We are always the first to say that getting married represents a major milestone in the life of a couple. It’s the next step, a new and uncharted chapter to embark on together, and one of the most ‘adult’ things you’ve probably done, so far (of course, there are a lot of them that come after turning 18!). An engagement is certainly a turning point for the two of you, and one that’s completely deserving of all the fanfare, celebration, and excitement that comes after that ring, but it’s important to recognize that an impending wedding also earmarks a change in your relationships with the first loves of your life – parents, siblings, cousins, and best friends from the beginning, etc. And when such a time is upon you, taking a moment to love on those VIPs and thank them for everything they’ve done in the past, are doing at present, and will do in the future is so special.
When we launched our Style Me Pretty Shop, we not only wanted to fill it with items that would add all the pretty to your wedding day, we also wanted to curate bits and baubles, gifts and goodies that would bring magic to every event over the course of your engagement. From delightful cards that commemorate the all-important ask to your best girls and decorative tissues to help dry their happy tears to mugs and tumblers that remind every single one of your sisters that you’re stoked to have them in your bridal squad, they might not be engagement ring-rivaling expensive, but they’re invaluable nonetheless.
Take a peek at everything we have for you and your crew in the Wedding Party Shop on Style Me Pretty. And remember, you might be leveling up your love on the day you’ll say ‘I Do,’ but that doesn’t mean you’re leaving anyone behind!!
While your favorites will undoubtedly back you up and be by your side when you take your vows, it’s still a nice gesture to ask each of them, formally. Our ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ cards are simple and sweet and include enough room to hand write your proposition and a few additional tidings + casually slide in a tissue or two for blotting any mascara runs. We love the idea of including a photo of the two of you in every card and asking them to save it – and then, on your wedding morning, gifting each girl a shadow box that they can fill with your card, the photo that came in your proposal, and one taken on your big day. Just to signify that, yes, your relationship has changed, but it’s only gotten better with age!
When you’re planning a wedding, there will be times when you put your besties through it (asking them to help you research, make calls, put out fete-related fires, etc.) – it’s inevitable and they’ll understand it – but that doesn’t mean that you should take it for granted and move forward without thanks and appreciation. A lot of our Style Me Pretty gifts end up being the perfect things to say ‘I know that wasn’t fun, and I can’t thank you enough for putting up with it!’ Even just calling out how lovely or how pretty they are, it’s something small that goes a long way. Trust us!
Okay, so, just because you’re going from Miss. to Mrs., doesn’t mean you’ll be missing out on anything! There’s certainly a vibe change in the transition from girlfriend to girlfriend+1 for life, but if anything, when you’re coupled up for the long haul, you make room for all of the existing relationships in your life and do your best to prioritize them all! Whether you’re prepping for a bridal shower or a bachelorette, little things like ‘Let’s Bridal Party’ stemless wine glasses, girls night photo booth props, and glitter-crazy headbands make your ‘last fling before the ring’ feel as business as usual for your babe brigade!
They’re your bridesmaids and they’ll be showing up for you, so you should absolutely show up for them! Shop the full Style Me Pretty Collection now and visit our Wedding Party Shop for all the looks that’ll make your ladies feel the ❤️.