Accept your new family.
Your significant other is a product of people who raised him and who they grew up with. Welcome them for exactly who they are, says Gina Wade of Gina Wade Creative. "Do not put unreasonable expectations onto them or try to make them bend to your needs," she adds. "Parents are who they are and they likely aren't going to change. As the new bride, you should focus on all of the positives about your new family, and not waste time nit picking the negatives."

Keep tradition alive.
Tradition is very important to some parents, especially when it comes to faith and religion says Jennifer Borgh of Jennifer Borgh Events. She recommends listening to both sets of parents identify the thing that matters most to them on the big day. "Remember that going against tradition can be devastating to some parents," says Jennifer. "They truly believe you are destined to an unhappy marriage if you don't follow certain traditions. Be open to listening to their concerns and desires."

"What's great about Meghan Markle is that she is effortlessly bringing in her modern approach, while still respecting her future in-law's traditions and protocol," says Paula Ramirez of Historic Mankin Mansion. "Yes, she wore a sheer top for engagement pictures, and trousers to a royal engagement, but based on what she wore to her first outing with the Queen, you can be sure she isn't going to ruffle feathers when it comes to her wedding day fashion.

Often times, modern brides want to buck tradition, says Paula. But it's important to be mindful of how their choices impact others and if there can be some sort of in between that satisfies all.