How Not to Be the Bride Who Overshares on Social Media

Modern brides have the advantage of so many amazing social media platforms at their fingertips. From Pinterest to Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and so many more, it's never been easier to involve your people in the planning journey, but that also comes with the question of, "How much is too much?" We're here to help you navigate the murky waters of wedding planning oversharing and be the cool bride who totally gets it right.

Set Boundaries

If you're the type of bride who feels compelled to regularly post about your wedding more than once a day, take some time to set a few boundaries. Maybe it's only posting on #WeddingWednesday or spacing out those amazing dress shopping photos over a few weeks vs. all at once. Trust us, your friends and family will totally thank you.

Use the Right Platforms

Not all social media platforms are created equally, so be thoughtful about what you post where. For example, save Instagram for those beautifully curated highlights, Snapchat for more off-the-cuff moments like bachelorette party pics, and Facebook for the full wedding album. 

Leave an Element of Surprise

It can be tempting to have your followers weigh in on each and every wedding details, but we suggest emailing your closest crew instead. Keeping the major details as a surprise reveal will be fun, and even appreciated by your guests.

Avoid the Humble Brag

You know who we're talking about. The bride who regularly posts, "I can't believe this is my life!" kind of updates with a #blessed for good measure. If you're feeling thankful, tell those you love in person and avoid the not-so-humble status.

Don't Constantly Gush About Your Guy

We get it, you love your soon-to-be. Of course you do! But be conscious if you're the girl posting Every. Single. Day. and perhaps unintentionally causing eye rolls everywhere.

Use Hashtags Sparingly

Pro tip: avoid creating a #DanandKimSayIDoInUtah sort of tag the very second you get engaged. Now this one isn't a hard-and-fast rule, per se, but it's always best to play it cool and let the big news settle before breaking out the custom hashtag.

Don't Post Negative Things About Vendors

There's nothing more frustrating than a bad vendor experience but your Facebook status isn't the place to vent. If you're having a conflict with your wedding planner or florist email, or even better, talk face-to-face and you're likely to have a much smoother experience. 

Be Cautious of the Countdown

Sharing the major milestones are one thing, but does everyone want to know it's 95 days, 6 hours and 2 minutes until your wedding? Nope, they do not. Keep the countdown in check and you'll have happier friends and family when the day does roll around.

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