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Kirsten requested a color palette of greens and creams with a gold accent color and they were reflected in all the details of the day – all gifted by the generous suppliers involved.
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As wedding planners, we are constantly searching for incredible venues, and Chateau de Bonneval certainly exceeded our expectations the moment we first saw it. Privately owned by Geraud and Marta de Bonneval, it has been in the Bonneval family for over 1000 years and is steeped in history. Open to a select number of intimate weddings each year; the chateau is a perfect setting for a romantic French wedding with a cobbled courtyard with twisted stone pillars, which we drenched with fairy lights for the wedding breakfast, which was served on circular tables with Kirsten and Ali seated at a sweetheart table. Inside are several staterooms with hand-painted murals on the ceilings and hand-carved detailing around the doorways. The tablescape continued with delicate green tapered candles, green linen knotted napkins, and a personalized iced cookie table plan commissioned by event designer India Bottomley. After dinner, the guests retired to the lawns in front of the chateau, where an open-air dance floor with a fairy-light canopy awaited them. After a quick change into their dancing shoes, Kristen and Ali danced the night away under the stars. The magical day was captured by award-winning photographer Anneli Marinovich Photography and videography by Matthias Guerin.
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The love story of Kristen and Ali will bring tears to your eyes as they overcame so many obstacles in the quest to get married. When Aliaskar spotted Kristen on the first day of medical school in Philadelphia, he said, “Time moved in slow motion, and music played” when he saw her face. Following two months of asking friends to introduce them, he arranged a first date with homemade crepes and a Disney movie — a surefire way to win over a pediatrician! Kristen describes how she knew Ali was the one as he made her life better every day through millions of small gestures. Their personalities are infectious, and even when they face the toughest of situations, they would still share private jokes and laughter. When Ali left to study on another campus, their love shone through even though they had a long-distance relationship and the struggle of working their way through med school. They adopted the cutest dog, Winston, who further proved the seriousness of their commitment to each other. However, from different religions and backgrounds, there was some difficult family feedback, but they continued to snatch moments together during their grueling schedules. When Covid hit particularly badly at Montefiore Hospital in the Bronx, where they were both completing their medical studies, they were dedicated to their cause and became crucial members of the medical teams who did their utmost to save lives as the pandemic raged around them. Their families could only watch on from a distance, hoping and praying they would be safe from the virus themselves. At the same time, the world locked down, and we watched on in horror as medical professionals shared the reality of the pandemic in their clinical settings. Feeling helpless, the team at Best Events Company came up with an idea to bring some light to a couple working on the front line of the pandemic as a small way of thanking them for everything they were doing. The idea of the giveaway wedding was born. The concept was met with immeasurable positivity within the industry, and a team of industry-leading vendors gathered to bring the project to life. Each and every vendor generously donated their time, products, and energy to say a huge thank you to the winning couple. The giveaway was launched with the team expecting a few hundred applications. With over 3,000 entries and countless interviews with shortlisted couples later, Kristen and Ali won the prize and were invited to meet some of their team virtually. Needless to say, there were tears all around as the couple couldn’t believe they would get married in a French chateau with an incredible list of vendors on board to create a true fairytale-worthy wedding for them. A date was set, and everything was on track when Covid forced us to postpone the original date of their wedding. But finally, in May 2022, the couple celebrated their big day, surrounded by their loved ones in France!
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Self-professed fashion addict Kristen chose an exquisite wedding dress by Monique Lhuillier, with forest green embroidery. The gown was paired with Bella Belle shoes, which the company gifted. She wore a stunning necklace and earrings gifted to her by her husband’s family, and her classically elegant hair and makeup look was created by the talented French HMUA Alexia Bigaud-Morin.
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Kristen’s bridesmaids were Ali’s sisters and her best friend. They all chose their own neutral-coloured dresses.
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Aliaskar wore a stylish cream tux, and his groomsmen wore black. All the alterations were carried out by his mother, who is a tailor.
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Dinner was a delicious BBQ (hog roast) followed by homemade desserts and lots of champagne to toast the happy couple, who were beyond grateful for all the hard work provided by the generosity of the vendors.
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Floral design by Le Coeur Sauvage Florist made the most of the romantic color palette of greens, creams, and gold. Divine stationery designed by Louise Richardson Stationery, and golden calligraphy wedding vows by Crimson Letters added a touch of nostalgia to the day.
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The cake was a simple naked cake gifted to the happy couple by Chloe Belles Cakes. The cake cutting took place under the stars right before the first dance.
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The unique story behind this wedding: During the height of the pandemic, a group of wedding suppliers (including myself) ran a competition to say thank you to healthcare workers, who worked tirelessly during the pandemic. We had over 3000 entries with the prize being to win your dream wedding (where all the suppliers gifted their services & products). Kristen & Ali, two selfless doctors from NYC who were entered into the competition by a friend, ended up winning and they were such worthy winners! Their wedding took place 17 of May 2022 at Chateau de Bonneval in France.
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THE ENTRY THAT WON OUR HEARTS: Tell us more about the couple: I’ve known Kristen and Aliaskar since they met during their first year of medical school in Philadelphia, and they have always been meant to be. The way Ali tells it (very sappily, I may add), he saw Kristen on the first day of medical school from across the lobby, and while he doesn’t say that he knew she was “the one,” he always talks about how “time moved in slow motion and music played” when he saw her face. He proceeded to ask all their mutual friends to introduce them. Finally, two months later, after a first date featuring homemade crepes and Disney movies (a plus for a future Pediatrician), he got the girl. While Kristen does not describe their first meeting quite as sappily, she describes knowing Ali is the one because of the million little ways he makes every day of her life better. I have never spent a day with them where they are not laughing together and making inside jokes, regardless of what they are going through or if they had spent the previous 5 minutes fighting. After being together for a year, Ali left for a different clinical campus and they spent a few years in different cities, which was not particularly easy while going through medical school. Through this time, they learned how to prioritize each other and their love, and most importantly, they adopted a dog that Kristen refuses to acknowledge may love Ali more. Now over five years later, after couples-matching into Pediatrics and Internal Medicine, they are doing life together in NYC. Their relationship has overcome many obstacles, the biggest of which is their different religious backgrounds leading to family conflict. The heartache they have been through to stay together is hard to describe-from threats of disownment to holidays spent apart and shifts in how they relate to their family. On top of this, they deal with typical resident issues like working opposite schedules 80-100 hours a week. Like Romeo and Juliet, they are forbidden, star-crossed lovers who continue to fight to be together (albeit with a happy ending!). Time and time again, I have witnessed their sacrifices in their personal lives and professional lives for each other and for their love. Because of their family situation and with the additional stress of insurmountable debt from medical school, planning a future together and a wedding has been close to impossible. Rather than their dream wedding, their discussions have shifted over time to city hall. They don’t need a dream wedding in order to be perfect for each other, but I don’t know another couple who deserves a fairytale ending more. Tell us about the work they do: Kristen is a Social Pediatrics Resident, and Aliaskar is an Internal Medicine Resident, both at Montefiore Medical Center in the Bronx. The Montefiore system serves primarily low socioeconomic patients. Most of Kristen’s patients live in the poorest congressional district in the country. COVID has hit NYC harder than anywhere in the U.S., and patients in the Bronx at Montefiore have been disproportionately affected due to their health inequalities, chronic diseases, and low socioeconomic status. At this time, Bronx patients are twice as likely to die from COVID compared to other NYC residents. Their hospital has been featured in New York Times articles and 60 Minutes due to how severely they have been hit by the COVID epidemic. Kristen and Ali are like other doctors in training, ubiquitously known for being overworked and under-paid. All things in the hospital that fall through the cracks fall onto them as residents. Due to the severity of the COVID outbreak at Montefiore, Kristen has been pulled from taking care of children to taking care of adults (a challenge no Pediatrician has wished on themselves). Ali’s program has taken the brunt of the epidemic, forcing them to work longer hours with fewer breaks. The cafeteria, lecture halls, and office spaces have been converted to patient rooms – quadrupling his usual patient load. While they fight COVID on the front lines, they receive daily phone calls from family members begging them to quit their jobs out of fear. But quitting is not an option now when they know that patients will die without them and their colleagues. It is impossible to describe what it is like practicing medicine in NYC right now. There are constant overhead alarms echoing “CODE BLUE, CODE BLUE,” a signal that Ali’s team needs to run immediately to rescue a patient who is on the precipice of death. They do this day in and day out despite having little personal protective equipment, low ventilator supplies, and low medication supplies. While it sounds like a cheesy movie, in the stress of the COVID pandemic, Ali and Kristen know more than ever how important their love for each other is. While they planned on getting married at city hall this summer, I know they now have nightly conversations about wishing they could get married sooner because of the expectation that one of them will likely get sick. However, because of their work schedules, this is not a possibility for them either. After all they have sacrificed for each other and for all their patients, this giveaway would give them a light to look forward to – a chance to have their dream wedding when they commit to fighting together forever.
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Photography: Anneli Marinovich Photography | Cinematography: Matthias Guerin | Event Planning: Best Event Co | Floral Design: Le Coeur Sauvage Florist | Wedding Dress: Monique Lhuillier | Wedding cake: Chloébelle's Cake Boutique | Invitations: Crimson Letters | Invitations: Louise Richardson Stationery | Catering: Hog King | Catering: Glamping Tipis | Catering: Simpers Kitchen | DJ: Loose covers | Celebrant: Lisa Lister | String Quartet: Laura Springham | Wedding Venue: Chateau de Bonneval | Accessories: Vivi Embellish | Beauty: Alexia Bigaud-Morin | Favours: Forged Art | Favours: Sophies Barn | Ice cream van: Vintage Ice France | Jewellery: Chateau Chic by Marcia | Luxury Loos: Luxury Loos France | Marquees: La Bonne Fete | Planning: Brides in France | Rentals: Our Fabulous Things | Rentals: Event Box France | Veil: Sash Veil | Weddings Rings: House of Solus
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