Kleinfeld Bridal | Ceremony Venue: St. Mary's Coptic Orthodox Church | Reception Venue: The Estate At Florentine Gardens | DJ: The Estate At Florentine Gardens | Bridal Boutique: Kleinfeld Bridal

Classic Estate Wedding

This is what happens when a talented team of vendors join forces with an adorable duo to create an elegant New Jersey estate wedding: absolute magic.  Think the fab stylings of Ashley Douglass meets the brilliant makeup skills of Stacie Ford Weddings meets crazy beautiful images from Robert And Kathleen Photographers.  See it all in THE VAULT right this way.

From Robert And Kathleen Photographers… Everyone that loves Megan knows one thing to be universally true: she is someone who goes after  what she wants. More often than not, she gets whatever it is that she has set her heart upon. It’s been true since she was a little girl, according to the story Megan’s father told during the reception, about a time he had taken her fishing. She was young, probably no older than eight or so, when she caught an especially large fish. As Megan tried to reel it in, her father tried to help her. But Megan wasn’t having any of it. This was her fish and she was going to get it all by herself. And she did just that. She surprised her father that day and he stood back with a mix of pride and wonder and watched her handle it all by herself.   

That’s the very same focus Megan used throughout her life. It’s what has driven her to accomplish many things. Her father says that when Megan met Bobby in high school, Bobby became the next big fish that she was going to reel in. Megan loved how smart and funny Bobby was, how he made her feel whenever she was around him.  Bobby was drawn to Megan’s vibrant energy and incredible smile. They dated in high school and continued their relationship while they attended college in Boston and then established careers in New York City.

By the time their wedding day came around, Megan and Bobby had been a couple for so long that no one had any doubts that they were meant to be together. When Megan’s father escorted her down the aisle and took his place in the front row to watch as she and Bobby exchanged vows, he had a familiar look on his face – a mix of pride and wonder at his daughter, who always follows her dreams, and her heart.

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Photography: Robert & Kathleen Photographers | Event Planning + Design: Ashley Douglass Events | Floral Design: Blade Floral and Event Designs | Wedding Dress: Oscar De La Renta | Invitations: Lion in the Sun | Bride's Shoes: Kate Spade | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Amsale | Catering: Merri-Makers Catering & Special Events | Makeup: Stacie Ford Weddings | Band: Vali Entertainment | Venue: Mallard Island Yacht Club | Bridal Boutique: Saks Fifth Avenue

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Garden Party-Inspired Wedding Infused with Pineapples

As much as your wedding is about you and your beloved starting off your happily ever after, you also want to make sure your guests have a good time. This couple did just that, using the pineapple, a sign of hospitality, as a theme throughout the day. And the result is truly beautiful thanks to gorgeous flowers from A Garden Party and these stunning photographs from Michelle Lange in The Vault!

From Michelle LangeThe couple fell in love with Fernbrook because it’s an 18th century home with a lot of character…it reminded them of an estate that could be found in the South. Their vision for the wedding was a “garden party” at an estate, which was beautifully decorated with florals by A Garden Party. A highlight was the floral chandelier that hung from the ceiling. The couple incorporated pineapples as a sign of hospitality, wanting everyone to feel welcomed cared for, and loved on their big day. The bride also grew up with pineapples all around her home, which reminded them of beautiful Williamsburg and all things colonial. The hospitality didn’t just stop with the pineapples, as they implemented elements that would accomplish this, welcome refreshments before the ceremony, a fun pizza truck, lawn games, and a donut bar with homemade ice-cream for dessert. They really wanted their guests to enjoy themselves and know the details were planned for them.

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Photography: Michelle Lange Photography | Floral Design: A Garden Party | Wedding Dress: Essense of Australia | Cake: Inn At Fernbrook Farms | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Bill Levkoff | Hair: Bella Angel, LLC | Groom's Attire: Tommy Hilfiger | Venue: Inn At Fernbrook Farms | Bridal Boutique: Jay West Bridal

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Rustic + Romantic Cape May Wedding

Photog phenom Julie Paisley shared that this wedding made her fall in love with photographing weddings all over again…. well Julie, your pics of this rustic, elegant romance made me fall in love with my job all over again. So dual thanks are needed to this adorable couple and Primrose and Company for all their gorgeous floral creations. Let the mutual love affair begin in our VAULT right this way!

From Julie Paisley… Sarah and Justin wanted to focus their day on family and love. Inviting their closest friends, they all dined on farm to table fare under the stars. Sarah is a photographer so details were super important to her and I loved her style. It was simple but very refined and well curated. They kept their wedding party small with Sarah having her sister as Maid of Honor and Justin’s brother as Best Man. Oh and the little flower girl definitely stole the show. Seriously is she not the cutest? I think my favorite parts of the day were the first looks with both dad and Justin. Justin and Sarah were high school sweethearts and there is no denying that they adore each other. Justin even wrote Sarah a song and sang it to her during the reception, and there was not a dry eye in house. This day was magical and made me fall in love with photographing weddings all over again.

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Photography: Julie Paisley Photography | Event Styling: Primrose and Company | Floral Design: Primrose and Company | Wedding Dress: Rosa Clara | Venue: Historic Cold Spring Village | Vintage Rentals: Primrose and Company

Ieie’s Bridal Dress Boutique Wedding Veils + a Discount!

You found the perfect wedding dress that will make you feel gorgeous on your wedding day. But if you really want to feel like a bride walking down the aisle, it’s all about the veil. And the lovely Ieie’s Bridal Dress Boutique has every veil you could ever dream of to take you from a pretty woman in a white dress to a beautiful, glowing bride on the big day.

No matter which style dress earned your “Yes,” Ieie’s Bridal Dress Boutique has a veil that is its perfect match. Play up your gown’s vintage vibe with a gorgeous lace Mantilla veil. Or, let a plain, soft tulle veil complement a slinky, modern dress. Can’t find the veil of your dreams? Ieie Bridal Dress Boutique will work with you to create a customized handmade veil to complete the bridal look you’ve always dreamed of. And with exceptional quality at an affordable price point, finding a veil at Ieie Bridal Dress Boutique will be as easy as saying “I Do,” to the love of your life.

High-quality, truly affordable and beyond anything you’ve ever imagined… contact Ieie’s Bridal Dress Boutique to get the perfect veil to put the finishing touches on your bridal look.  And make sure to follow them on Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest for even more gorgeous inspiration.

As if the gorgeous veils weren’t wonderful enough, Ieie Bridal Dress Boutique is offering free shipping (within the U.S.) on regular priced veils with the coupon code SMPVEIL from January to February!

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Shabby Chic Anniversary Inspiration

At first sight of April Lynn Designs’ invite with the oh so true saying “All You Need Is Love and Cookies” I knew this shoot was going to be chock full of Pinterest worthy ideas to steal; my own anniversary might still be a few months off, but that doesn’t mean I can’t start planning now! How can you resist with all these creative ideas captured by Kay English? Get a head start pinning away in our VAULT right here!

From Kristin Rockhill of Details of I Do… This sophisticated preppy shoot is the perfect marriage of upscale shabby chic charm, rustic styling and whimsical details!

The colors consisted of a dreamy mix of pinks and peaches with pops of muted turquoise and blues. The wood tones and burlap linens brought in our signature rustic charm.

The white wash beer garden and vintage door table were custom made by Vinterest Props and decor. Vintage velvet chairs, a dry sink, metal gazebo and reclaimed wood benches and seating added character and shabby chic style to the shoot.

The tables featured an eclectic mix of flowers, colored glass bottles, glass and wood candlesticks and lush blooms. The table is also styled with vintage plates, stacked books and candles in every shape and size.

The Baby’s Breath runner and tall floral arrangement pack a powerful punch of wow and have a cloud like ethereal quality. The lush garden roses, ranunculus and draping greens and hanging amaranthus add a pop of color and a touch of whimsy.

Soft Yet Dramatic, the girls looked glam and effortless and the poofs of Baby’s Breath tucked into their hair added an ethereal quality.

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Photography: Kay English Photography | Event Planning: Details of I do | Event Planning: Merren Events | Wedding Dress: BHLDN | Makeup: Genna Verde Longo | Hair: Letitia Kakas | Venue: Nassau Inn | Floral, Event Design + Styling: Kristin Rockhill | Invitations + Stationery: April Lynn Designs | Rentals: Party Rental LTD | Style Consultant: Y Knot Now | Vintage Furniture, Props + Decor: Vinterest Props

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Glamorous Private Estate Beach Wedding

All men out there, take note, for this is how a true gentlemen treats his lady! This Groom wooed his love with manners and sweet gestures galore, popping the question with champagne and a message in a bottle. Their love story came to fruition at this glam New Jersey summer celebration, bursting with balloons, sequins and smiles – all captured through Kay English’s lovely lens and Michael Simon’s cinematography. More in our VAULT!

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From Kay English… It was October 2012, Jeff and Mary Bridget were both off to the Far Hills horse race in New Jersey, commonly known as The Hunt. Filled with fall attire and boozy picnics set up throughout the infield, Jeff and his buddies planned an elaborate tailgate party for the day’s event. Jeff isn’t afraid to admit he knew Mary Bridget would be there and intended for the two of them to be introduced by a close mutual friend. They were inseparable the entire day, and Jeff even met and mingled with Mary Bridget’s family later that night. They’ve been a couple ever since.

Jeff planned a summer trip to Antigua in July 2014 in celebration of Mary Bridget completing her first year of teaching. On the second night, a surprise dinner on the beach awaited Mary Bridget but a special stop was made along the way. Jeff had planned for the waiter to nonchalantly ask them to walk out to a peninsula that projected into the ocean to capture a picture during sunset. At the end of the stepping-stones Mary-Bridget stopped short of a champagne bucket filled with flowers and a message in a bottle, etched in her name. Jeff trying to keep his cool walked over and read the intimate letter aloud to her. He spun around making his way down to one knee and cast his view upwards to meet hers. One last question, and as she said “Yes”, he was thankful he could finally show her the ring (and that he didn’t drop it). As for the ring, Jeff wanted to create what he felt exemplified Mary Bridget – timeless and classic. So from sketch to fruition, he spent months prior to the trip with a jeweler designing a custom band and selecting a diamond. Notable is the attention to detail, particularly the band that is hand-engraved with the coordinates of the Hunt, where they had first met.

In July 2015, the wedding took place at the private and stunning Bonnet Island Estate in Long Beach Island, New Jersey. The couple searched for a venue that would bring to life their rustic yet elegant taste. They took full advantage of the tranquil panoramic bay views and the natural wildlife marsh that Bonnet has to offer. The breathtaking boathouse chapel was the perfect backdrop for their ceremony, followed by a cocktail hour held under the bayside veranda and reception within the exquisite stateroom. The venue was exclusive for guests, even the immediate family and wedding party were invited to stay overnight at the estate.

The pair incorporated personal touches during every step of the wedding. The nautical theme was subtle and rich in taste beginning with the bride and groom’s attire. It seemed fitting they chose a string trio for the ceremony, a steel drummer for cocktail hour and a 9-piece band that kept guests dancing into the wee hours of the night. Mary Bridget, being from North Carolina, spoiled guests with Southern comfort foods including the couple’s favorites like shrimp n’ grits during cocktail hour and a surf n’ turf for dinner. Both keen on every little detail, Jeff and Mary Bridget took pottery classes to build sand dollars inscribed with their wedding date and bought French doors from an antique shop to display the reception seating within the windowpanes. Mary Bridget having a niche for calligraphy created most of the décor herself and with family. The day was filled with beautiful floral arrangements of neutral shades blended with peach and blush, picture-perfect weather, and most importantly many meaningful moments.

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Photography: Kay English Photography | Cinematography: Michael Simons Video Productions | Floral Design: MDS Floral Designs | Wedding Dress: The White Gown | Cake: The Bake Works | Invitations: Perfectly Invited | Hair: Dana Triano | Band: Craig Scott Entertainment | Groom's Attire: Suitsupply | Transportation: Arrive In Style | Venue: Bonnet Island Estate

Family-Oriented Romantic New Jersey Inn + Garden Wedding

We’re only eight days into 2016, but I guarantee you this Bride’s Watters wedding gown will be making our best dressed list at the end of the year. Sexy, feminine and gorgeous, the deep-V lace dress is the crowning jewel to this beautiful garden wedding. From the fashion to the details, there’s so much pretty from Julia Elizabeth Photography waiting for you in THE VAULT!

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From Julia Elizabeth PhotographyVal and Carly were a pleasure to work with from day one. Incorporating their families into all aspects of the day, it was obvious from the start how important family is to these two. The whole day was full of little details both thoughtful and beautiful. Carly gifted each of her bridesmaids with earrings which she displayed on a delicate stand. They wore matching robes and laughed all morning together as they got ready at the Crossed Keys Inn. Carly looked incredible in her long-sleeved Watters gown and she wore her grandmother’s engagement ring as part of her look. The bridesmaids wore mix-matched dresses which came together perfectly. Close by Val was with his family and groomsmen made up of brothers and friends from high school. Val wore the same watch his father wore on his wedding day and gifted his groomsmen with socks from their hometown of Summit, NJ (also my hometown)!

Once Carly and Val saw each other for the first time the day really took off (with a few tears here and there). We took beautiful portraits walking around the venue which was full of greenery and gorgeous flowers – the ideal setting for a Summer wedding. The rest of the day flew by as they were surrounded by their close family and friends as they shared their own vows. The reception set up in the tent was gorgeous with dahlias and greenery running down each farm table. The party started right after the ceremony and carried through the rest of the evening ending with a gorgeous sparker exit.

From The Bride…Val was raised in Switzerland as a native French speaker, but he moved to my hometown in New Jersey when he was 10. He was three grades older than me, so we didn’t cross paths until I was a freshman in high school (and he was a senior!). We quickly became friends but both went our separate ways for college. Our mutual hometown kept us coming back together during college breaks, but it was never the right time for either of us to pursue anything more than a friendship. Then on Thanksgiving Eve six years ago, as I was prepping to leave for a spring semester abroad in Barcelona, we had a goodbye meal in Little Italy that changed everything. This neighborhood will always hold a special place in our hearts and is why we chose it for our engagement photos. NYC is where we fell in love, shared our first home together, and where Val eventually proposed in Washington Square Park.

Val and I had always envisioned a big outdoor wedding, surrounded by our families and friends. We found the Crossed Keys Inn during an online search and knew this was where we’d get married from the minute we stepped onto the property with our moms by our sides. Romantic, vintage, ivory, blush, and gold, with a few French touches here and there – the venue went perfectly with my inspiration.

We enlisted the help of Val’s uncle to marry us (he got ordained!) and he did the ceremony in both English and French. Val and I wrote our own vows and reciting them was probably my favorite part of the day. We kept our vows a secret from each other and were so excited to find out that we both mentioned our love for Taco Bell! Val’s grandparents were unfortunately not able to make the trip from Switzerland, so we had FaceTime going so that they wouldn’t miss a beat. Incorporating our families was so important to us, and the first thing we did after finding our venue was ask our nephews to act as ring bearers (or ring bears as they understood it). The boys pulled our six-month-old niece down the aisle in a decorated wagon and introduced me to the 200 guests who shared our special day with us.

I wore a long-sleeve ivory lace Watters dress that I’m honestly still more obsessed with by the day. Before I even got engaged, there was no question that I wanted a dress with sleeves. I never thought I’d actually find a dress that made me look and feel like the bride I always dreamed of being. I’m so fortunate to have the support in my life to make that dream come true. My seven bridesmaids each picked their own dress and we didn’t actually see them all together until the night before the wedding! The girls looked so perfect in their mismatched long dresses. Val chose a shawl-collared navy J.Crew tuxedo, which was complemented by an array of navy suits worn by his groomsmen. Val wore the same watch his father wore on his wedding day while I had a ring passed down from my great-grandmother.

After the ceremony, the band had the dance floor packed the rest of the evening. They learned a number of songs for us, starting with our first dance, and also the song I surprised my dad with for our father-daughter dance (it was my parent’s first dance from their wedding over 30 years ago!). We wrapped up the night with sparklers and s’mores, and then transported our guests in party buses to the after party.

People say their wedding was the best day of their lives, and now we can’t believe how lucky we are to honestly say that about our own!

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Photography: Julia Elizabeth Photography | Cinematography: Saltwater Studios | Floral Design: Event Designs by Katherine | Wedding Dress: Watters | Invitations: Sweet Invitations | Engagement Ring: Optimal Innovative Solutions | Rings: Doyle And Doyle | Hair + Makeup: Melissa Daloia Co Luxury Hair Make Up | Band: The Story Tellers Of New York City | Groom's Attire: J.Crew | Venue: Crossed Keys Estate | Bridal Boutique: The Wedding Store At Liz Clinton

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New Jersey Wedding Crashed by Donald Trump!

Every wedding has its unforgettable moments, but when the one and only Donald Trump crashes your reception? That’s a story with bragging rights for life. Starting with an elegant celebration featuring invites by A&P Design, and ending with a guest appearance by said party crasher, this wedding captured by Kay English and Willow Tree Films is the definition of Best. Day. Ever.

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From The Bride… The day was August 17, 2009. I had just moved to Miami from New Jersey to attend law school and it was the first day of classes. Not knowing a single person and nervous for the new adventure ahead, I took a seat towards the back of the lecture room. Though I didn’t know it at the time, the man I would share all of my smiles and tears with for the rest of my life with would soon fill the empty seat next to me. That was the beginning of our journey. Zach and I were inseparable from that point forward. We dated for almost 5 years before he proposed in front of both of our families (and hundreds of NYC commuters) in the Main Concourse of Grand Central Station.

A planner by nature, I hit the ground running soon after I said “yes.” I knew I wanted our wedding to be a romantic and intimate affair with boho touches. The first checkmark on my list was to secure a venue. The first venue we visited was Trump National Golf Club in Bedminster, NJ. We knew almost immediately upon entering the grounds that this would be the place where we would say “I do’.” We were so confident in our decision that we didn’t even bother looking at any other venues! The grounds are simply breathtaking and the service is first-class. The rolling hills and greenery created the most picturesque backdrop for our outdoor ceremony and the ballroom in the main clubhouse, with its enchanting floor to ceiling windows and elegant crystal chandeliers, was the perfect mix of romantic and classy for our intimate reception. Donald Trump knows what he’s doing.

Since we had a year and a half engagement, I was fortunate to have the time to plan the wedding details myself and secure the most amazing vendors to help make our wedding dreams a reality. After securing the venue, finding a photographer and videographer was next on the list. We were very conscious that photographs and video are two of the only tangible memories you walk away with from your wedding day so finding a photographer and videographer that aligned with our style was very important to us. Hiring Kay of Kay English Photography and Greg of Willow Tree Films to capture the precious memories from our special day was a no-brainer. Not only are they exceptionally nice people but they are extremely talented at their craft. Their work speaks for itself. They captured every moment of our day so beautifully and for that we are forever grateful. Anna Rose Floral and Event Design provided all the flowers and far exceeded our expectations. I still have dreams about the boho birchwood chuppah from our ceremony that overflowed with flowers and the gold mercury glass reception centerpieces stuffed with the most beautiful garden roses and dahlias.

I wore an amazing Mark Zunino gown from Kleinfeld Bridal that was as comfortable as it was beautiful. The hand-sewn flower details, illusion back and dramatic train were a perfect unique mix of the romantic/garden/boho look I was going for. My mom sewed some of the extra flower details from my dress onto my cathedral-length tulle veil to really tie the whole look together. The groomsmen wore navy blue Ike Behar slim-fit tuxedos and the bridesmaids wore J.Crew dresses in dusty rose. Our adorable dog, Tucker, wore a navy blue bow tie to match the groom.

The emotional intimacy of the day was also very important to us. We wanted each guest to truly feel the love that we have for one another and also know how grateful we were that they chose to be there to witness us make the most important covenant to one other. We customized the ceremony script with this goal in mind and also to reflect our personalities. We said traditional vows and followed them with vows that we wrote to one another. The bridal party walked down the aisle to an acoustic guitarist and violinist playing the Verve’s “Bittersweet Symphony” and I walked down the aisle to Eric Clapton’s “Wonderful Tonight.” I will always remember the overwhelming feeling of happiness as I walked down the aisle arm-in-arm with my dad to Zach in front of all of our family and closest friends. I had never felt more content with where I was in life and all the adventures that lay ahead than in that moment.

This feeling extended into the cocktail hour, reception and pizza truck after party. Did I mention that Donald Trump crashed the reception?! It truly was one of the best days. 

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Photography: Kay English Photography | Cinematography: Willow Tree Films | Floral Design: Anna Rose Floral And Event Design | Wedding Dress: Mark Zunino | Cake: The Hudson Cakery | Invitations: A&P Designs | Bride's Shoes: Jimmy Choo | Rings: Van Cott Jewelers | Bridesmaids' Dresses: J.Crew | Makeup: Jeanine Mangan Makeup Designs | Hair: La Sorella Bridal | Officiant: John Graf | Ceremony Music: Sweet Harmony | Venue: Trump National Golf Club | Bridal Boutique: Kleinfeld Bridal | Cake Topper: Enamor Weddings | Food Truck: Fired Up Flatbread | Photo Booth: Poser Photobooth Co | Rentals: Dovetail Vintage Rentals

Traditional Hawthorne Wedding

Filling your Friday with a whole lot of pretty… that’s what this luxurious wedding is all about.  Think a stunning traditional ceremony meets a jaw-droppingly gorgeous reception meets a beautiful gown that I still can’t stop thinking about.  Hit play to see every spectacular moment captured by the uber-talented Rock Life Studios… it’s beyond fabulous.

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From Rock Life Studios… I met with Christina and Dr. Roger Sahoury just two weeks before their wedding date. We will call this a last minute booking… haha. But after sitting with them and learning a bit about their wedding, I was excited to be part of it. This was a well planned out wedding with a video shoot at Lamberts Castel, a choreographed first dance, amazing DJ + live band, belly dancers from Sex in the City, theatrical light show, lobsters on fire and sparkler send off for the evening. They did this wedding like they where planning to film a movie.

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Photography: Rock Life Studios | Cinematography: Rock Life Studios | Floral Design: Englewood Florist | Catering: Macaluso's | DJ: Esp Dj Entertainment | Venue: Macaluso's | Belly Dancer: Aisha-dance

Alexandra Grecco + A Discount + A Giveaway!

There’s a special place in my heart reserved for Alexandra Grecco’s fabulous tulle skirts. Why? They’re sassy + stunning, totally wearable for every occasion and have an extra dose of gorgeous sprinkled into every.last.layer. In other words, they’re the perfect addition to any e-session, going away brunch or holiday party. Prepare to be amazed, loves… these are the definition of awesome.

Based in the ever-fabulous Brooklyn, NY, each Alexandra Grecco masterpiece is available in an array of sizes + lengths and features a stunning silk waistband that provides that extra dose of pretty. Not to mention the insanely gorgeous color options. I’m talking soft, romantic shades like ivory, dusty blue and seafoam and a seriously sophisticated champagne hue that is the perfect complement to every party on your agenda. Which means that whether you’re heading downtown to meet your besties for coffee, brunching it up with the one you love or partying the night away, Alexandra Grecco has six layers of beautiful tulle just waiting to take your breath away.

Can’t wait to dance the holiday season away in a dazzling Alexandra Grecco tulle skirt? Click here for more info, and be sure to check out the Lace Elliot Top in ivory, pale gray, nude or black for pairing with your skirt, dress or even denim.

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SMP readers will receive 20% off their order with the code “stylemepretty15″… and that includes already reduced items!

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What: Alexandra Grecco is giving away a stunning tulle skirt in any size or color offered to one lucky SMP reader! (Value $188)

How: Simply leave a comment below telling us where you plan to wear your lovely Alexandra Grecco skirt!

Who: One winner, chosen completely at random, will be announced right here on SMP on Friday, December 4, 2015. For terms and conditions, click here. Good luck, lovelies! xo

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Photography: Elizabeth Messina | Hair: Brittany Romney | Makeup: Mandy Bisesti

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5 Tips For a Stress-Free Wedding Day Timeline

Making the decision to plan my own Big Day wasn’t an easy one. I may be a wedding blogger—but planning is a whole other realm. From vendor selection to style choices to timing, it’s easy as pie to fill your evenings with wedding-y things. I sooo wish I had known about Unveiled University, where the adorable details you’re about to feast your eyes on were created. Love & Light Photographs captured every bit, and they’re also letting us in on some back-pocket tips for creating a stress-free timeline!

From Love & Light Photographs… After the excitement of your engagement settles, you quickly realize that your new accessory doesn’t exactly come with a textbook on the subject! After reading countless magazine check lists, blog to-do lists, and fielding contradicting advice from family and friends, your head is left spinning and you are basically ready to elope.

This is why we have created a school specifically for throwing the biggest party of your life. You’ve got this! Unveiled University has curated the top local vendors to help you navigate everything from guest lists to decor, all while mingling with your classmates and teachers who have been freshman once before!

We know not everyone can grab a seat at our Asbury Park, NJ workshop this November, so here are 5 tips from one of our teachers Jessa of Love & Light Photographs to help your wedding day run as smoothly as possible…

5 Tips For Creating a Stress-Free Wedding Day Timeline

1. Have extra time than you think you need allotted to each part of your day. I would say 15 minutes at least! That way, if variables come up such as a family member is late or your buttons take longer to fasten than anticipated, everyone can breath a sigh of relief that you are still on schedule!

2. In the morning, have your details ready to go so your photographer can get straight to work! Sometimes it takes your team a good 30 minutes to get your wedding dress out of it’s wrappings and on your custom hanger – not to mention the 8 bridesmaid dresses! If you have a vision, help us get there faster so we can spend more time with you!

3. For family portraits, communicate to your family prior to your wedding day the starting time and where they need to be! Also, always tell them 15 minutes earlier than they actually need to be present. This allows for the tardy to actually be on time. Sometimes organizing a shuttle ensures that they arrive right on schedule instead of arriving in multiple vehicles.

4. A first look saves a lot of stress for couples and the family as a whole. You usually cannot have a traditional walk down the aisle first look AND they also enjoy their cocktail hour unless you have allotted time in between ceremony and cocktail hour. Family portraits, wedding party and portraits of the happy couple all have to happen within that hour if you opt out of the first look. Choosing a first look creates two hours of time to get all those formalities out of the way so you can enter cocktail hour with your photos complete and totally stress-free!

5. Hire a wedding coordinator. Why? They will keep your hair & makeup team on schedule. They will make sure your groom has his boutonniere for the first look. They will get your extended family on the shuttle and point them towards your family portrait location. They will tell your venue coordinator that your cinematographer and photographer have to leave at at a certain time so that cake cutting happens on time. She will hand out tips to your vendors throughout the day. No one else can do all of these things, and it will make such a difference on your stress levels! You will be blissfully unaware and dancing the night away without a care in the world.

Happy Planning! xx

Get a glimpse of all the action in this fun film from Between Sleep and Awake!

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Photography: Jessa Schifilliti, Photographer | Cinematography: Between Sleep and Awake | Event Design: Gilded Lily Events | Calligraphy: Mary Kate Moon | Venue: Cowerks | Rentals: Dovetail Vintage Rentals | Workshop: Unveiled University

Brideside + A Discount + A Giveaway!

It’s no secret around here that we’re uhb-sessed with Brideside  — the online retailer with a huge collection of designer bridesmaid dresses that offer a fresh take on wedding party fashion! With the help of a style consultant offering an extra set of eyes + some pretty fab suggestions, Brideside makes it easier than ever to outfit your besties. Ready to see what’s hot for 2016.

Hot off the bridal runway, here’s what Brideside’s style consultants are loving for this wedding season!

1) Separates: Especially the AltarEgo collection (a collaboration with bridal gown designer Kelly Faetanini). These stunners can be changed with a snap between the ceremony and reception. Offered in six short styles that can be work on their own or paired with any of the four long skirts for a full-length option, we can’t get enough of these separates! Not only can the chic skirts be removed at the reception for a totally different look, but they can be worn again and again after the big day!

2) Convertible Dresses: Let your ladies feel confident in a shape that works for them! These dresses can be tied different ways (think one shoulder, halter + and spaghetti straps) to give a bit of variance in your overall wedding party look.

3) Sequins + Metallics + Mixed Materials: OH my! We love a good mix + match, especially when it’s done around a perfect palette. Give your ladies a range of hues and then let them get creative! Mix it up with different materials, textures and shades of color — and the result? A perfect blend of personalities.

Choosing the best look for your ladies is as easy as opening an account and saving your favorite styles. From there, your style consultant can send swatches and even sample dresses to see in person with their try-at-home program! The simple online shop + checkout makes it easy to get dresses ordered and delivered with time to spare. Seriously, Brideside takes the guesswork out of wedding party attire.

We couldn’t be happier to share that Brideside isn’t just for the ladies anymore — they’re now offering tons of ties, bow ties, pocket squares and socks to coordinate with the rest of the wedding! To celebrate this exciting news, they’re giving the first 50 people to buy men’s ties $25 OFF using code SMPLOVESDUDES. Offer valid on men’s accessories purchases of $50 or more. Offer valid through 11:59pm CST October 28th, 2015.

But the fun’s not over just yet…

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The Prize: One lucky bridal party will win $250 toward their wedding party look!

To Enter: Head over here.  Contest closes on 10/30/15 at 11:59pm CST. Winner will be announced 11/4/15. Good luck!

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Elegant + Timeless Country Chic Wedding in New Jersey

A personalized wedding is a happy wedding, and a happy wedding is one that has SMP written all over it. Take this lovely from the lens of Elisabeth Millay Photography that is both intimately sincere and sweetly personal. From the Bride’s handsewn something blue, to the DIY’ed details, every single image is sure to send you into a pinning frenzy, and we’ve got it all in THE VAULT!

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From the Bride… My husband and I wanted a wedding that incorporated elements important to us, and this began with finding a venue that captured who we are as people, and as a couple. Since I grew up in the countryside in NJ, I knew I wanted our wedding to reflect this, and Hamilton Farm Golf Club was just 10 minutes from where I grew up. On top of having the chance of having our family and friends come to my hometown to celebrate our wedding, Hamilton Farm also houses the United States Equestrian Team, and used to be a location where many events and shows were held. I grew up riding horses nearby, and this venue brought together important aspects of my life – horses, the countryside, and my hometown. Hamilton Farm’s rolling hills and beautiful mansion was the perfect, peaceful place for our nuptials, and we knew this as soon as we stepped foot on the grounds.

In addition to finding the right venue, we knew we wanted to incorporate personalized elements into our day. Having our family and friends with us was the most important thing, and we wanted our wedding to be a relaxing and fun evening for everyone. We wanted an intimate wedding so that we could spend as much time with our guests as possible, and we achieved just that. Our ceremony was held outside in the sunshine and our cocktail hour under the trees outside the mansion. Afterwards, our guests moved to the beautiful tent, where delicious food was served and topped off with a red velvet wedding cake as well as homemade sweets made by our family and friends. Our love of our dogs was brought into the day by naming our specialty cocktails in their honor – the “Windy Whiskey” and “Morkie Margarita.” Instead of a traditional favor, we made a donation in honor of our guests to an organization near and dear to us, Guiding Eyes for the Blind. Our labrador (Wind) was a Guiding Eyes puppy whom we were fortunate to adopt after she was released from their program, and Guiding Eyes has remained a cause we are both passionate about.

My mom’s artistic abilities came to good use, and also allowed for our wedding to have the special, personalized touches that we hoped for. From hand sewing my initials into my wedding gown as my “something blue,” hand writing all of our wedding signs, creating our programs, designing and putting together our window seating chart, creating the belt for my gown, to putting personalized touches on all of our stationary – these touches made our wedding feel like us. My dad’s landscaping artistry was brought in through urns at the altar and in the reception. My husband’s love of reptiles was tied in through my gift to him on our wedding day – lizard socks! And his love of acoustic guitar was incorporated through a guitarist playing throughout our ceremony and cocktail hour. Both my bouquet and my husband’s boutonniere were wrapped with remnants of my wedding gown. Since my great grandmother had passed away, I was fortunate to wear her hair clip on my wedding day. My husband and I made the corn hole boards for the cocktail hour (which was quite a project!), and my mom made the corn hole bags. And, one of my favorite parts of our ceremony – when my uncle and godfather read one of his poems. It was all of these elements and more that made our wedding feel special and unique to us.

We had the most perfect September weather on our wedding day and we were lucky we had no rain. It all still feels like a dream! While I don’t think there is any advice that can fully prepare any bride for the many overwhelming emotions of her wedding day, my hope for other brides is to try to remember the little, important moments that day, because those are the ones worth cherishing. Seeing your partner for the first time, stealing a moment alone together prior to entering your reception, going for a walk after your ceremony and gushing all about it, sitting with your mom or dad that morning before all of the craziness, spending time with your besties while you get ready – these, and more, are the things that you will remember. While I have several favorite moments of the day, my very favorite was just after we said “I do” and we looked at each other as we walked down the aisle as our guitarist played a special song that he learned just for us, Tommy Emmanuel’s “Angelina.”

We were fortunate to have such amazing vendors, and our day turned out beautifully. We wouldn’t have changed a thing – in fact, we wish we could live it over and over again!

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Photography: Millay & Young Photography | Videography: Digital First | Floral Design: Jardiniere Fine Flowers | Wedding Dress: Elizabeth Johns | Cake: Coco Luxe Pastry | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Bella Bridesmaid | DJ: Craig Scott Entertainment | Groom's Attire: Men's Wearhouse | Officiant: Betty Coram | Wedding Venue: Hamilton Farm Golf Club | Flower Girl Dresses: Olive And Fern - Etsy | Guitarist: David Galvez | Robes: Silk And More

Romantic + Nautical Stone Harbor Wedding

The dress, the precious pup in the tux, and the portraits at the beach. Seriously, can this get any better? These high school sweethearts took their love for the outdoors, and paid homage to their engagement on the beach, with a nautical, seaside soiree that’s almost too pretty for words. Rachel Pearlman captured it all and her pics in our VAULT satisfy every pastel petal and dreamy dress craving imaginable!

From Rachel Pearlman Photography… Jacqueline and Brian celebrated their nuptials on the most perfect, sunny day in September, surrounded by family and friends in an intimate ceremony on the bay. For these high school sweethearts who got engaged on the beach, Jacqueline and Brian have a love for the outdoors and wanted a simple, yet chic wedding that would showcase their laid-back personalities. They chose the Reeds in Stone Harbor, an upscale boutique hotel with views of the bay that are almost as unique as Jacqueline’s sapphire engagement ring. Jacqueline is a natural beauty and opted for a simple but unique nude Anna Maier gown; her long hair was tied back in a loose knot. Her bridesmaids wore short-and-sweet nude dresses by Amanda Uprichard and carried fragrant bouquets made with locally-grown florals in ombre shades of pink and peach. Of course the bridal party wouldn’t have been complete without a cameo from Jacqueline’s beloved pup, Ben, who wore a pint-sized tuxedo! Brian saw Jacqueline for the first time as she walked down the aisle and the two shared a sweet photo session on the beach right before the sun set over the bay. EBE’s Monte Carlo band rocked the party, and guests enjoyed dinner and drinks under twinkling lights and an incredible sunset. Jacqueline and Brian surprised guests with a milk and donut bar, with homemade confections by The Reeds’ baker – delicious! The happy couple is jetting to Grenada to celebrate their honeymoon.

Photography: Rachel Pearlman Photography | Floral Design: A Garden Party | Wedding Dress: Anna Maier | Invitations: Minted | Rings: Benari Jewelers | Bridesmaids' Dresses: Amanda Uprichard | Hair And Makeup: Prive Salon And Style Bar | Band: Ebe Amsterdam | Groom's Attire: Burberry | Venue: The Reeds At Shelter Haven | Paper Goods: Minted

SMP Blogger Bride: Meet Dressed by Jess + Engagement

Roses are red, violets are blue, and we’re counting down the days until our newest Blogger Bride says “I Do”. Say hello to Jess of Dressed by Jess, who will be sharing her wedding planning journey with us. And if  her e-sesh from Love & Light Photographs is any indication of the pretty to come, we’re all going to live happily ever after. Scroll for more because we’ve got it all exclusively in THE VAULT!

From Jess of Dressed by JessHello SMP brides-to-be! My name is Jess Galfo (well, soon to be Mrs. Soave), and I am a style blogger over at Dressed by Jess, a place where I aim to inspire others to develop a harmony between clothes and their personality. I am a romantic at heart and spend a majority of my time obsessing over feminine details. Now that I am engaged I find myself constantly wanting to flood my blog with images of all the pretty details I’ve encountered so far in my wedding planning process. I’ve held back for months, but now that the official countdown to “I do” is on, I’m excited to share that I will be taking you inside my planning process with Style Me Pretty as a blogger bride! The wedding to-do lists are lengthy and I’m looking forward to sharing some tips on how I’ve managed to keep the process upbeat and fun. Okay, maybe it’s a bit stressful at times, but in a good way.

Before I get started there’s one very important person I need to introduce you to…my fiancé, Rob. He’s the one. The one I met six years ago on an unseasonably warm evening in early March. A mutual friend made the introduction. I can still remember the exact outfits we both wore and the smile he had on his face when I opened up his car door and we locked eyes for the first time. So many thoughts were running through my mind. I was nervous. Did my hair look okay? Did I pick out the right dress? Are those flowers in the back for me? Indeed, they were. My nerves calmed down and suddenly I thought, I want to get to know him.

Although we were strangers, I felt a sense of comfort and friendship. It was as if I knew him from a past life. That evening we dined at a waterfront restaurant on the Hudson overlooking New York City. We spent hours exchanging stories, laughing, eating, and just completely wrapped up in the moment.

Several months went by of weekly meet-ups and late night phone calls. It wasn’t long before he asked me to “bee” his girlfriend. Yes, he made a crossword puzzle for me to complete that spelled out “will you BEE my girlfriend?” I said yes. The years to follow consisted of new adventures together, out of country travels, and of course, indulging in more delicious food. We both love to eat and consider ourselves big foodies. The flip side of that coin, we also both love to workout and feel healthy. It’s as if we were made for each other!

As time passed by, vacation destinations quickly started getting checked off our list. We decided to take our first European trip together last fall. The destination? Paris. I always dreamed of visiting France and Rob suggested it would be the perfect time of year to visit. Not too hot, and the summer crowds would have died down by then. I was ecstatic and began counting down the days the moment we booked our flights.

After a very long, and sleepless (too excited to shut my eyes for even a minute) red eye flight, we finally arrived in Paris. On the first day of our trip, Rob suggested we grab a light lunch before heading out to explore the city. Our first stop, Jardin des Tuileries – the beautiful garden across the river from our hotel.

After near 14 hours of total travel I told Rob I needed to quickly freshen up before stepping out. I unpacked some things and ran into the side room, which connected to the closets and bathroom. After a few strokes of mascara and a swipe of lip-gloss, I felt fully prepped to roam the beautiful streets of Paris. I peeped around the corner to let Rob know that I was ready. It was then that I saw him standing in the middle of the room. Before I could process the change in my surroundings (he had shut the blinds and was holding the most beautiful arrangement of fully bloomed roses) he was holding my hand the tightest he’s ever held it. He was talking, but in that moment everything had gone black. I could no longer hear him. My heart was beating so fast. He pulled me closer to him and then went down on his knee. At that point I could barely stand, I had wrapped my arms around him and cried.

Little did I know he secretly planned an entire week in Paris for us, and in his words, “to celebrate the beginning of the rest of our lives together”- that part I remember. This was such a special moment for us. One that I will never forget! Check back here soon for more insight on our big day! xx

Photography: Jessa Schifilliti, Photographer | Makeup: Dinas Kiss Makeup | Hair: Drybar | Venue: Ashford Estate | Boater Hat: Forever 21 | First Dress: Rent The Runway | First Shoes: Dune | Flower Crown: Crowns By Christy | Rob's Pants: Express | Rob's Shirt: Express | Rob's Suit: Calvin Klein | Second Dress: Nordstrom | Second Shoes: J.Crew | Sign: Sugar & Grace

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