5 Reasons It's OK to NOT Have Bridesmaids

Being surrounded by family and friends on your Big Day (and in the events leading up to it) is a wonderful thing. But sometimes, the pressure can be strong to abide by certain wedding traditions. Traditions that might not be fitting for you—including having bridesmaids. It can absolutely be a positive experience for many, don't get us wrong, but maybe it's not right for your personally. And you know what? That's 100% OK! Below are a few signs that having a bridal party might not be your jam.

You'd Rather Do Things Solo

As a bride, one thing I really wasn't looking forward to doing was a big dress shopping shindig with my girls. I know my own style very well and felt it would be so much more confusing and stressful if I had six of my bffs giving out their kind, but varying opinions. This rang true for many other eventful moments leading up to my wedding day. Feeling the same way? Don't feel pressured to have bridesmaids just to 'help' you with all of the details. If you're more comfortable doing things solo, go for it!

Choosing Between Friends

This can be such a challenge! I have several close girlfriends whose bridal parties would have been ridiculously large if they included every single one of their intimate friends. At some point you have to draw the line and maybe for you, forgoing a bridal party altogether is the right choice. Other options include have one maid of honor and one best man, or including your siblings only! Most importantly, don't fall into the guilt trap of having a bridal party because you don't want to let people down—this is your day and you should do what you're comfortable with.

The Financial Aspect

The larger your bridal party gets, the bigger you need to stretch your budget. In most cases, bridesmaids pay for their own dress and hair or makeup—but there are still bouquets, gifts, etc. If you'd rather allocate that budget elsewhere, that's OK! Remember, you'll still be able to celebrate with those same friends regardless if they are 'bridesmaids' or not.

Day of Duties

There are many day-of moments that provide fun opportunities to celebrate with your closest friends... from getting ready to having them stand by your side as you say your vows. But maybe you don't prefer to get ready with a group of girls or you'd rather stand alone as you say I do. Take a deep dive into the reasons you do or don't want a bridal party!

Near and Far

Whether you're having a destination wedding or not, your closest friends might not all be so close by. While the idea of wedding planning shindigs and late night bubbly sessions with your girls might sound fun for some, it’s not always feasible for everyone. And when you do get together with those friends during the days leading up to your I dos, you might not feel OK bombarding them with wedding tasks and would rather spend quality time together.

All in all, if you're not feeling the whole bridesmaid thing, there’s no reason to force it. As anything with your wedding, if something doesn’t feel right or just completely not YOU, skip it.