When it comes to celebrities tying the knot, there are a few lessons to be learned. Who doesn’t love flipping through the gorgeous photos, elaborate decor, and stunning florals? But by looking to the stars, you can also learn how to throw the wedding you’ve been dreaming about—without their star-sized bank account.
Keep it simple.
When Kelly Clarkson and Brandon Blackstock tied the knot in 2013, they had a low-key farm affair. Originally, they had a huge party planned, but Clarkson said that after getting too “overwhelmed” the couple opted for a reception that felt more like them. Don’t feel the pressure to have a huge, Gatsby-style dance party if that just isn’t your thing!
Consider an unplugged “I Do”.
When Kim and Kanye said their vows, they asked guests to not snap photos of their own. Now, you probably don’t have magazines willing to pay you millions for your wedding photos, but the point’s still a good one–by asking guests to leave the snapshot taking to the photographer, they’ll be more in the moment, your dress won’t be shared before you’re ready, and you won’t get tons of pictures of iPhone screens.
Emphasize what matters most to you.
Blake Lively has a passion for baking, so the dessert table at her wedding to Ryan Reynolds featured tons of different tasty treats instead of one wedding cake. Find a way to incorporate your passions and hobbies into your wedding vibe.
Make a weekend out of things.
Carrie Underwood’s 2010 nuptials to hockey player Mike Fisher included renting a resort for her family for the weekend. The day before she said “I Do”, Carrie was able to spend the day getting pedicures with her mom and two sisters, reminiscing and spending quality time together. When planning your wedding, don’t forget to make the day before special, too–it’s the last day of your single life and deserves to be cherished.
Don’t feel pressure to follow traditions.
When Amber Tamblyn walked down the aisle in 2012, she was rocking a bright yellow frock. Why? Because she wanted to! According to Amber, there’s “nothing really traditional” about her, so she wanted to wear a color she liked. When it comes to your wedding, wear what you want. If you’ve been dreaming about that white Cinderella gown since you were a little girl, go for it! But if you’d like to explore out-of-the-box hues, that’s okay too.
Style Me Pretty Contributor – Claire Swinarski is a writer and podcaster based in Wisconsin. When she isn’t writing, she can be found obsessing over football, eating a burrito bowl, or hanging out with her husband and son.