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[field title=”Wedding Colors”]
From the beginning, I knew I wanted our wedding colors to be neutral, earth tones. A variety of greens, ivory, browns, and even some dusky pinks/purples. I wanted the space to feel intimate, warm, and comfortable. I wanted to incorporate color since it was summer season, and I wanted to do so with all my girls. They wore jewel tones and metallics. Everything really did just fall perfectly into place.
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[field title=”Design / Vibe / Vision”]
Santa Ynez Ranch is so special. My mom & I decided to make a day trip to Santa Ynez to tour some venues. The moment we drove through the gate, we knew it was the place. We were greeted by Nash, the ranch dog. I had always dreamt of getting married on a property with horses. I grew up around them, and they just bring me so much peace & comfort. & it just so happened a baby horse was being born in April before our wedding. How amazing is that? The reception space is an authentic barn, & it’s gorgeous. My mom also grew up with horses, so it was a special tribute to her in a way. The property also had guest houses, where we were able to stay for the weekend. ○ When planning and designing this day, I wasn’t necessarily focused on a “theme”. I was focused on the feeling – how I wanted our guests to feel, how I wanted Griffin and Ime and our families to feel on such a special day. I wanted our guests to know that every detail was intentional. From the handwritten letters, the music, the drinks, the space, every detail had a purpose and meaning. Our wedding day was going to be special to us, no matter where we were. I wanted our people to feel it too. With that all in mind, the details came easily. Creating a space, hosting, and bringing people together have always been so important to me. I love the way you can make people feel through a space. I truly had dreamt of this day since I was a little girl.
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[field title=”Proposal Story”]
I love reflecting on our proposal, because it truly was all Griffin. I couldn’t have dreamt up a more perfect day. We got engaged in our hometown, Long Beach, CA. Griffin & I met when we were 14. We were friends for years before we started dating. We both grew up here, we met here, we fell in love here, and one day we will raise our children here. Long Beach is so special to us and who we are. Griffin planned the most incredible proposal; it was so unique to us. I came home that (very rainy) morning to my best friend standing in my kitchen, with a bottle of champagne and a handwritten letter from Griffin. It was the beginning of a scavenger hunt through our city, the stops along the way included our favorite spots, meals, and people. & each stop included a letter from him. My sister and my other best friend met us at a stop. My friends & I always joke that he basically just planned the most epic girls’ day for us, until the final letter led me to Griff. & at this point, the rain had completely stopped, clear blue skies. He was waiting with our dog at a spot in Long Beach that overlooks the peninsula, a spot we have grown up going to together. He even arranged for our photographer, Hayleigh, to be there and capture it. After the proposal, Griffin had planned an entire surprise engagement party with our closest family and friends. Our wedding day was, of course, one of the best days of our lives, but I’m not sure many things will top proposal day.
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[section title=”The Fashion”]
[field title=”Wedding Gown”]
I wore Vivienne Westwood, the Nova Camille, from Loho Bride. I think I always knew I wanted to wear one of her gowns. I love the vintage feel behind her dresses; she truly is a one-of-a-kind designer. Her dresses are unique, yet classic and timeless. & when I started wedding dress shopping, I learned I really loved a corset, and hers are just so good. The second I put on the dress, I knew it was the dress I was going to wear on our wedding day. It had all the details that I didn’t know I wanted in my wedding gown. I also got my veil from Loho Bride, by Homa. I knew I wanted lace/floral details in my veil. It was just perfect. I love that veil so much. My experience at Loho Bride was amazing. The team there is incredible, and so good at what they do.
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[field title=”Bridesmaid Dresses”]
I wanted my girls to feel comfortable and themselves. They all have such good style, and it’s their own. So I trusted them to pick their own dresses. The only guidance I gave was “jewel tones”. My sister, who was my Maid of Honor, wore a stunning Retrofete metallic dress. It was perfect because it allowed us to stand out. My mom also wore metallic. It all tied together so well.
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[field title=”Groomsman Attire”]The boys wore black tuxedos. I love a classic black tux, bow tie, suspenders.
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[section title=”The Details”]
[field title=”Food & Drink”]
We used Field to Table, and they are absolutely incredible. The process with them was seamless and fully customized. Down to our favorite apps, and late-night pizza, they made fresh in the pizza oven at Santa Ynez Ranch. We worked with Alex, and he was just the best. Alex & the entire Field to Table team are so good at what they do. To this day, we still get compliments on how good our wedding food was. ○ For drink, we worked with Fig&Feather. Claudia is amazing. This was also a fully customizable experience. Our signature drinks were a Hugo Spritz & a Lavender Margarita. We are tequila drinkers, so we knew a margarita had to be in the mix. Our venue has the most beautiful lavender field, and there are tons in the area. So Claudia brought our vision to life. Another little intentional detail that we loved. We also offered specialized virgin drinks & a coffee bar. It was important to us that our non-drinkers had a special, one-of-a-kind experience as well. The coffee cart was a hit, and Bottega Bar has the cutest setup and the most delicious coffee.
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[field title=”Florals & Decor”]
I had the best time curating the details of our day. I miss every little moment. Pinstripe linens, minimally detailed flatware, drapery, and natural, organic florals. & of course, a green checkered dance floor lit up by disco balls (we take a dance floor very seriously around here). ○ Guests entered the venue, greeted with a spritz or lemonade. For the ceremony, the space didn’t need much. I didn’t want the beauty of the venue to be overlooked. I wanted the space to feel soft and romantic. A curved aisle lined with florals, & a “floral meadow” at the altar. ○ Guests entered the cocktail hour in the courtyard. It was an indoor/outdoor space. I loved the bar room at our venue. Outside,e we had our cocktail tables with green pinstripe linens. Griffin & I also did our entrance during cocktail hour. This is our favorite part of a wedding; we obviously did not want to miss it. Each guest had a personal handwritten letter from me & Griffin. This was a labor of love, but worth every second. In the months leading up to the wedding, we genuinely loved doing this. It allowed us to reflect on every person that was a part of the day, our relationship & memories with them, and how special they are to us. I remember Griffin & I sitting at the dining room table in tears, thinking about how lucky we are to be surrounded by so much love and have a love that was supported by so many. We were, and are, so beyond grateful. ○ The reception was in the barn. Again, we loved our venue so much that I really didn’t want to take away from it. I wanted to add to it, to bring in decor that fit the space. We added drapery to warm up the space & add some romance. The tables were a warm ivory linen, with brown pinstripe napkins. Our dance floor was green & white checkered, with disco balls. I wanted the dance floor to be lit up by disco balls (a very specific request of mine). Hayleigh captured the best photos of this. Bella Vista Designs did an incredible job with the drapery & disco balls. We got all our other rentals from Premier Party Rents, including the custom dance floor. I had an incredible experience working with this company. ○ Kayla, our florist, is such an artist. She is so incredibly talented. She brought it all to life. The florals tied the entire space and my vision together. We focused on anthuriums, amaranthus, and cala lilies. She was such a pleasure to work with and exceeded my floral expectations. ○ I made a conscious effort to make the wedding planning process more than just that. Griffin & I made date nights out of everything. And my mom & I got to spend so much time together. She came to all the meetings, tasting, and mock-ups. She was so supportive, and I could tell how much it all meant to her. It was such a special, surreal time. It meant so much to me, the type of memories you hold onto for a lifetime. I get so emotional looking back on it all.
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[field title=”Wedding Cake”]
We got our cake from a local bakery, The Solvang Bakery. We had a 3-tiered cake with vintage-style piping. With vanilla, red velvet, and most importantly, funfetti.
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[field title=”Readings, Ceremony Music, Reception Songs”]
We wanted a way to honor our grandparents during the ceremony. We are both so close to our grandparents. My grandpa was a high school football coach and principal. So he’s a natural when it comes to public speaking. He did a reading during the ceremony (using no notes, might I add), advising on love & marriage. My grandma & him have been married for 60 years, so they know a thing or two. It was so special and very emotional to have him up there with us. ○ Our very good friend, who is more like family, married us. I nannied for his children for many years. & now Griffin is a part of the family too. The bond you create while caring for children is something special; there is nothing like it. His wife was my matron of honor, his daughter a junior bridesmaid, and his son, whom I’ve been watching since he was 1, was our ring bearer. They are so special to us. ○ We read our personal vows during the ceremony. We always knew we wanted to do our vows in front of everyone. We know our love, when we decided to have a wedding, it was because we wanted to share it. Those 30 minutes were the most present I have ever felt. Time stood still. It was intimate, raw, and perfect. The ceremony was so personal.
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[field title=”Special Detail #1″]
Music was one of the most important details to me. I love curating playlists. Music is so nostalgic. I love how one song can take you back to a single moment. Reliving all the emotions felt in that moment. I spent months before the wedding curating playlists for each part of the day, listening to them in order. I really thought about the mood I wanted to create for every part. I still have all the playlists, & I love being able to listen to them, reliving it all. ○ Griffin and his boys walked down the aisle to River by Leon Bridges. We love his music, and this album played such a huge role in our relationship over the years. My girls walked down the aisle to Amsterdam by Gregory Alan Isakov. The groomsmen and the bridesmaids walked down the aisle individually. Griffin obviously has a special relationship with each of his boys, but he also has a personal relationship with each of my girls. He had a small moment up there with every one of them, and it was so special. He totally cried the entire time. I walked down the aisle with my dad. We walked to Sweet Disposition by The Temper Trap. While I wanted this moment to be emotional, I also wanted it to be exciting. This is one of my favorite songs, and it creates that feeling exactly. ○ We walked back down the aisle Are You Gonna Be My Girl by Jet. Another one of my favorite songs, and by this point, we were on such a high. We wanted a song that expressed that. ○ Our first dance was Harvest Moon by Neil Young. I grew up listening to Neil Young and Bob Dylan. Two of my favorite artists, their music is so nostalgic to me. Neil Young was obviously the more appropriate artist for a wedding song over Bob Dylan. I danced with my dad to Warm Love by Van Morrison, another big artist from my childhood. Griffin & his mom danced to How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You) by James Taylor. A very special artist to both of them. ○ Our final song of the night was Fat Bottomed Girls by Queen. Griffin’s choice, and he wasn’t budging on this one.
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[field title=”Special Detail #2″]To us, every detail was special. That sounds so silly, but I can tell you that every
single detail that went into that day was intentional. Nothing was random. & I
think that’s what made the day so special to us & our guests. The love was felt all
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Photography: Hayleigh Mckay Photos | Cinematography: Will Proctor | Event Planning: Sierra James Events | Floral Design: Thistle Oak Floral Co. | Wedding Dress: Vivienne Westwood | Wedding Dress: Loho Bride | Cake: Solvang Bakery | Invitations: Studio Cynth | Catering: Bottega Bar | Catering: Field To Table Events | DJ: Second Song | Wedding Venue: Santa Ynez Ranch | Beauty: Brittany Brown Beauty | Rentals: Bella Vista Designs, Inc | Rentals: Premiere Rents | Rentals: Bottega Designs | Rentals: Jump On The School Bus














































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































